Ukuba nonodoli wesilisa wocansi kusho ukuthi nguwe olawulayo

Ngemva kwesikhathi eside, uMeng Yuan, owayesebuyile esimweni sokunyukela ezulwini, wagcina ewavule amehlo, futhi umthondo esandleni sakhe ugobe kamnandi esandleni sakhe sengathi useqedile ukudubula isitoko. Nakuba wayesakhafula amafinyila kodwa wayesalihlehlisa ijwabu lakhe. Ngaphakathi, yashintsha yabuyela ekubonakaleni kokubaza okubomvana nokuqoshwa kwe-jade, kodwa ingaphakathi lesisu lisaphampa ngezikhathi ezithile, likhafula uketshezi olusele.

Ebuka ubisi olufuthwe yedwa phansi, uMengyuan wezwa sengathi ubuso bakhe buyashisa: "Ngingafutha kanjani izinto eziningi kangaka, futhi angiyona inkomo..." Ehogela iphunga elinamandla ebelilokhu lihlala endlini yokugezela, uMengyuan Yuan wakhetha. aphakamise ishawa bese ethela uketshezi phansi emseleni wendle. Ngenhlanhla wayicindezela phansi ngesikhathi ekhipha isidoda, ngaphandle kwalokho, ngamandla okuphuma kwakhe, nakanjani kuzomele ahlanze usilingi.

Njengabesifazane, sonke siyazi ukuthi ukuphuma ebusuku, noma ukuphuma wedwa ngokuvamile, kungase kubangele ukukhathazeka, futhi kungase kuzwakale okufanayo nabesilisa. Izikhathi eziningi lezi zimo ziwukugembula futhi kufanele sethembe amathumbu ethu. Uma kukhulunywa ngonodoli besilisa, abesifazane akumele bakhathazeke ngokuthi "kuthiwani-uma" lapho behlangana khona ocansini noma ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle. Ukuba no-a Idoli locansi lowesilisa kusho ukuthi uyakwazi ukulawula futhi uzizwa ukhululeke ngokuphelele zisuka nje.

Ingxenye engcono kakhulu yokuxhumana nonodoli besilisa ukuthi abesifazane akudingeki bakhathazeke ngokuvikelwa. Abantu abaningi abalala nabo Unodoli wezocansi bathi babukeka futhi bazizwa njengesivumelwano sangempela, futhi iyiphi indlela engcono yokuya ocansini ngaphandle kokuvikeleka nokwesaba ama-hiccups azayo? Ngokuvamile, onodoli bezithandani besilisa babonisa "amalungu" angenalutho noma amile anezela kuphela umuzwa ongenakuhlukaniswa, kodwa enze abesifazane bazizwe sengathi benza ucansi lwangempela.

Ukusetshenziswa konodoli ocansini kwakunzima kakhulu, futhi kuze kube yiminyaka embalwa edlule kwaba yinto evamile ukukhuluma ngakho. Izehlakalo zomhlaba zamuva zenze isidingo esikhulu kakhulu sonodoli bocansi, futhi intuthuko kwezobuchwepheshe yenze onodoli bobulili besimanje babukeke bephila ngendlela ongase ucabange ngayo.

Kunamakhulu abenzi bonodoli bocansi laphaya, abanakho konke okuvela kokuyisisekelo Unodoli wezocansi waseJapan endalweni eyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu futhi efana nokuphila. Ekuqaleni, onodoli bocansi babenenjongo eyodwa kuphela—ukwaneliseka ngokobulili kwabanikazi babo, kodwa njengoba ukukhiqizwa kukhula futhi kusetshenziswa amakhulu ezinto ezintsha ezitholakele ekukhiqizeni, kunemiphumela eminingi engatholwa ngokusetshenziswa njalo konodoli bocansi.