Kunesisho esithi abanye abantu abasebenza ngaphandle isikhathi eside bathenga ezibizayo futhi ezingokoqobo onodoli bezocansi abashibhile ukuze bagweme ukungathembeki kubafazi babo. Njengoba kuhwalala edolobheni, amadoda angashadile awanazo izihlobo eziwaphelezela endlini eqashisayo, kuphinde kube nesizungu. Ngonodoli bocansi, nakanjani kuzonciphisa ngempumelelo ukuvela kwama-STD, ingculazi nezinye izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi. Eminyakeni embalwa edlule, ukukhuluma ngocansi namathoyizi ocansi kwakubhekwa njengento engafanele. Nokho, njengoba ukuqwashisa kwabantu kanye nezinga lemfundo lithuthuka, baqala ukukhuluma ngobulili. Lokhu akusho ukuthi abantu abanamahloni okukhuluma ngemicabango yabo.
Nokho, inani labantu abasebenzisa amathoyizi abantu abadala (njengonodoli bocansi) nakanjani lizokhula. Phakathi kwemikhiqizo eyahlukene ethengiswa emakethe, onodoli bocansi abahamba phambili ohlwini, futhi kokubili ukufunwa nokuthengiswa kubonise ukukhula okukhulu. Ukuthuthukiswa kwamarobhothi ocansi-ukuphi umgomo wokuziphatha? Iphepha lakamuva locwaningo mayelana nezimiso zokuziphatha zamarobhothi ocansi liphakamise ukuthi le mishini kufanele ifakwe imojuli efanayo. Njengoba imingcele phakathi kwamarobhothi nabantu iba nokufiphala kakhulu, futhi njengoba sincika kakhulu futhi sinamathele empilweni ebonakalayo, kubonakala sengathi asikude nesihloko esithi "impilo yomshini".
Noma nini lapho izifiso zethu zingekho ngesikhathi, siyobeka amathemba ethu ezintweni esingakwazi ukuzifinyelela. Kusukela ekuvaleni kokuqala unodoli ocansini we-Japan isipiliyoni esitolo "Philharmonic" kuya ephindaphindayo "indaba yothando" onodoli kanye nezingxoxo ezishisayo phakathi netizens, ngiyesaba ukuthi ngisho netizens abangabodwa baye bezwa onodoli ucansi. Khumbula ukuthi imodeli yekhanda ebonakala njengengxenye enemininingwane eminingi kanodoli yenziwe ngokuhlukana.
Ngokuvamile, umzimba wonke ungomunye ucezu olulodwa, futhi ngezinye izikhathi amamodeli emilenze nezingalo zakhiwe ngokwehlukana. Uma ufuna unodoli ohlangabezana ngempela nezidingo zomlingani wakho, ungaphinda ukhethe inketho yangokwezifiso. Umbono ongcono kakhulu ukuthi ungapha unodoli uzakwenu nganoma yiluphi usuku olukhethekile (njengosuku lwesikhumbuzo noma usuku lokuzalwa).
Onodoli besilisa abangamathoyizi osayizi abangokoqobo ngokungangabazeki bayindlela enhle yokwanelisa izifiso zakho, ngoba lawa mathoyizi ayisinqumo esihle futhi anemisebenzi eminingi eyengeziwe. Onodoli be-silicone besilisa kulula kakhulu ukuwasebenzisa futhi banemisebenzi eminingi eyengeziwe kanye nezinzuzo. Zenziwe nge-silicone nezinye izinto ezibukeka zintsha, ezikunikeza umuzwa wokuthinta intombazane yamaphupho akho. Icilongo langempela likadoli wezocansi livumela amadoda ukuba azame, ngaphandle kokuhlupheka kwezikhundla eziningi zocansi.
Ukuze ugweme ukukhwabanisa, udinga ukwenza ucwaningo olufanele ngomkhiqizo. Kulokhu, ungasesha unodoli wobulili we-anime ukubuyekezwa, noma ungabuza ukuze uqonde ukuthi iyini incazelo kanodoli wothando wekhwalithi ephezulu. Ekukhulumeni naye, cishe kwakunomuntu ongacacile engqondweni yakhe. Uyindoda elinganiselwa eminyakeni engu-50 ubudala futhi unendodakazi eneminyaka engu-20 ubudala.
Lona umndeni lapho azalelwa khona. Wakhulisa indodakazi yakhe yedwa kusukela eneminyaka engu-8 ubudala futhi ephila impilo njengomzali. Mayelana nokuthi unjani umkakhe, akulula ukuthi abanye babuze, kodwa ngeke kube yinto emnandi, njengalapho bexoxa. UHenry uthe: “Abantu bazokhaphela, kodwa onodoli bothando ngeke. Uthando kule nkathi lufana nehhashi nembali, kuthiwa lukhululekile futhi lulula, kodwa futhi luphaphathekile kancane.
