Bafuna onodoli abahle bocansi ngaphandle kokunamathiselwe ngokomzwelo

Ungawahlelela usuku olungalindelekile futhi uthulule inhliziyo yakho ngakho. Uma isimo singakuvumeli lokhu, usengabatshela ekhaya lakho noma endaweni yomhlangano evamile. Khetha isikhathi esifanele sokubatshela, isibonelo, mhlawumbe ukuphuza ngenkathi nobabili nizipholele ndawonye. Kuyanelisa Unodoli wezocansi waseJapan ichuma kuphela ebudlelwaneni obunempilo obukhona ngenkuthalo. Ubuhlobo obubonakala ngokuxabana njalo, ukungezwani, njll. abusoze baveza uthando. Ngisho nekati elifuywayo elihlala endlini enje alehli umoya, futhi izithandani aziboni ukuthi kuyinto enkulu ukuthethisana, ukusabisana, nokulwa njalo.

Njengozakwethu, nobabili nidinga ukugxila ekudaleni indawo enethezekile lapho izindinganiso zothando lweqiniso zingahlala ndawonye futhi zichume. Konke kuqala ngokwazana kangcono. Ngamunye wenu kufanele azi izinto zomunye nomunye azithandayo nangazithandi. Ukuxoxa ngezindaba ndawonye ngendlela evuthiwe kufanele kube okubaluleke kakhulu, kungathathwa kalula. Futhi, kubalulekile ukwesekela omunye nomunye. Ngamunye wenu kufanele alungele ukwesekelana ukuze alethe uthando nokuqina okwengeziwe ebudlelwaneni.

Izitendi zobusuku obubodwa ziwumkhuba ojwayelekile, ikakhulukazi kubantu abahle abaneminyaka engaphansi kuka-30. Kodwa akuwona wonke umuntu ongathola kalula isitendi sobusuku obubodwa. Ukuthola i-sleepover cishe akunakwenzeka phakathi nobhubhane, ngakho-ke Unodoli wezocansi weTpe baphendukele kumasayithi okuqomisana aku-inthanethi nezinhlelo zokusebenza ezikhethekile emisebenzini enjalo ngaphandle kweyunithi yezinhlamvu enamathiselwe. Lesi akusona isixazululo kubantu abaningi ngoba ukuze ube ne-one night stand, udinga ukuthola umuntu okuthandayo ngokocansi nomuntu okuhehayo.

Nakuba kungase kubonakale kuqondile, ukuthumela othile umlayezo umtshela ukuthi ufuna ukulala naye kuzokuvimba futhi kubikwe kusayithi lapho umthole khona. Ngenxa yalokhu, abantu abaningi basebenzisa unodoli omuhle wocansi ukwanelisa izidingo zabo zocansi kanye nokukhuthazwa. Nakuba onodoli bocansi besetshenziswa kakhulu ngamadoda, abesifazane bangasebenzisa nezinhlobo ezahlukene zonodoli bocansi.

Ngenxa yalokhu, inqwaba yabantu abasebudlelwaneni kuye kwadingeka ukuthi babhekane nobulili obulinganiselwe, benethemba lokushintsha okuqhakazile esikhathini esizayo. Qagela! Akunjalo, futhi ngandlela thize, udinga ukuthola ukwaneliseka kwakho ngokocansi kuzo zonke izinto ezihlanyayo. Kulapho onodoli bethu bobulili obungangempilo yesikhathi esizayo besiza khona. Onodoli bocansi baklanyelwe ukuvusa inkanuko yobulili, futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi baye bafeza leso sithembiso.

Njengoba kushiwo ngaphambili, ukwakha ubudlelwano kungase kusabise. Abanye abantu bavele bafune ucansi lwakudala olungaxhunywanga kanti yikho nje. Inkinga ukuthi abantu abafaneleki ukuya ocansini olungakhathali. Ngisho nesifebe singase sifune ukukhuluma nawe ngaphambi kokuba sikushaye. Lokhu kuphambene nayo yonke imicu yomuntu ozibukayo ofuna okuhle onodoli bezocansi abashibhile ngaphandle kokunamathela ngokomzwelo.