Abanye babo baze bathi lokho kwenziwa I-WM Doll akasoze aqamba amanga, akhohlise noma agxeke, njengenyama negazi elijwayelekile abesifazane futhi futhi bangcono kakhulu kunodoli abaphilayo. Uma kukhulunywa ngodoli bezocansi abadala ababamba amehlo eNyakatho Yorkshire, hlola izinketho ezitholakala ezitolo ezahlukahlukene.
Ngisho nochwepheshe abaningi bayavuma ukuthi onodoli abanomzimba owenziwe ngokwezifiso nemibala yabo bakhanga kakhulu amadoda amaningi. Vele, amantombazane amaningi athanda onodoli besilisa abenziwe ngezifiso, ikakhulukazi uma ubanikeza ngokungazelelwe. I-Thailand icebile ngamasiko, ukuzijabulisa nokudla.
Imininingwane ifakazela ukuthi onodoli bezocansi basiza umphakathi ukunciphisa izinga lamacala okudlwengulwa abangelwa yizinkinga zomzimba zocansi, futhi kuletha nobudlelwano nasebekhulile. "Njengendlela yokusiza abantu ukuthi babhekane nezifiso ngemuva kokuphela kwesikhathi sokuqala kosizi, ngicabanga ukuthi lokhu kungenye yezinto ezinhle kakhulu abangazenza, ikakhulukazi uma bengafuni obunye ubuhlobo." Izinsizakalo zocansi zinikezwa lapho zifunwa.
Uma kunguzakwethu wangempela, kusadingeka ukuthi sicabangele izifiso zethu ngaphambi kokwenza ucansi, kepha onodoli bezocansi bahlala benikezwa ngokufunwa. Uma unodoli, ungenza uthando ngendlela othanda ngayo ngaphandle kokukhononda noma ukuthukuthela. Lapho iqembu elikhulu lingakwazi ukuhlangana nomphakathi ngenxa yezidingo ezijwayelekile zabantu, kungaba umphakathi noma abaphathi bezenhlalakahle, bayohlala bekulungele yini "ukuvimbela izinkinga ngaphambi kokuba zenzeke"? Kuphephe ngokuphelele ukusebenzisa onodoli bangempela bothando.
Ake sihlole ezinye zezinzuzo eziphambili zokuzisebenzisa lapha. Unodoli wezocansi weTpe kunezinzuzo eziningi kunabesifazane ekusunguleni ubudlelwano bezocansi ngaphandle kwezingxabano. Banikeze ithuba lokuthi baphinde bathole ukusondelana okulahlekile nowakwakho. Futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, bangakwenza lokhu ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngokukhohlisa umlingani wakho. Vumela omunye umuntu aqonde ukuthi onodoli abadala bezocansi abakwazi ukunikeza uthando lweqiniso njengabantu bangempela. Yize unodoli engasikhulula isizungu lapho elingisa indawo, kodwa awusaphili.
Noma unesinamathiseli esiqinile kudoli wakho, unodoli akasoze akubuyisela. Ngakho-ke, kungashiwo ukuthi ukuba nonodoli bezocansi akufanele kuthathwe njengokukhohlisa ngokomzwelo. Lamadoli ocansi afana nempilo aya ngokuya ethandwa kakhulu kulezi zinsuku, aklanywe kahle aze afinyelela ku- $ 100,000. Onodoli bezocansi abadumile kuphela, kepha amahholo wesipiliyoni lapho ungabuka khona onodoli bezocansi aqhamuke emhlabeni wonke. Idokhumentari ye-US Channel 5 "Imboni Yabantu Abadala: Mina Nodoli Wami Wocansi" ihlola umhlaba walaba nodoli ngokujulile.
