Isimo lapho enye indoda ingalala nonodoli ngokuthanda kwayo

Esinye isimo lapho amadoda engakwazi ukuya ocansini a Unodoli wezocansi weTpe ngokuthanda kulapho owesifazane wabo ephazamisekile noma engavunyelwe ngumzimba. Ukusebenzisa unodoli kuzovimbela le ndoda ekuxhumaneni nabanye besifazane, kuyivumele ukuthi igxile kunodoli wocansi ongenamphefumulo omenza ajabule kancane, ukuze angabi nomcabango ongaka wokuxova ngaphandle.

Kodwa uma owesifazane wakho enempilo enhle futhi ukhetha ukuya ocansini nonodoli esikhundleni sowesifazane wakho, lesi isibonelo sakudala sendoda okusolwa ukuthi iyakopela. Ake ucabange ukuthi ungavumela owesifazane wakho ukuthi asebenzise i-dildo ukuze abonise ukunganeliseki kwakhe ngawe kuleso sici? Uma ushintsha umbono wakho, cabanga ngokuthi kungenzeka ukuthi onodoli bocansi bakhishwe emzileni.

USara Valverde ungumcwaningi kanye nochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo. Kuthisisi yenkosi yakhe, uphenye izici zabantu kanye nengqondo ye Unodoli Wothando abanikazi ngokombono ongokwengqondo. USara wathi phakathi nocwaningo lwakhe, abaningi okwaxoxwa nabo bazwakalisa amahloni noma amahloni ngokuba nonodoli bocansi. Kodwa ngokuphambene nemibono yabantu, leli qembu labantu liphila impilo ejabulisayo njengabantu abavamile, futhi azikho izehlakalo eziphezulu zokucindezeleka nezinye izifo zengqondo.

Kubantu abajwayelekile, abahlala nabo onodoli bezocansi abashibhile akuwona neze ubulili obujwayelekile. USarah kuphela "ngaphandle uma ukuphila komuntu oyedwa kuzungeza onodoli bocansi futhi abavumele ukuba benze ezinye izinto, ngaphandle kwalokho asikwazi ukuchaza omunye umuntu njengophawu lwenkinga (yengqondo)." Sekuzothunyelwa onodoli ababili besifazane, futhi isisebenzi esiseduze kwabo sisebenza ngonodoli besilisa ababenza ucansi. Umsunguli wenkampani uMat McMullen uthe isidingo sonodoli besifazane senza ama-90% yenani eliphelele (AP)

Wazalelwa eJalimane? Kuthiwa unodoli wocansi wazalwa ngeMpi Yezwe Yesibili. (IMpi Yezwe Yesibili yaqala ngo-1939). Omunye umbono uthi: Ukuze kuqinisekiswe igazi elimsulwa lebutho laseJalimane, inhloko yezwe iyakwenqabela ibutho laseJalimane ukuba liye ocansini nabesifazane abangewona ama-Aryan, futhi iyala abantu ukuba bakhe onodoli bocansi abafana nesakhiwo somzimba sabesifazane;Enye impikiswano ukuthi inhloko yezwe yayala ukuthi kuthuthukiswe onodoli bocansi ukuze kunqandwe ukubhebhetheka kwezifo ezithathelwana ngocansi embuthweni.

Ku-Wikipedia (isiShayina) cinga "Unodoli wezocansi", kukhona isiqephu esinjalo: Isazi se-Qing Dynasty u-Xia Xie wake wabhala "IziKronike ZaseShayina NezaseNtshonalanga", ethi: "Abezinye izizwe bangenza izinto zibe abesifazane abanqunu, amathambo esikhumba, izindlebe, amehlo, amazinyo, ulimi, I-yin orifices konke samanje. Lapho zigoqwe njengezingubo, zithambile futhi zifudumele njengobuhle lapho zishaywa umoya, futhi zingasingathwa njengobuntu. Kuhlakaniphe futhi kuyakhungathekisa.” Kungathathwa ngokuthi inomlando weminyaka eyikhulu.