Ukuziphatha kwamadoda ngokocansi kuvame ukuthonywa unodoli wocansi otholiwe

Iba nguzakwethu olungile uwedwa. Kafushane, lonke usizo nemizamo okwamanje ayikwazi ukubonwa ngabahambisana nawe. Ikakhulukazi, uma lesi kuyisidingo sakho, kufanele futhi ube umphelelisi olungile, anganikeza ukwesekwa kwawo wonke ama-curl nesifiso sokulala. Vumela umlingani wakho akhethe ukuvuma ukuthi ubulili obulingana nempilo Unodoli wezocansi weTpe isifuba siphezu kombhede. Kufanele futhi wamukele futhi uqinise ubuhlobo bakho naye. Akufanele nje uhlale uqinile ngamaphupho abo, kodwa isimo sakho sengqondo maqondana nawo wonke ama-curls nezifiso zabo kufanele futhi kube kuhle ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kungani? Ngokuyisisekelo, uma kubhekwa ukuthi iwuphawu lwesikhundla sanoma ibuphi ubudlelwano. Uma noma yibaphi abantu ababili ebudlelwaneni baba namandla ngenxa yokukhetha komunye nomunye, khona-ke ubuhlobo ngeke buqhubeke, kodwa futhi buzokwenza bobabili bajabule kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili enkumbulo yakamuva. Ngale ndlela, sigwema konke ukuhlekwa noma ukubukela phansi izifiso zomunye nomunye, futhi sithole izindlela zokuzihlonza.

Lungiselela impendulo. Njengamanje, lapho uqala ukukhuluma ne-torso kanodoli wothando, umlingani wakho angase anqabe ngokushesha, kodwa angase abuye nenqwaba yemibuzo mayelana nabo. Bagcine inketho enzima ngoba ingenza abantu bacabange ukuthi bashintshiwe. Ngakho-ke, sicela ukhumbule ukuthi leli akulona ithuba elihle lokuhlala uqaphile futhi uzinzile. Nakuba udinga ukuthi bavumelane nomzimba kanodoli wangempela, sicela ucabangele incazelo yabo yenkinga. Hlala phansi uphendule yonke imibuzo abanayo, noma ngabe inengqondo noma cha. Isikhathi sokuphila sonodoli ocansini asifushane. Uma igcinwa kahle ngesikhathi sokusetshenziswa, ngeke kube yinkinga ukuyisebenzisa iminyaka emi-5 kuye kwengama-7. Ngokwezibalo, abantu abanonodoli bocansi bangonga cishe u-$25,000 esikhathini esingaphansi kweminyaka emi-5.

Ongqingili nabantu abathandana nobulili obubili nabo babonisa isithakazelo esikhulu ocansini Unodoli Wothando. Kwabaningi bethu, ngenxa yokuthi simatasa ngomsebenzi noma ukufunda, asinaso isikhathi esiningi samahhala sokuthandana nokuthola umlingani, futhi ngezinye izikhathi kunzima ukuthola umlingani ofanelekayo wocansi. Ngakho ngisho noma ukuphila kunokuthula, kuhlale kuyisicefe. Le mpilo inzima kakhulu. Ngalesi sikhathi, udinga ukuthola indlela entsha yokuphila ukuze uvale isikhala enhliziyweni yakho. Onodoli bocansi bayisinqumo esihle. Bangabangane ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Engeza ukucwebezela ekuphileni okuyisidina kuze kube yilapho uthola isithandwa esifanele empilweni yakho. Okokugcina, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ukusebenzisa onodoli bocansi kuyindlela ewusizo yokukusiza ukuthi wonge imali. Ungenza imali ngokuqhubekayo. Ngenxa yokuthi ukuba nonodoli wocansi kungonga ezindlekweni zokuqomisana, asikho isidingo sokuthi uchithe imali eningi ngokuqomisana nentombi yakho masonto onke noma inyanga, okungangonga izindleko eziningi zokuphola kanye nezindleko zokuthenga izipho ezibizayo.

