Balethe unodoli womlingiswa wokuqala emhlabeni ebhodini

Indaba kaRobert yasithinta ngempela, futhi samangala lapho sithola ukuthi kwakungeyena yedwa owenza lesi sinqumo. Kubonakala sengathi amadoda amaningi angabafelokazi asebenzisa onodoli ukuze ahlangabezane nezidingo zawo, aze alale nabo ebusuku. Yebo, lokhu kuzwakala njengesixazululo esingavamile ezinkingeni ezijulile ezingokomzwelo, kodwa ukudabuka kuyinto eyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, uma onodoli bezocansi abashibhile kungasiza amadoda noma abesifazane ukwanelisa kubo lapho ngokuqondakalayo bafuna ukuhlala Wish single, ke siyaziqhenya kakhulu.

Noma kunini, enye yezinselelo ezinkulu amatilosi abhekana nazo ukuntuleka kocansi phakathi nohambo lwawo olude. Yingakho kwaziwa ukuthi uma amatilosi efika ethekwini ngemuva kohambo olude, ajwayele ukuzizwa ekhungathekile mayelana nocansi, kanti amanye asuke ephuthuma endlini yezifebe eseduze ukuze azikhulule. Nokho, ngekhulu le-17, okaputeni abathile abahlakaniphile baqhamuka nesu elihlakaniphile lokuxazulula le nkinga: beza nonodoli bokuqala emhlabeni, ababevumela amatilosi ukuba anelise izifiso zawo zobulili phakathi nohambo. Nakuba bekudala kakhulu, labonodoli bocansi bokuqala bothando bayasebenza kakhulu, futhi amatilosi abathanda kakhulu.

Uma uzizwa unesizungu, ungase ufune ukuzama unodoli omuhle wocansi njalo njalo. Ucwaningo olusha lukhombisa ukuthi ukwaneliseka ocansini kunciphisa imizwa yokuhlukaniswa, nokuthi abantu abanesizungu basemathubeni amaningi okuthi baye ocansini noma bashaye indlwabu kunabantu abangebona bodwa. Ngakho-ke, uma uzizwa uwedwa, ungavumeli le mizwa iphume ekulawuleni-mane wanelise izifiso zakho zocansi ngendlela ekwenza uzizwe uphephile futhi ukhululekile.

Ucansi akufanele lube lubi-ngisho nonodoli! Uma kuhlanganiswa nokwelashwa noma ezinye izinhlobo zokukhathazeka nokucindezeleka, I-WM Doll kunganciphisa ukucindezeleka kwakho nanoma yiziphi izimpawu ezihlobene nokuqwasha nokukhathala. Iphinde ithuthukise impilo yonke ngokuthuthukisa ikhwalithi yokulala nomfutho wegazi, kanye nokunciphisa amazinga okucindezeleka.

Onodoli bocansi abanayo isethi yabo yemizwa, izintandokazi noma izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi, ngakho-ke baphephile futhi bajabulisa wonke umuntu. Onodoli bocansi nabo ngeke bakhulelwe. Siyaqaphela ukuthi ngenxa yezizathu ezihlukahlukene, abanye abantu babheka amathoyizi ocansi noma onodoli njengosongo, kodwa lo mbono wamukelwa ngokushesha kuleli zwe lanamuhla.

Ingabe onodoli bocansi bangawuthuthukisa umshado nokuphila isikhathi eside? Abanye abantu bakhathazeka ngokuthi onodoli bocansi noma amarobhothi azonciphisa izinga lomshado, ngoba amadoda angase athathe indawo yabangane bangempela Unodoli wezocansi noma amarobhothi. Nokho, kuvela ukuthi lokhu kufana nokusabalalisa ukwesaba. Kuze kube manje, izithombe zobulili ezingcolile nezidlidlizayo azikasongeli izinga lomshado noma ubuhlobo. Eqinisweni, ukwethula amathoyizi ocansi ebudlelwaneni kungaba nempilo kakhulu.