Ngenxa yalokho, baye bakha ukoma kokuphila phakathi kwethu, ngaleyo ndlela bedala ukomela ulwazi futhi bathuthukise ubudlelwano phakathi kwabantu ezimpilweni zethu. Kubalulekile futhi kuyathakazelisa ukuqonda ukuthi kanjani I-WM Doll kungasiza ukuvikela iplanethi. Onodoli bocansi abenziwe ngejeli ye-silica, i-TPE nezinye izinto ngokuvamile babhekwa njengezindawo eziluhlaza, ezihlukile emikhiqizweni yamathoyizi engafanelekile noma elimaza imvelo emakethe.
Nokho, amaqembu abesifazane nabesifazane baye bazwakalisa ukukhathazeka ngokuthi bakholelwa ukuthi ezinye izinkampani ezinikeza onodoli bobulili abanezimpawu ezithile noma ubuso obuhle zizolulaza isithunzi sabesifazane ngokukhuthaza ukuvunyelwa kwabesifazane ngokobulili. USeunghee, inhloko ye-Cyber Sexual Violence Response Centre yaseNingizimu Korea, uthe: “Ukuthenga onodoli bocansi abanjengomuntu kuyingozi ngoba benza abayisebenzisayo bazizwe sengathi bangathenga, badayise noma balawule umzimba womuntu.”
Umbuzo uthi isidingo samanje se-Aiwa sizoshintsha kanjani ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Njengoba sonke sazi, kunesikhathi lapho abantu abakhangwa abobulili obufanayo babesaba futhi babe namahloni ukukhombisa lokhu kukhangwa esidlangalaleni. Okokuqala, kufanele wazi ukuthi kungani ufuna ukuthenga, kufanele ubhekane namehlo ezwe, ungakwazi yini ukuthwala lamehlo angavamile? Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngemva kokufunda zonke izinqumo, ungakhathazeki, izinhlobo ezahlukene zinezitayela ezahlukene. Imikhiqizo yaseMelika inehaba, imikhiqizo yamaShayina ingokoqobo kakhulu, kanti eyaseJapane mihle kakhulu.
Qiniseka ukuthi uthola okufunayo. Umngcwabo ubuse-Higashiosaka, e-Osaka. Ngemuva kokuthi isevisi isiphelile, inkampani ivumela umnikazi we- unodoli wobulili we-anime ukuphelezela unodoli ekamelweni lokubhubhisa. Ngaphambi kokuhlakazwa, kwathathwa isithombe sikanodoli wocansi, isisebenzi sabe sesifundela unodoli incwadi yezidumbu. Umnikazi uzothola enye yazo njengesikhumbuzo, okusele kuzolahlwa, futhi bazokwenza umngcwabo wamathoyizi kanokusho nezithombe. Ububi obukhulu bendlela yokuphila ematasa yanamuhla ibanga elikhulayo phakathi kwabalingani.
Ukuze bathole isinkwa futhi baphile impilo engcono, izinhlangothi zombili kumele zisebenze kanzima. Ekupheleni kosuku, bobabili babekhathele futhi bengenaso isikhathi namandla okuxhumana nokugona. Ngenxa yalokho, ingcindezi emsebenzini idlulela ekhaya, ibhidlize ubuhlobo bomlingani. Impilo yabo yasekamelweni isiyisicefe futhi icindezela. Ngakho-ke, onodoli bocansi abanjengokuphila basetshenziswa kabanzi ukuthuthukisa ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nomfazi.
Ukwengeza, uma ungeza imisebenzi eyinkimbinkimbi kulo nodoli wocansi, uzoba irobhothi locansi elibiza izinkulungwane noma amashumi ezinkulungwane zamadola, esikhundleni sokuthi lithengiswe njengonodoli abadumile be-silicone bocansi noma onodoli bocansi be-TPE. Ama-Corset, ama-brace, namabhula ezintambo/amaphenti ngokuvamile ahlobisa kakhulu. Kukhona nezithiyo zaphansi, ezansi ziboshwe ngentambo kodwa zihlale phansi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kukhona nokuvinjelwa kokumiswa, okuboshwe phansi futhi kumiswe emoyeni, kusekelwe kuphela ngezintambo.
Yini eyenza unodoli ocansini we-Japan ilungele ukuzithiba ngentambo nokulalela? Onodoli bocansi ngempela babhekwa njengenketho ekahle yamadoda yokuqeda ukoma kwezifiso ze-BDSM zasendle. Uma nawe ukubheke ngabomvu, ungakhetha labo nodoli. Uzothola nakanjani ukuthi i-Aiwa iyinketho efanelekile yokuvimbela izintambo.
