Ngabe Onodoli Bocansi Bazolinganisa Izindleko Zomshado?

Labo nodoli besifazane yibona abakhethwa kakhulu embonini. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kukhona abanye onodoli besifazane besifazane abasuselwa kwabesilisa. Umzimba onemisipha, imbongolo eqinile nepipi elikhulu nakanjani uzokunikeza injabulo enkulu yezocansi. Umlomo nokuvulwa kwendunu kukanodoli wesilisa kwenza abantu baneliseke ngokwengeziwe.

Abantu abaningi bayaluthanda ucansi lomlomo, kepha abalingani babo bangahle bangafuni ukwenza lokhu, noma abakwenzi kaningi. Onodoli bezocansi bangakwenza konke. Abanye bazokuvumela ukuthi wenze ngezifiso yonke into ngombala wezingono nephethini yezinwele ze-pubic! Uma ufuna umngane weqiniso, hhayi nje ithoyizi locansi, unodoli wangempela ukuphela kwendlela yokuphuma. Akunakwenzeka ngendoda ekhuluphele yekhabethe eligcwele onodoli bezocansi, inkolelo yomuntu ocebile osekhulile okhohlakele.

Ayikho indlela yokuqhathanisa izindleko zobunikazi bonodoli wezocansi nezindleko zokuqasha isifebe. Zizinhle lezo zifebe onodoli obathandayo? Ngabe ubuhle babo buzohlala amahora, izinsuku, amasonto noma iminyaka? Lapho bengazibandakanyi nocansi, bazobe bekhona? Abaqwayizi bangakunika 'uthando lokuzenzisa', kepha inqobo nje uma imali iqhubeka.

Kunezindlela ezahlukahlukene zempilo yocansi. Gxila kumlingani, qasha isifebe, gxila kozakwethu abambalwa, ukushaya indlwabu kuphela, ukuzingela. Ayaqhathaniswa kwezinye izici futhi ahlukile kokunye. Ukuhlala no sex doll usengomunye umuntu.

Ingabe abantu bazolinganisa izindleko zomshado? Uma bekwenza, bazowuqhathanisa umshado nezinye izindlela zokuphila zocansi abazithandayo nabazicabangayo. Ubunikazi bonodoli akubizi kakhulu. Uma lokho kubalulekile.

Abanikazi bamadoli abambalwa abanenhlanhla yokuthola unkosikazi, intombi noma "abanye ababalulekile" babusisiwe. Ngaphezu kokucabanga kwakho, onodoli abakwazi ukukuthanda. Abakwazi ukwenza noma yini ngokuzenzekelayo noma ngokumangazayo. Abakwazi ukukunikeza isipho noma iphathi ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa.

Akuwona wonke umuntu ophethe unodoli noma ofuna unodoli ophulukene nesizungu futhi ongeke athandane. Abanye bethu bakhetha ukungayijoyini isekethe yokuphola ngezizathu ezahlukahlukene. Abanye abantu abafuni ukuba nobudlelwano obuhlala njalo nabaphilayo, kepha sisafuna ukuthi unodoli abe muhle, athambe futhi abe nomdlandla. Noma unganaki unodoli, udoli uzovela egumbini.

Eminyakeni edlule, ngezwa ukuthi imishado engama-40% yaphela ngedivosi. Ngo "mkristu," lesi sikhulumi sisho ukuthi bobabili indoda nomfazi bayakholelwa eBhayibhelini. Uma abantu abanalesi simiso senani eliqhutshwa yizinkolelo kunzima ukuhlangana, lokho akubonisi okuhle kithi abanezinkolelo ezihlukile noma abangakholelwa nhlobo.

Abantu benza izinto eziningi ukukhulisa induduzo yabo nenjabulo. Kwabanye abantu, ukuthenga unodoli kungukutshalwa kwemali okuhle. Akuyona nje ithoyizi locansi, kepha yinto entsha yokuzilibazisa. Ngihlangane nabantu abaningi abakhulu ngale ndlela yokuzilibazisa futhi ngenza abangane abaningi abasha. Ukubuyiswa kobunikazi bedoli kudlula kakhulu izindleko.