Ithiphu yepro: Ungabuka amavidiyo adumile we-porn ngenkathi wenza ucansi ne unodoli wobulili we-anime, bese ngimbhebha ngendlela efanayo nezithandani ezikuvidiyo. Ngakho-ke uma umbhangqwana usebenzisa ukuma komdlwane, gingqa unodoli wakho wocansi phezu kombhede futhi umgobise, bese ungena ngemuva. Lokhu kuzokwenza izinto zihehe, futhi sibheja ukuthi uzokhipha isidoda emizuzwini embalwa! Nakuba ngingeke ngigxeke lutho, lokhu kuthuthukiswa nakanjani kuzothinta ubudlelwano bokuziphatha kwesintu.
Uma ngolunye usuku ubuhlakani bokwenziwa bungathatha indawo yokukhulelwa komuntu kanye nokuzalwa okuhle, bekungaba njani? Onodoli bocansi bangonodoli babantu abaseduze kakhulu njengamanje, ngisho nabesifazane bayavuma ukuthi uma bengaba bahle njengabo. Ngakho-ke ngifuna ukuveza lo mlayezo ngendlela yobuciko. Njengoba ubuchwepheshe bonodoli bezocansi berobhothi buba nzima nakakhulu, amathuba amaningi amasha okusebenzisa lo mkhiqizo avele ezimbonini eziningi ezahlukene.
Ubhubhane lwe-COVID-19 lubonakala lukusheshisile lokhu kwanda, lwenza abathwebuli bezithombe, abakhi bemfashini nabanye abasunguli basebenzise onodoli bezocansi abashibhile njengamamodeli njengengxenye yemikhankaso yabo yokuphromotha nezithombe. Ubuhlungu bengqondo bufana nobuhlungu bomzimba. Ekuhlolweni, ukuhlolwa kwezifundo kubonise ukuthi ngemva kokuthatha umthamo othile we-acetaminophen, umsebenzi wendawo yokucubungula ubuhlungu ebuchosheni babo wehliswa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isizungu singabhebhethekisa ukusabela "kwempi noma ukundiza" - ukusabela ngokomzimba lapho umuntu ebhekene nokulimala noma ingozi.
Ukusabela okunjalo okunamandla kungenza abantu bacasuke futhi baze bathukuthele. Abathanda ukuzilibazisa bathola ukuthi i-inthanethi iyindlela elula yokuthenga, evumela amakhasimende ukuthi afinyelele kalula onodoli abahlukahlukene. Njengamanje, abantu bathola ukuthi onodoli bobulili bangokoqobo kunanini ngaphambili. Banezinhlanga ezehlukene, imibala yezinwele nezingubo. Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi amakhasimende anamuhla angakwazi ngisho nokudala onodoli bocansi abenziwe ngokwezifiso kusukela ekuqaleni ngokusekelwe kulokho abakuthandayo nalokho abakuthandayo.
"Bayavuma ukuthatha izithombe ngoba becabanga ukuthi izindaba zabo zisho ukuthini kunodoli bocansi, nakuba iningi labantu lisakhetha ukungadalulwa." UBenita uthe: "Iningi labanikazi bonodoli bocansi bazama ukugwema noma yini ehlobene nabezindaba. Imisebenzi, ngenxa yokuthi ngokuvamile iqondwa kabi ngumphakathi, ngokwemvelo izoba nomthelela empilweni yabo evamile." Ngakho-ke, mhlawumbe kungenxa yale ngcindezi yokuthanda onodoli bocansi? Ukuthenga isithandwa sika-DIY osithandayo, ucabanga ngakho ngale ndlela, kubonakala kungafani nomuntu ojaha inkanyezi obiza isithixo umyeni wakhe? Ukuthi nje unodoli wocansi akanampilo.
Ngale ndlela, ngaphandle kokukhetha ukuthandana nonodoli bocansi, ngaphandle kokungahambisani nemibono evamile yokuziphatha, akukho lutho olungakukhomba. Ngijabule kakhulu futhi ngizibona ngiwuthando lweqiniso. Kungani kufanele ube nendaba nalokho okushiwo abanye? Umkhuba onodoli bocansi ukhula eYurophu. Kusukela ngo-2018, u-Steven Crawford waseBrithani oneminyaka engu-25 wavula ihholo lokuqala lokuzijwayeza ngonodoli bocansi e-UK ngentengo yamaphawundi angu-60 (cishe amadola angu-80 aseMelika) ngehora.
Waqasha eyakhe thanda unodoli Faith futhi wathi wayezobhalisa njengenkampani esemthethweni esikhathini esizayo, kodwa lokhu kwaphinde kwabangela uchungechunge lwezingxabano nemibhikisho. Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi lokhu kuyethusa futhi kuphakamisa ukukhathazeka ngokuziphatha, amasiko omphakathi, nokunakekelwa kwezokwelapha. imibuzo eminingi. Kodwa-ke, imigwaqo eyake yaphithizela futhi eminyene manje ayinalutho ngoba sebethathe izinyathelo zokuvala idolobha futhi balihlukanise. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukuvinjelwa kokuhamba kuye kwethulwa. Ngenxa yezinkinga zezokuvakasha, amahhotela alinganiselwa ku-200 kulindeleke ukuthi avalwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amahhotela angaphezu kuka-300 aphoqeleke ukuthi avalwe ngonyaka odlule ngenxa yezinxushunxushu ezithile zomphakathi.
