Manje njengoba wazi kuphela ukuthi yini unodoli wezocansi, into elandelayo ongayibuza inqubo yokwakha unodoli wezocansi. Le yindlela elula. Onodoli bezocansi bangasiza futhi ekuthuthukiseni indlela yokuziphatha ngokocansi ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene, njengokukhulisa intshisekelo empilweni yezocansi, ukuhlola imicabango eyahlukene yezocansi, ukulawula ukuphuma kwe-ejaculation kanye ne-orgasm, nokugcina ukulingana kwesifiso sobulili. Abantu njengamanje balandela ikhwalithi ephezulu, enkulu
unodoli wezocansi wangempela ubuchwepheshe bezocansi.