Kuyinhlanhla ukuba nentombi eqotho kuwe, kepha kwamanye amadoda, awanayo inhlanhla enjalo. Ngenxa yokuziphatha noma ukubukeka kwabo, amantombazane angahle angakhangwa yibo. Abantu abanjalo bangazizwa benesizungu ngempela, futhi akukho okungcono kunokuthi Unodoli wezocansi. Njengamanje, onodoli bezocansi emakethe bahlukaniswe baba amabanga aphezulu, aphakathi nendawo naphansi. Amanani asukela kumakhulu ambalwa wamadola kuya kumashumi ezinkulungwane zamadola, noma ngisho namakhulu ezinkulungwane zamadola.
Ngale ndlela, amaqembu aphezulu, aphakathi nendawo nalawo angahola amanani anjalo, okungesinye isizathu esibalulekile esenza onodoli bezocansi bathengise kahle. Ubuye wengeza ukuthi ngezizathu ezahlukahlukene, lesi sinqumo sibukeka sinengqondo, noma ngabe ubuchwepheshe buvumela ukuthi bungakwenzi lokho. EJapan ekuqaleni kwekhulu lama-20, kwakukhona "nodoli wethusi", okwakungunodoli wezocansi osuselwa emfanekisweni wezinhlamvu zasendulo zamaShayina. Umphakathi ngaleso sikhathi wawungowesigaba esiphakeme futhi uthenge amathoyizi akhethekile.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, isebenzisa izinto zayo zokwakha ukusetha ubuwena bomphakathi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukwanelisa izibungu zabo. Ukuthuthuka kwalaba nodoli bezocansi emphakathini waseJapan akukaze kwenzeke futhi kujwayelekile kakhulu. Ukuba nodoli wezocansi kuzolapha impilo yakho yonke. Ngeke nje ube nempilo esebenzayo kakhulu yezocansi, kepha futhi uzothokozela izinzuzo ezingeziwe ezilethayo, njengokunyuka kokujula kwemijikelezo yokulala namaphethini angcono usuku lonke. Uma kukhulunywa ngezinkinga zempilo yomuntu siqu, ukuthenga unodoli wezocansi kungenye yezinqumo ezinhle kakhulu ongazenza futhi kungalapha ngokushesha ukucindezeleka kwakho nesizungu.
Ngokuyinhloko kuya ngokuthi uvulela kanjani abantu abaseduze nawe futhi wamukele umuntu wesithathu ongaphili ukuze azisize. Onodoli bezocansi baletha ithemba kulaba bantu. Inani elikhulu labantu abanesizungu banodoli bezocansi. Banomuzwa wokuthi kufaneleke kakhulu ukuba nezinto ezingaphili kunokuba kube ngabantu bangempela. Bacabanga ukuthi lokhu kungaphezu kwamandla abo.
Kungasiza noma ngubani onenkinga yokukhathazeka komphakathi ukuthi ayeke ukudangala. Isizathu abantu abaningi abasithandayo onodoli bezocansi abashibhile ngukuthi onodoli bezocansi bahlala belalela njalo, abalwi, bangabi nomona futhi ungabahlukumezi. Yize abanye abantu bethi impendulo yomuntu konodoli bezocansi iyindlela engokwemvelo yokuphendula izinto ezingajwayelekile, ezihlosiwe nezixakile, njengokuphendula kwezinambuzane emithonjeni ehlukahlukene yokushisa nokukhanya.
