Kodwa iphuzu liwukuthi onodoli bocansi bangenza ukuphila kwakho kube ngcono

Yiqiniso, kungase kube khona ukungalungi okungenzeka. Uma uzama ukuxoxa ngesinqumo sakho ngomoya ophansi, omunye umuntu ngeke asiqonde isinqumo sakho. Uma wazi ngomphakathi, noma uma ufuna ukutholwa ngomqondo othile, lokhu kungase kube nezihibe. Ngemva kokufaka impilo yakho yocansi ohlelweni lwakho lwakusihlwa, ungathola ukuphumula okungcono. Ukusebenzisa onodoli bezocansi abashibhile ingakusiza ukuthi ufinyelele umvuthwandaba wesikhathi sakho sokulala ngokushesha nangempumelelo kakhudlwana. Kodwa iphuzu liwukuthi onodoli bocansi bangenza ukuphila kwakho kube ngcono.

Uhlobo olusha lukanodoli wocansi e-Indiana, e-U.S.A., ngenxa yokuthi lungase luveze imiphumela eyakhayo empilweni yakho futhi lungakusiza uthole izinzuzo ezengeziwe kulo mbono—kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umphumela unjani. Lapho onodoli bocansi baseJapane bekhona ukuze bakuphelezele, akusadingeki amadoda abuyele ezindlini zawo ezingenalutho. Labo nodoli abayona nje imikhiqizo yocansi. Eqinisweni, bangabalingani beqiniso. Uma umkakho ekhulelwe noma esesikhathini, asikho isidingo sokumhlupha ukuze ahlangabezane nezidingo zakho ezingokwenyama.

Okulandelayo, ake sikhulume ngokulala, okuwusizo kakhulu ekuchumeni kwethu. Hhayi ngoba kusivimbela ekubeni izilo ezicasulayo, kodwa ngoba kuqinisa uhlaka lwethu olungabhubhi, kwenza ukuhlakanipha kwethu kwanelise, kunciphisa ukukhungatheka nokushuba, futhi kwakha ubuhle bethu—noma uma kungekho okunye, Kungavimbela ukuwohloka. Tshela laba bantu ukuthi kanjani I-WM Doll babe ngamakhosikazi amahle. Ulindeni?

Qhubeka, ukungasebenzi kocansi akuyona inganekwane, kodwa kungokoqobo kakhulu. Uma sikhuluma iqiniso, abesilisa nabesifazane babhekana nemiphumela yako emibi. Yilapho onodoli bocansi bengaboleka khona usizo. Uma abantu ababili bekwazi ukuthola indlela yokusebenzisa i- Unodoli Wothando ukuze bafinyelele esiqongweni, khona-ke bayoqiniseka ngokwengeziwe ukufinyelela kuvuthondaba nabalingani babo, ngoba izinhliziyo zabo zizobe zizolile. Nakuba ama-orgasm kungafanele abe umgomo omkhulu wokuya ocansini ngoba nawo ahlobene nokuhamba ngomkhumbi, akunakuphikwa ukuthi angakwazi ukuhambisana nalokho osekukuhle.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, onodoli bocansi bakwenza ukwazi ukuzama izinto ezihlukene ngezinzwa ezihlukahlukene, izindawo ezishukumisayo, nezindawo okugxilwe kuzo zokuzijabulisa ngesikhathi esifanayo ngendlela evikelekile, okwenza wazi ukuthi yini ekwenza uzizwe ungcono. Ngaleso sikhathi, ungakwazi ukuhlela kabusha lo mhlahlandlela ngokwakho, noma wazi kahle ukuthi yini ofuna ukuyidlulisela kozakwenu. Uma lezi zidoli zihlala zikulungele, khona-ke uma umlingani wakho engekho esimweni sokulala nawe nganoma yisiphi isizathu esikhethekile, akufanele uzibophezele kumlingani wakho. Labo nodoli bangakunikeza wena nomlingani wakho isikhala esidingekayo ukuze usindise umshado ngempela.

Okokugcina, imibhangqwana ezama ukulala embhedeni izohlala ndawonye isikhathi eside futhi iveze obala ngezidingo zabo. Ukuzama ukuziphatha okusha kocansi kunganciphisa ukukhathala, kunciphise amathuba okukopela, futhi kuthuthukise ukuxhumana okuvamile phakathi kwabahambisana nabo. Lapho imibhangqwana ivula izinhliziyo zayo ezintweni ezintsha, ivuselela ukukhulumisana phakathi kwabahambisanayo, okubalulekile ekuboneni amandla obudlelwane okuvamile nokuhlangana. Idoli locansi lowesilisa kokubili kuyindlela evikelayo nethembekile yokugcina izinto eziphezu kombhede zifudumele.