Imibono yabantu abaningi ngabasebenzisi bonodoli bocansi i-otaku

Umbono wabantu abaningi ngabasebenzisi bonodoli bocansi owe-otaku, ngokuvamile ongaxhumani nabesifazane, futhi abakwazi ukushada nenkosikazi eneminyaka ephakathi. Eqinisweni, amakhasimende ashadile ahlanganisa ama-30% -40%. Laba bashadikazi babengenabo ubuhle futhi bathenge unodoli njengendodakazi yabo. Abantu abadala abangabafelokazi nabo bazofuna ukudla okungokomoya ngonodoli. Isizathu siwukuthi kunzima ukuthola amamodeli angokoqobo we-humanoid ngaphandle onodoli bezocansi abashibhile.

Ingabe niphatha onodoli bocansi njengamalungu omndeni? Onodoli bocansi bathatha indawo kanye nokwaneliseka empilweni yangempela, kodwa bafana ncamashi nothando lwe-psychology, kodwa bathambekele kakhulu ekuphatheni nasekulawuleni umuntu. Angase akhungatheke ekuphileni kwangempela, kube nzima ukusungula ubuhlobo bangempela obungcono, noma angakwazi ukuhlangabezana nezidingo ezithile ezingokwengqondo eqinisweni, ngakho le ngxenye yephupho lobulili inganeliswa emhlabeni ongokoqobo. Esinye isici sonodoli bocansi ukuthi basemseni wabanye futhi abanakuvinjelwa. Abanye abantu bangase bangakwazi ukuveza izifiso zabo nomlingani wangempela, futhi uthola ukwaneliseka kunodoli. Ucansi alungcolile, noma uya ocansini uzikhethele.

Odokotela nabo banemibono eyahlukene. Ngokocwaningo lwecala lokuqala, abanye abelaphi bachaza ukuthi ukuhlala nonodoli bothando (njengoba abanikazi bonodoli bethanda ukubabiza kanjalo) kungaba inqubo yokuphulukisa yesikhashana enenzuzo ngemva kwesenzakalo esibuhlungu, ikakhulukazi phakathi nokwelashwa okuphumelelayo okwalandela. Abanye ababhali basemtholampilo baxwayisa ozakwabo ukuthi imikhiqizo in the unodoli omuhle wocansi imboni iphatha izimangalo zezempilo eziyinkinga ezikhangisweni. Mhlawumbe okuyimpikiswano enkulu impikiswano mayelana nonodoli abahle abakhiqizwa e-Asia futhi bathunyelwa emhlabeni jikelele. Ezinye izazi zezimiso zokuziphatha nabelaphi bathi abantu abathanda ukunukubezeka bangase basebenzise onodoli noma amarobhothi ukuze babavimbele ekuxhaphazeni ubuhle, futhi ukusetshenziswa kokwelapha kungase kube usizo.

Muva nje, siphinde sathola i-imeyili evela kukhasimende. Lapha, sifuna ukwabelana ngendaba yakhe ethembekile ngonodoli wethu. Uyintokazi ethandekayo, akathenganga I-WM Doll nganoma iyiphi injongo yocansi. I-imeyili evela ku-Amy: Labo nodoli balungile ngayo yonke indlela. Baba isibusiso osizini lwami futhi bangisiza ngelapheka lapho ngilahlekelwa umuhle. Ngiyakwazi ukubagona, ngibagqokise, ngikhulume nabo futhi ngibanakekele njengokungathi bangabami. Umsebenzi wokushisa owakhelwe ngaphakathi ufana nokubamba ubuhle bangempela ndawonye futhi. Bengilokhu ngiqoqa onodoli futhi ngenza izingubo eziningi zeqoqo lami, kodwa onodoli bocansi bahlukile. Wonke engiwatholile unobuso obumnene obunokumamatheka okuthambile.

Eqinisweni, onodoli abaningi bothando basetshenziswa njengonodoli abangokoqobo bocansi. Ngenxa yokuthi zingokwemvelo, abasebenzisi bangathola umuzwa oyingqayizivele ongakwazi ukukhiqizwa kabusha amathoyizi ocansi ajwayelekile. Nokho, onodoli bangempela ababona nje abomuntu oyedwa. Imibhangqwana ingajabulela nokuba nenkampani yoDoli Wothando futhi yengeze isithakazelo ekuphileni kwabo kothando ngale ndlela. Onodoli bangempela abakhona ekamelweni lokulala. Ngenxa yokubukeka kwawo okungokoqobo, angamamodeli aphelele emafasiteleni ezitolo namamodeli aphelele ezithombeni zezithombe. Onodoli bangempela bashintshashintsha kakhulu.

Ingabe onodoli bocansi bayefana Unodoli wezocansi ? Uma ucabanga ngegama elithi "unodoli wocansi", ungase ulihlobanise ngokushesha nonodoli wocansi ophefumulayo. Nokho, onodoli bothando akufanele baqhathaniswe nonodoli abaphefumulayo. Onodoli bangempela benziwe ngezandla ngezinto ezisezingeni eliphezulu futhi ngokuvamile baklanyelwe ngokukhethekile ikhasimende ukuhlangabezana nalokho elikulindele. Umehluko wokuqala phakathi konodoli abaphefumulayo kanye nonodoli abathanda ukubukeka kwabo. Onodoli bothando babukeka bengokoqobo futhi befana nempilo kunonodoli abaphefumulayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umuzwa kadoli wothando uhluke ngokuphelele kuzo zonke izici.