I-WM Doll abizwa ngokuthi "onodoli bothando" eJapane. Iwusayizi wokuphila unodoli wothando ogcwele umzimba owenziwe nge-silicone noma impahla ye-TPE, eseduze nosayizi womuntu omdala. Onodoli bayafana nabantu bangempela ngokubukeka, ukuthinta, kanye nesakhiwo, futhi bangasetshenziselwa ukudubula noma izifiso eziqondile. Kodwa unodoli ungudoli phela noma kungathiwa ukoma kodwa mancane amathuba okuthi "ukhulelwe" kodwa uma ukhulelwe ngempela uzobukeka kanjani? U-Ringo, ubuhle bodokotela e-Tokyo University of the Arts, ubenelukuluku lokufuna ukwazi ngalokhu futhi wacabanga ukushintsha unodoli nokuthatha uchungechunge lwezithombe.
Ububi obukhulu bendlela yokuphila ematasa yanamuhla ibanga elikhulayo phakathi kwabalingani. Ukuze bathole isinkwa futhi baphile impilo engcono, izinhlangothi zombili kumele zisebenze kanzima. Ekupheleni kosuku, bobabili babekhathele futhi bengenaso isikhathi namandla okuxoxa nokugona. Ngenxa yalokho, ingcindezi emsebenzini idlulela ekhaya, ibhidlize ubuhlobo bomlingani. Impilo yabo yasekamelweni iba yisicefe futhi icindezele. Ngakho-ke, onodoli bocansi abanjengokuphila basetshenziswa kabanzi ukuthuthukisa ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Esitatimendeni esithunyelwe kwabezindaba abathintekayo, uBenita wabhala: "Laba bantu banendaba nonodoli bocansi futhi babaphatha njengezihlobo nabangane." "Bayabathanda, futhi bathanda abantu abanobukhona nobuntu obuningi."
Sesivele sisenkathini yoguquko ukusuka esigabeni sokuqala ukuya esigabeni sesibili. Ngesinye isikhathi, sasicabanga ukuthi ekufundeni okujulile kobuhlakani bokwenziwa, ubulili nokusondelana kungase kube nzima kakhulu ukuhlaziya nokuqonda imizwelo yomuntu nokuziphatha. Kodwa-ke, ngenxa yokuthuthukiswa okusheshayo kobuchwepheshe bokufunda okujulile kobuhlakani bokwenziwa, imifantu yokuqala ivele odongeni olungaphandle lwalesi sivimbelo. Kalula nje, unodoli ocansini we-Japan ziyindlela ephelele yokuqonda imfundo yocansi. Uma uhlela ukuyithenga, sicela ungakhohlwa ukuhlola amathiphu okuhlanza onodoli be-silicone. Funda kabanzi mayelana nemfundo yezocansi futhi uhlole ukwaneliseka kwezocansi okulethwa yilaba nodoli.
Inketho engcono kakhulu yokuvikela ubudlelwano bakho nonodoli bocansi. Uma ucabanga ngokujulile ukuthenga labo nodoli, awukho umuzwa wokukhohlisa. Abantu abaningi bathola ukuthi onodoli bocansi abanjengokuphila bayindlela ephephile yokuzethula kubalingani babo ngoba abanayo imizwa yangempela. Onodoli bocansi abanjengokuphila bahlola ucansi kuphela. Uma kukhona uthando, labo nodoli bangakusiza ugweme isizungu ngaphandle kokukhohlisa omunye wakho obalulekile. Emkhakheni ongewona owezokwelapha, isizungu kanye nokuhambisana naso okwandayo kwezingozi zezempilo akubonwa. Ngo-2017, owayenguNobhala Wezempilo wase-US uVivic Murty washicilela indatshana ekhuluma ngomsebenzi nesizungu ku-Harvard Business Review.
Waphawula: “Phakathi neminyaka yami yokunakekela iziguli, isifo esivame kakhulu akusona isifo senhliziyo noma isifo sikashukela, kodwa isizungu. Kusukela ngeminyaka yawo-1980, lesi sizungu siphindeke kabili.” Kunamazinga embonini asezingeni eliphezulu onodoli bezocansi abashibhile. Izandla zitholakala kanzima, futhi onodoli abasezingeni eliphansi bawukulingisa. Ungamane uthenge onodoli bocansi ngamanani aphansi kubathengisi abangenabufakazi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi indoda eshada unodoli wocansi noma indoda eyenza unodoli wocansi ofana nendodakazi yayo, baye bakhokha imali eningi nesikhathi ukuze banelise imibono yabo. Njengoba kuhwalala edolobheni, amadoda angashadile awanazo izihlobo eziwaphelezela endlini eqashisayo, kuphinde kube nesizungu.
