Gwema ukusebenzisa izinto ezilimazayo ukugoba unodoli wakho

Abesifazane abamnyama bayathandeka kakhulu. Awuvumi? Awenzi umqondo, kodwa uma ulala nabo, ibala lesikhumba sabo libonakala licwebile. Yengeza ukunambitheka kweshokoledi futhi yenza Unodoli wezocansi weTpe nabo bahle kakhulu. Uma ukhathele ukulala namantombazane amhlophe ablonde, zama amatshwele amnyama. Ngeke uzisole. Uma usuvele uthanda abesifazane bemibala, lokho kuhle kuwe. Unokunambitheka okuhle. Ungaqondi kahle. Lokhu akukona ukuphonsa isithunzi kwabesifazane abamhlophe. Zibuye zishise kakhulu, okuyinto enhle kakhulu. Kodwa lesi sihloko asikhulumi ngabo.

Uma ufuna unodoli omnyama ongcono kakhulu wokuqeda ukoma kwakho, usufikile endaweni efanele. Kulesi sihloko, uzothola eziningi zazo. Ngena uzihlole. Ungamangali uma uzibona u-oda unodoli ngokushesha ngemva kokufunda lesi sihloko. Onodoli abafakwe kulolu hlu bawumlingo kangangokuthi ngeke ukwazi ukumelana. Ngakho-ke, uzokhohlwa ukuthi ulala nodoli hhayi nomuntu wangempela.

Banobulili obuhlukene, ubukhulu, ukubukeka nobuntu. Emibhangqwaneni efuna ukuhlola kodwa engafuni ukukopela, ukuya ocansini nonodoli kungase kube yisinqumo esihle. Futhi kuyinto engavamile kakhulu engenza impilo yakho yocansi igcwale ubungqabavu. Uma une unodoli omuhle wocansi futhi bafuna izinto ezahlukene ongazizama, nazi ezinye izimo ongazizama, zizokushiya uphefumula.

Kulula, kulula ukukwenza, futhi kuyathandeka kakhulu. Ikuvumela ukuthi ungene esithweni sangasese sikadoli noma ididi. Beka eyakho onodoli bezocansi abashibhile phambi kwakho. Qiniseka ukuthi ubamba unodoli ngemuva futhi eduze nendawo engaphezulu njengombhede, itafula noma isitulo. Yima ngemuva unodoli wakho bese ugoba unodoli wakho phezu kombhede noma esihlalweni. Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi unodoli wakho uthinta phezulu futhi ugoba okhalweni. Gwema ukusebenzisa izinto ezilimazayo ukuze ugobe unodoli wakho, njengoba lokhu kuzolimaza isikhumba sikadoli.

Isiguli sangibuza ukuthi ngingumeluleki wemibhangqwana, futhi ngaphendula ngokuthi ngingumelaphi wocansi oqinisekisiwe, kodwa abazange baqonde umehluko oqondile phakathi kwalaba ababili. Umthombo wesithombe: Ukuze kugcinwe lesi siphithiphithi sihlelekile, i-Israel Sex Therapy Association yasungulwa ngasekupheleni kwawo-1980. Yamukela ochwepheshe abaphothule iziqu ze-postgraduate in therapeutics, ukufunda ukwelapha, futhi abaphothule i-internship yeminyaka emithathu. Le nhlangano ayikahlonishwa izwe njengenhlangano enikeza izitifiketi.

“Namuhla, noma ubani angazichaza ngokuthi a Unodoli Wothando umelaphi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi baqedile izifundo ezijwayelekile zamadigri amabili kanye nama-internship, izifundo ze-Tantric zezinsuku ezimbili, izifundo ze-NLP, noma azikho nhlobo izifundo. UDavid, umelaphi wocansi oqinisekisiwe kanye nomqondisi we-Sex Therapy Clinic eMeyer Medical Center. "Imakethe idlondlobala ngesizathu, futhi bayanda abantu abangena kule makethe. Okungcono kakhulu, baqondana nokwelashwa. Sizoqhubeka nokubhekana nezinkinga kuze kube uMnyango Wezempilo uzihlanganisa zibe umthetho."