Beka unodoli wakho wothando

Ekuqaleni konyaka, waze wamemezela ukwengezwa “kwelungu elisha” emndenini wakhe kuFacebook. Ubuhle ngu-a Unodoli wezocansi egqoke izingubo zabesifazane. Ngasikhathi sinye, wabeka isithombe somndeni wabathathu. Kungabonakala ukuthi ubuso bukaXie Tianrong bugcwele injabulo, futhi isihloko asisekho abakwa-network abambalwa nabo abazwakalise izibusiso zabo. Amathoyizi ocansi noma onodoli abathandayo esiwasebenzisayo azoguga ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

Yize ngokunakekelwa okufanele nokunakekelwa, impilo kanodoli izothuthukiswa, kodwa zimbalwa izinto ezingaphandle kwamandla ethu. Isibonelo, ngosuku olubalele, ngemuva kokuya ocansini nodoli wakho, uthola ukuthi amalunga ezinqola zedoli lakho awasebenzi, noma ungasikwa ujule lapho umhambisa ususa kwenye indawo uye kwenye.

Ungakhathazeki kulesi simo. Njengoba yonke inkinga inesixazululo, unodoli wakho naye ungelapheka, khumbula nje izinto ezimbalwa. Ukulahla imfashini yakho Unodoli wobulili obungu-100cm eMemphis, udinga kuphela ukupakisha unodoli wakho uwushiye lapho wokulahla udoti. Uma ungatholi ukuthi indawo yokulahla imfucuza yendawo kungukukhetha kwakho okuhle, lapho-ke ungabeka udoli wakho esiteshini esijwayelekile sokuphinda usebenzise udoti.

Uma ucabanga ukufaka unodoli wakho kumqoqi kadoti ojwayelekile, kuwukuhlakanipha ukuqaqa izingxenye zikadoli wakho wangempela, bese uzibeka ngokucophelela izingxenye zakhe esikhwameni semfucumfucu esimnyama noma esibucayi. Vele kunezinto zomzimba, kepha lokhu akuyona ukusetshenziswa okudingekayo. Leli yithuba lokuzikhethela, futhi sethemba ukukhetha ngale ndlela.

Sikholwa ukuthi onodoli besintu abakheke kahle futhi abasezingeni eliphakeme abavela kuma-urdolls maduze bazoba yindlela entsha yokwelapha iziguli ezinokudangala, ukukhathazeka kobuhlobo, ukuphazamiseka kokuzazi kanye nokuphazamiseka. Ngokusho kwedatha ye- "The Sun", ngo-2020, inani lemboni yamathoyizi wezocansi lizodlula amadola ayizigidi eziyizinkulungwane eziyikhulu zamadola aseMelika, lapho imakethe yaseMelika izobalwa nengxenye yezwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, imininingwane yakamuva yakwaYahoo "US Sex Toys Market Size and Forecast" ikhombisa ukuthi ngo-100, Usayizi wemakethe yamathoyizi ocansi ase-US weqe ama-dollar ayizigidi eziyizinkulungwane ezingama-2020.

Imininingwane ayinalutho, kepha okungenani singazizwa ukuthi onodoli bezocansi bangene emkhakheni wokubuka womphakathi. Noma zingajwayelekile njengezinye izidingo zansuku zonke, uzothola abathengisi abaningi ngokwengeziwe ku-Amazon noma kwezinye izinkundla zokuthenga eziku-inthanethi. Izinkampani eziningi kangaka zingazinikela kanjani kulesi sidingo? Ezinye izinto ezingavimba injabulo yakho izintandokazi zakho.

Ungakhetha ukuya ocansini nentombazane emfushane futhi ekhuluphele, kepha umlingani wakho mude futhi mncane. Hhayi unkosikazi wakhe noma intombi yakhe, kepha ilandelana onodoli abahleli kusofa. Uzonikeza unodoli ngamunye igama. Buka i-TV noma ufunde nenkampani yamadonki ocansi abicah. Ngemuva kwezinqubo ezijwayelekile zokugeza nokugqoka, uTa-Bo uzosula ngokucophelela "isikhumba" sikanodoli ngemuva kokugeza futhi afake i-talcum powder kuso ukwenza isikhumba sabo sizizwe njengomuntu wangempela.

Ngemuva kokukhuluma, ufake i unodoli omuhle wocansi izingubo zangaphansi ezikhethwe ngokucophelela, waziphatha waya nazo ekamelweni, walala nazo. Esikhathini esedlule, wayezimisele ukuthwebula onodoli bezocansi abalahliwe. Isimo esinjalo singaveza isithombe esiphelele sesizungu nokwenqatshwa. Kodwa-ke, ukholelwa ukuthi kungcono ukusebenzisa onodoli bezocansi abanengqondo ukususa ubuntu. Ngaleso sikhathi, wayala udoli wezocansi owenziwe ngokwezifiso nguJasmine ngenhloso yakhe yokuthwebula izithombe kithi kwi-Intanethi. Gcina umfutho womoya: Ingcindezi yomoya akuyona ukuphela kwenqubo yokugcina unodoli uphila. Udinga ukulinda umoya ofanele ukuthi usabalale kulo lonke unodoli ngendlela efanayo. Lesi ngesinye sezinkinga ezinkulu ukuvimbela umonakalo kudoli.