Ake sibuyele eminyakeni emi-5 edlule. Umhloli wamathoyizi ocansi waseMelika u-T ungumuntu wokuqala ukuthumela isithombe sika- onodoli bezocansi abashibhile ku-Instagram. Wafunda isihloko sezindaba wathi owesifazane othile wenza into eyazenza unodoli wocansi. I - plastic surgery. Ngaleso sikhathi, wanquma ukuvula i-akhawunti ekhethekile "yomlingani" wakhe - unodoli wocansi okuthiwa uCelestina, futhi wabelane ngawo nsuku zonke, ngenhloso yokubona ukuthi angaheha abalandeli abaningi.
Isitolo sonodoli bocansi iLumiDolls, esavulwa eBarcelona ngoFebhuwari 2017, sabamba iqhaza eliphambili futhi sanconywa ngokwenza abantu emhlabeni wonke ukuthi bamukele lesi sigcawu esisha. Ngonyaka odlule, ukuthengiswa embonini yonodoli bocansi kukhule ngokugxumagxuma, okuphinde kwakhuthaza izinguquko zobuchwepheshe embonini. Ama-urdoll omkhiqizi enze ukuthuthuka okuphawulekayo ezintweni ezisetshenziswa emikhiqizweni yayo ehamba phambili, okuhlanganisa nokuthuthukisa izitho zokufakelwa ezidumile emphakathini wonodoli bocansi.
Kudinga amandla amaningi nomzamo ukugcina nokugcina ubuhlobo obujabulisayo nomngane wakho womshado. Ngezinye izikhathi ungase ulahlwe kungazelelwe, noma umlingani wakho angase achithe isikhathi nawe. Kulezi zimo, uma uzama ukuveza amaphutha abo, ngokushesha uzoba idemoni emehlweni abo futhi maduzane uzobizwa ngokuthi umuntu onobugovu. Ngokwamukela onodoli bocansi empilweni yakho, uzosusa zonke lezi zinkinga. Uma usebenzisa onodoli bobulili obungangempilo e-Atlanta, zama ukusebenzisa amakhondomu. Ukugqoka ikhondomu uma uya ocansini nentombazane yangempela kungakuvikela ezifweni ezithathelwana ngocansi nasezinkingeni zokukhulelwa okungafunwa, ngakho ukugqoka ikhondomu uma ulala nonodoli kungakuvikela ezifweni nezinye izinkinga zempilo.
Uma ungumuntu ongabelana tpe sex unodoli nabanye, khona-ke ukugqoka ikhondomu kuyimfuneko kuwe. Nakuba ungase ungawutholi umuzwa wangempela, ukuvimbela kuhlale kungcono kunokwelapha. Onodoli bobulili abangokoqobo abasezona izinto zekusasa. Sebengenile ezimpilweni zethu sengathi awukho umehluko phakathi kwentombazane nonodoli wangempela. Amadoda akwamukela ngokukhululekile ukukhetha kwawo onodoli, futhi kubikwa ukuthi aneliseke kakhulu futhi anelisekile ngokuhlangenwe nakho kobulili konodoli. Yini eyenza onodoli bobulili bangempela bafanelekele ukuzithiba ngentambo nokulalela? Onodoli bocansi ngempela babhekwa njengenketho ekahle yamadoda yokuqeda ukoma kwezifiso ze-BDSM zasendle. Uma nawe ukubheke ngabomvu, ungakhetha labo nodoli.
Uzothola nakanjani ukuthi i-Aiwa iyinketho efanelekile yokuvimbela izintambo. Isizathu esiyinhloko sokucindezeleka nokucindezeleka kwabantu ukuthi leli zwe lithathwa njengezwe elisheshayo, futhi abantu abahlala lapha bavame ukuchitha izikhathi ezinzima emsebenzini ukuze baphile. E-Illinois, kulula ukuthenga onodoli bocansi bangempela, okuyinzuzo ngempela kubantu abahlushwa ingcindezi kanye nokungezwani. Inketho engcono kakhulu yokuvikela ubudlelwano bakho nonodoli bocansi. Kubathengi, kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhetha onodoli abahle ngochungechunge lwemisebenzi eyengeziwe. Ukuze wenze ukukhetha okuhle kakhulu, kubalulekile ukuqonda ngokucophelela imininingwane enikezwe yilezi zitolo zonodoli. Ukuxhumana nemikhiqizo eyaziwayo kungaqinisekisa ukuthi uthola imikhiqizo emihle ngesikhathi esifushane kakhulu.
