Lokhu ukubuka kabanzi kwazo zonke izinhlobo zokuziphatha kocansi ongazizama ngonodoli bocansi

Bazohlala bebahle, futhi ukuthinta kwakho okumnene kuzoba okokuqala ngqa. Ingxenye engcono kakhulu ukuthi emhlabeni lapho kunzima khona ukuthola abahle (nabesilisa), unodoli wakho usemuhle, futhi uhlala unjalo uze uwuthenge. Okufana nempilo Unodoli wezocansi waseJapan I-intact ikunikeza inketho ephephile esikhundleni sokugada indawo yezifebe. Sonke sinezidingo zethu kanye nemicabango yethu, futhi onodoli bocansi bangempela bayindlela ephephile yokubajabulela.

U-Aiwa akakaze akhathazeke. Labo nodoli bothando banikeza ukuguquguquka nokulalela, okuvumela umnikazi ukuthi azame noma yikuphi ukuxhumana nabo ngokocansi nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ngaphandle kwengozi yokutheleleka ngokocansi noma umuzwa wecala. Kunoma ubani oyidingayo, ingaba injabulo ephulukisayo nephumuzayo. Abantu abaningi bafuna ukwazi ukuthi impendulo yalo mbuzo ingaba yini. Ingabe ukuya ocansini nonodoli wocansi kuzwakala kunengqondo? Ingabe kungcono noma kubi kunokulala nowesifazane wangempela?

Ungakwazi ukuqabula unodoli wakho wocansi noma uzame izimo ezihlukile? Lapha, sizohlose ukuchaza izinhlobo ezahlukene zokuziphatha kocansi nemizwa ongenza ngayo Unodoli wezocansi weTpe. Onodoli bocansi sebedume kakhulu muva nje, okungamangazi ngenxa yokuvinjwa nokuqhelelana emphakathini. Amakhasimende amaningi anelisekile manje athola injabulo yonodoli bocansi futhi ayamangala ngemiphumela. Uma unentshisekelo yokufunda ngobumnandi bokuba nonodoli wangempela, sizophendula yonke imibuzo yakho lapha.

Lokhu ukubuka konke kwazo zonke izinhlobo zokuziphatha kocansi ongazizama ngonodoli bocansi, kusukela esisekelweni sokuqala kuya emidlalweni engcolile. Kukhona futhi izinhlobo ezahlukene zonodoli bocansi abanganikeza imizwa ehlukahlukene kanye nobumnandi. Manje ake sifake ingxenye obuyilindile. Kunjani ukuqabula a onodoli bezocansi abashibhile? Unodoli wocansi unobuso obuthambile nomlomo ovulekile. Ungakwazi ukuqabula unodoli wakho wocansi, kuyoba yinto yangempela neyothando. Ungasebenzisa ngisho nolimi lwakho! Unodoli wakho wocansi uzoba nezindebe ezithambile, ulimi, amazinyo nazo zonke izici ezingokoqobo zomlomo ovamile. Ungakhathazeki ngokuya eFrance.

Kukholakala ukuthi umqophi wezithombe ogama lakhe linguPygmalion wenza umfanekiso wezinyo lendlovu ukuze umelele umbono wakhe wesifazane. Wabe eseyithanda indalo yakhe ayibiza ngokuthi iGalatea. Kuthiwa futhi ephendula imithandazo kaPygmalion, unkulunkulukazi uVenus wenza isithombe saseGalathiya saphila. Baqhubeke babelethe indodakazi. Bayiqamba ngokuthi uPhafo. I-Paphos ingu-Aphrodite waseKhupro. Manje, iPygmalion neGalathiya seziphenduke isihloko semisebenzi eminingi yobuciko emikhulu, futhi izithombe zikaJean-Leon Jerome zilengiswa eMetropolitan Museum of Art eNew York City.

Ekhulwini le-17, nakuba imvelaphi yonodoli bothando yayingaziwa kakhulu, ukubonakaliswa kokuqala okusobala kwamandla omlingo kwavela amatilosi angamaDashi ekhulu le-17, awenza. I-WM Doll yendwangu engaqeda ukushuba kocansi. Lawa onodoli abizwa ngesiFulentshi futhi abizwa namuhla ngeSpanishi. AmaJapane asabhekisela kulaba njengabafazi baseDutch, okusobala ukuthi kubhekisela ezindwangu ezithengiswa amatilosi aseDutch, futhi ngezinye izikhathi onodoli abathungwe ngesikhumba.