Umelaphi wocansi waseMelika kanye nomeluleki wemishado uMatty Klein uthe: “Ngeke ngibaxilonge kalula onodoli bezocansi abashibhile ukulutheka. Abantu abanalokhu kuthambekela ngokuyisisekelo balwa nalezi zinkinga ezingokwengqondo ngesikhathi esifanayo: ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo okuphoqelekile, ukuthatheka, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Iziyaluyalu, i-borderline personality disorder noma i-post-traumatic stress disorder.” Ngakho-ke, empeleni, lokho okubizwa ngokuthi ukuluthwa ucansi, ngaphezu kwezinto ezithinta izidakamizwa, kungase kuhlobane kakhulu nezinto zakho ezinhle, izinguquko ohlangabezana nazo, nokunye. Nokho, isimo somuntu ngamunye sihlukile, ngakho izidingo ziyahlukahluka kumuntu nomuntu.
Ingabe imilutha yocansi isengozini? Eqinisweni, umonakalo omkhulu wemilutha yezocansi uvela kubo, uphazamisa impilo yabo nesimo sengqondo, njengoba kushiwo ngenhla. Kodwa-ke, imilutha yobulili ayibi abahlukumezi bobulili. Akubona bonke abahlukumezi bocansi abayimilutha yocansi, kodwa imilutha yocansi isemathubeni amaningi okuba yizigilamkhuba zocansi. Abaningi abayimilutha yocansi banabalingani abaningi bocansi, abanye abantu abakubiza ngokuthi "ukuziphatha okubi." Ngokwami, angihambisani negama elithi “ukuziphatha okubi” ngoba “ukuziphatha okubi” ngokwako kuyigama eliyindelelo kanye nelebula eliqinile lemizwa. Uma kuxoxwa ngakho ngokombono wezemfundo, kufaneleka kakhulu ukukubiza ngokuthi "abalingani bocansi abaningi" kanye "nobudlelwane bocansi abaningi".
Imilenze kanodoli wocansi ingenye ye Idoli locansi lowesilisa izinketho ongase ube nazo. Isizathu salokhu uhlobo lwe-torso yabo - abadli lutho oluningi ekwakhiweni kwabo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, eziningi zazo zenziwe nge-TPE, ngokuvamile into eshibhile uma iqhathaniswa nenye abicah. Okokugcina, uma ufuna ukuhlukahluka, imilenze yonodoli ozikhethela nayo iyisinqumo esingcono. Ungakhetha kumamodeli amancane amaningi ahlukene ukuze ube nemodeli ehambisana nezintshisekelo zakho zocansi.
Intengo iyisici esibalulekile okufanele usicabangele lapho uthenga noma yiluphi uhlobo lukanodoli wocansi. Unodoli wezocansi imilenze iphakathi kwamamodeli ashibhe kakhulu emakethe. Njengoba kushiwo ngaphambili, imilenze yonodoli bobulili ingonodoli abahlukahlukene be-torso, abadla izinto zokwakha ezincane kakhulu, ngakho-ke izindleko ziphansi kakhulu. Esinye isici esinomthelela kuleli qiniso uhlobo lwezinto ezibonakalayo. Abaningi balabo nodoli benziwe ngezinto ze-TPE, ngokuvamile okuyindlela eshibhile. Uma kungenjalo, intengo nayo incike kumthengisi. Kumodeli efanayo, ezinye zingase zibe namazinga aphezulu kunezinye.
Wenziwe nguWM Doll, omunye wabakhiqizi bonodoli bocansi abadume kakhulu futhi abaziwayo emhlabeni. Ungawethemba umsebenzi wakhe omuhle kakhulu futhi uzokuphelezela isikhathi eside! UMelania Trump unodoli wocansi: UMelania Trump ubelokhu engubuhle, kodwa udumo lwakhe lwaludume ngempela ngesikhathi sokhetho lukamongameli wase-US lwango-2016, lapho konke ukunaka kwakugxile kumyeni wakhe nakuye Ngomndeni wakhe. Ngaphandle kwepolitiki, angakwazi kalula ukuba ngomunye wabesifazane bokuqala abahle kakhulu emlandweni waseMelika.
Wayeyi-supermodel, futhi uma usesha i-Google kahle ngokwanele, ungathola izithombe zakhe ezindala enqunu ukuze uthole amamagazini. Uma ufuna ukuba nethuba lokuba nalo Unodoli wezocansi waseJapan nowesifazane wokuqala wamanje, khona-ke unenhlanhla, sithole unodoli wocansi we-Melania Trump omangalisayo. Unodoli Wezinhlamvu zikaTaylor Swift: U-Taylor Swift ungomunye wohlobo lwezinhlobo zamantombazane amahle onganyakaziswa ofisa ukuthi ungazigingqa odakeni. Kwabanye abantu, awukho umuzwa ongcono kunokwenza intombazane enhle ibe yimbi, ngisho noma kuwubusuku obubodwa nje.
