Ungakwazi ukwanelisa isifiso esinamandla socansi sokulala nabesifazane abanamabele kaPamela Anderson

Onodoli bocansi baseJapane badume ngezici zabo ezinhle. Abantu abaningi ngokwengeziwe emhlabeni bayathanda onodoli bezocansi abashibhile. Ukuthenga unodoli wocansi waseJapane kubonakala kuyinto epholile. Njengoba abantu beba nesizungu. Ingabe onodoli bobulili baseJapane bazosiza abantu banqobe isizungu? Kungani kunabantu abaningi abane-autism?

I-Health Insurance Company's 2018 American Loneliness Index ithole ukuthi ama-46% abantu baseMelika bathi kwesinye isikhathi noma bahlala benesizungu, kanti abangama-47% bathi kwesinye isikhathi bazizwa beshiywe ngaphandle. Ngaphansi, u-43% wabantu uthe bazizwa behlukanisiwe nabanye, futhi inombolo efanayo yathi bazizwa bengenabo ubuhlobo futhi ubudlelwano babo bungasho lutho. Kubantu abane-autism, labo abangakwazi ukungena embuthanweni abakwazi ukuhamba baye kwelinye izwe futhi bazitike emhlabeni wabo omncane nsuku zonke. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ubuntu buhoxiswa, futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngisho nokulahlekelwa amakhono omphakathi. Kwabanye abangakwazi ukunikeza ukuqonda, abafuni ukuxhumana neziguli ze-autistic futhi bazihlukanise kancane kancane. Lolu hlobo lokuhlalisana luzokwenza abantu abane-autism babe buhlungu kakhulu.

Onodoli bocansi baphinde bahlukaniswe ngokohlanga lwabo. Bangu I-WM Doll, onodoli bocansi baseJapane, onodoli bobulili base-Afrika, onodoli bobulili baseYurophu nonodoli bobulili bama-Arabhu. Njengoba wonke umuntu wesilisa nowesifazane bethanda ucansi ngendlela ehlukile, lo nodoli wocansi ohlukene ngezinhlanga ungenye yezindlela ezinhle zokwanelisa amaphupho abo. Ngokohlanga lwabo, labo nodoli bocansi banezici ezahlukene kanye nezinhlobo zomzimba. Isibonelo, onodoli bocansi baseJapane banomzimba omuhle, izinwele ezisilika namakati aphinki, kuyilapho onodoli bobulili base-Afrika banezinwele ezigoqene, isikhumba esinsundu namakati ansundu. Izinhlobo ezahlukene zonodoli bocansi ezisuselwe kuhlanga ziyindlela enhle yokwanelisa isifiso sakho sokuphila konke sokulala nabesifazane abavela ezweni elithile noma esifundeni.

Ibele liyisitho somzimba esibalulekile esithinta ukubukeka kwe Unodoli Wothando. Uma ungumlandeli wamabele, kufanele ucabangele lesi sici lapho uthenga onodoli bocansi. Uma uyindoda enamabele amakhulu ungeyona indoda enamabele amakhulu, thenga unodoli wocansi onenkomishi enkulu kuno K. Ngokufanayo, uma uthanda osisi abahle, thenga unodoli wocansi onenkomishi encane kuno C. Njengoba kunezinhlobonhlobo izinhlobo zonodoli abanamabele amakhulu, ungakwazi ukwanelisa isifiso socansi esinamandla sokulala nabesifazane abanamabele uPamela Anderson. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ikuvumela ukuthi uzame amasayizi amabele ahlukene, okuyinto engenakwenzeka empilweni yangempela.

Ungathola izibuyekezo eziningi ku-inthanethi lapho abantu bekhuluma ngolwazi lwabo nge-Aiwawa. Uma ucabangela ukuthenga unodoli wangempela ngokwakho, lezi zibuyekezo zisiza kakhulu. Abantu bakhuluma ngamathiphu namasu angakusiza wenze isinqumo. Ungathola nokubuyekezwa kwamakhasimende mayelana nesitolo sethu ku-inthanethi, okuzokusiza wenze izinqumo kalula. Konodoli bangempela, ngokuvamile awukwazi ukubona umehluko phakathi konodoli abangokoqobo nabothando, futhi kulula ukukhohlwa ukuthi awukho nomuntu wangempela ngalesi sikhathi.

"Akakhonondi, akakhonondi. Useduze kwami ​​uma ngidinga umuntu. Akayifuni imali yami, uyangilalela nje." Lo mlisa umchaza kanjani umlingani wakhe? Akumangalisi yini! Ukuthi nje akakhulumi ngabesifazane benyama negazi bangempela, kodwa ngonodoli bocansi! USenji uthanda uSaori, uyamgeza njalo ekuseni futhi umthengela izingubo ezintsha njalo. Ngezinye izikhathi wayehamba naye. Ukulala naye embhedeni, kodwa iminyaka eminingi, Idoli locansi lowesilisa kubaluleke kakhulu. “Ngiyawuthanda umuzwa wokuthi kukhona ongidingayo,” kusho le ntokazi eneminyaka engu-61.