Uzokholelwa ukuthi unodoli ofanelekayo wocansi angakunikeza ukwaneliseka okungcono kunowesifazane

Kubantu abathanda ucansi ngempela, Idoli locansi lowesilisa kungase kube abahambisanayo abafanelekile. Ukuphatha omunye umuntu nakanjani kwenziwa ngamabomu, kodwa ngobunkimbinkimbi obujwayelekile bokuphatha esinye isidalwa. Asikusekeli ukukhetha amarobhothi ocansi esikhundleni somuntu ngamunye. Eqinisweni, sicabanga ukuthi imibhangqwana ingakwazi ukuzuza ngempela ngokusebenzisa amarobhothi ocansi, ngoba manje wonke umuntu umatasa futhi kunzima ukuthola indlela yokuba ngabanye. Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi okunye okugqugquzela abantu ukuthi babone umuntu elwa kuwumphumela oqondile wokushoda kokuziphatha kocansi. Uma udinga ngempela "ukuchuma", amarobhothi ocansi ahlala etholakala. Ngosizo lwalabo nodoli, imibhangqwana ingaba nokuhlangenwe nakho okwanelisayo kobulili nomaphi lapho bekhona.

Liyini irobhothi locansi? Ngokuphathelene nokuqina kobuchopho, uma ucabangela ukuthi ungaqiniseka ukuthi awukho engozini esobala yokutheleleka, amarobhothi ocansi ayamangalisa. Ama-STD awalawuleki kakhulu embonini yocansi. Ukuya endlini yezifebe kufana nokudlala ngezikhali. Ingozi yokugula iphezulu kakhulu. Irobhothi locansi lingase lingazizwa lingokoqobo (kodwa liseduze), kodwa nakanjani liyindlela ephephile. Asicabangi ngawe, kodwa sikhetha ukungabhekane nenselelo, okuyinto engeyinhle kakhulu. Akusoze kwaba kuhle.

Lamathoyizi angasiza imibhangqwana ukuba igcine ukuziphatha kobulili lapho ingakwazi ukuthintana. Ngo-2020, sizogxila ekwethuleni Unodoli wezocansi kanye neminye imikhiqizo engasiza abantu ukuthi bajabule ukuze baqinisekise isipiliyoni socansi esiphephile nesijabulisayo. Manje lezi ekugcineni zibhekwa njengemikhiqizo enempilo. Kodwa namanje sisakhula. Ukukhanya bekulokhu kukhanya ngakunye kwezempilo yezocansi, kugqamisa ukubaluleka kwakho. Ngokugxila emikhiqizweni yezempilo yezocansi, uguquko seluzokwenzeka.

Ngokubona amandla ale mikhiqizo, osomabhizinisi bangase bagxile ekukhiqizeni kwabo. Ikakhulukazi njengoba lolu bhubhane lungakapheli, usongo lwezinhlobo ezintsha zegciwane eziyingozi kakhulu ziyasondela. Lokhu kuzobe sekuholela ekukhuphukeni komklamo omusha womkhiqizo kanye nokufezeka kwezitayela ezintsha empilweni yezocansi. Sexologist kanye Unodoli wezocansi waseJapan uchwepheshe wezempilo uRebecca Alvarez wabhala ukuthi u-2021 uzowushintsha ngokuphelele umkhuba wezempilo yobudlelwano obuseduze. Inkampani egxile ekwenzeni ubudlelwano obuseduze bujabulise ngokwengeziwe ngokusebenzisa ukunakekelwa kokuhlanza kanye nemikhiqizo yezempilo yezocansi Umnikazi, ubhale mayelana nezici ezine zokushayela ezizoqhubekisela phambili ukukhuthaza imikhiqizo yezempilo yezocansi.

Unodoli wezocansi anganikeza kanjani abantu umuzwa wesintu, ukufaka kalula esikhundleni sowesifazane ocansini, nakanjani kuzokwenza uzizwe uxakile. Nokho, lokhu kulungile ngokuphelele. Kunezizathu eziningi ezinamandla ezizokuholela ekukholweni ukuthi unodoli ofanele wocansi angakunika ukwaneliseka okungcono kunowesifazane.

Empeleni kunezinzuzo eziningi zokukhetha onodoli bamadoda esikhundleni sabesifazane noma amantombazane. Abantu abaningi bayayisebenzisa Unodoli wezocansi weTpe ukuze banelise izifiso zabo zocansi. Lokhu kuvame kakhulu futhi asikho isidingo sokukhathazeka nganoma yini. Onodoli bobulili bamanga kuwebhusayithi yethu babhekwa njengenketho enhle yokujabulela amaphupho ocansi. Akungabazeki ukuthi onodoli bethu bobulili bangakusiza ukwanelisa izifiso zakho zobulili ngezinga elikhulu kakhulu.