Ukuze uthole ukubukeka kwe-chic nokuyinkimbinkimbi, ngiphakamisa ukuthi ukhethe isilikhi, i-satin noma i-lace. Ucansi Unodoli wezocansi waseJapan izothandeka kakhulu. Uma ungafuni ukulahlekelwa i-sexy yakho, sicela ugweme ikakhulukazi izitayela zikakotini. Kunezinhlobo eziningi zonodoli abancane, kuhlanganise nodoli. Eyakamuva yimfushane kakhulu kunamaphijama akudala ngoba ima ngaphansi kwezinqulu. Ngakho-ke, ngenxa yokuthi uvame ukugqoka ama-slits ngaphambili noma eceleni, inamandla avusa amadlingozi futhi iqinisa umphumela we-sexy. Indlela enhle yokwengeza intshisekelo nokuvusa uthando empilweni yakho yomshado. Akunakuphikwa ukuthi lesi siqeshana siwuphawu lobulili. Ihlanganisa i-bra, i-corset noma i-corset nebhande le-garter. Lona umkhiqizo owodwa ofana kahle nohlobo lomzimba wakho futhi ulingana zonke izinhlobo zomzimba. Uma ufuna ukumangaza umlingani wakho, ngiyayincoma. Le ngubo igqamisa umzimba wakho ngokwenza ukwakheka kwakho kube ngaphansi kuyilapho ikuveza ngobuqili. Ikakhulukazi inhlanganisela yama-corsets nama-bras ikuvumela ukuthi ugcizelele amabele akho njengezinye izinto. Ngakho-ke, i-Basque ikuvumela ukuthi ugqamise amandla akho.

Enye yezinto ezibalulekile okufanele uzikhumbule ngaphambi kokukhuluma ngokuningiliziwe ngalolu cansi oludumile unodoli omuhle wocansi ukukhanya komzimba ukuthi ukuziphatha kwabesilisa ngokocansi kuvame ukuthonywa ulwazi olutholwa empilweni yonke. Ngaphezu kokucabangela izici ezingokwengqondo ngisho nezingokomzwelo zomsebenzi omuhle we-erectile wesilisa, abantu bavame ukusho ukuthi lapho ipipi lingasetshenziselwa ukuzwa okutholakala ngocansi lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, kuzoba nokuphazamiseka okuncane kwezinzwa ezingeni le-penis. Yebo awazi ukuthi ukuphaphama kwemizwa nemizwa ngesikhathi socansi ngeke kuqhathaniswe nemisebenzi eyenziwa wukushaya indlwabu. Isitho sangasese sowesifazane siqinile futhi siswakeme, kanti ipipi limbozwe ngokuphelele lapho lifakwa noma lihlehla liye phambili naphambili: lezi zinhlobo ezimbili zobumnandi zihlukile, kwesinye isikhathi ngenxa yokuthi inhlaka izwela kakhulu futhi ayijwayele ukuqina, ukuqhanyelwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi kungenzeka ngesikhathi socansi. Yilapho idivayisi yokushaya indlwabu kanodoli wesilisa ingadlala indima.

Kungani abesifazane bethengisa izingubo zangaphansi? Bayithengisa ngezizathu ezahlukene. Okokuqala ukwazi ukuthi amadoda ayathanda ukuhogela amaphenti abantu besifazane nonodoli bocansi kuyajabulisa futhi kuyajabulisa. Abesilisa bajabule ngephunga labesifazane, okubanika imibono eminingi. Lokhu kudala ukushintshana phakathi kowesifazane nowesilisa, futhi owesifazane umnika ingxenye enhle yakhe. Esinye isizathu ukuthi abesifazane abenza lokhu bangakwazi ukwengeza iholo labo ekupheleni kwenyanga, noma bathole imali egcwele. Abanye abantu baziphilisa ngalo msebenzi futhi baziphilise ngawo. Ekugcineni, kufanele wazi ukuthi umhlaba unobungane kakhulu. Abesifazane bavame ukukhuluma bodwa, ngezinye izikhathi banikezana iziphakamiso noma imibono.