Ungase ube nobunzima bokubeka unodoli wocansi lapho uwufuna khona uma usebenzisa

Ngaphambi kokuthenga onodoli bothando besilisa, qiniseka ukuthi unendawo yokugcina izinto. Qinisekisa ukuthi unendawo ekhululekile neyomile. Ikhuluma ngobude bobudlelwano obujabulisayo. Ungalala kanjani nonodoli besilisa: Ngokungafani nonodoli besifazane, Idoli locansi lowesilisa zingabekwa ukuze bobabili abesilisa nabesifazane bakwazi ukwenza ucansi. Ngakho ungaqinisekisa uhambo oluguquguqukayo lwezocansi. Futhi, unodoli wothando wesilisa une-dildo ehlukanisekayo ongakwazi ukukhuphula noma ukunciphisa usayizi ngokuthanda kwakho. Kukhona i-anal ne-oral.

Onodoli besilisa bocansi nabo bazizwa benamandla futhi beqinile kunonodoli bocansi besifazane. Ingasetshenziswa endunu noma emlonyeni futhi inenzuzo eyengeziwe yokuphonsa nokubamba. Ukusebenzisa i-lubricant ephambili ngonodoli wakho wocansi kwandisa ukuqina futhi kunciphisa ukungqubuzana nengcindezi. I-Lube ithuthukisa futhi umuzwa ngokwenza i-sloppy osekunesikhathi ilindelwe izwakale ithembekile futhi inethezekile, sebenzisa njalo okokugcoba okusekelwe emanzini uma usebenzisa onodoli bocansi. Lokhu okunye okusekelwe emanzini ngeke kubeke engcupheni ikhwalithi yomkhiqizo wonodoli bocansi futhi, njengezinye izitayela ze-lube, i-latex-friendly.

Ekuqaleni, kwakungezwakali ukuthi kusetshenziswe eyodwa kuphela, kodwa futhi kwakungavumelekile ukukhuluma ngayo esidlangalaleni. Lokhu kugqamisa ukubaluleka kwamaqhawe afana noHoward Stern ongumsakazi okwathi phakathi kwesimo esingesihle ngale ndaba, wa-oda unodoli wocansi olingana nempilo yakhe walala naye emsakazweni. Izenzo zakhe zasusa inkulumompikiswano yomhlaba wonke eyaholela ekungeneni kwabantu abaningi Unodoli wezocansi yokuthengisa emhlabeni wonke.

Ngaphandle kokugxeka okunzima, sonke siyavuma ukuthi onodoli bocansi bashintsha umdlalo kanye nesizathu esenza abantu abaningi basamomotheka. Eqinisweni, abantu abaningi abazisebenzisi zabo Unodoli wezocansi waseJapan ukuphelelisa ubudlelwano babo, kodwa njengabalingani bempilo yonke. Kubo, onodoli bobulili bangcono kakhulu kunabesifazane futhi bafunga ukuthi bazokhululeka ezinkolelweni ezithandwayo ezingqubuzanayo.

Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukucabangela izisindo ngempela kuzo zonke izigaba zenqubo yokuthatha izinqumo. Uma isinda kakhulu, ungase ube nobunzima bokumisa unodoli wocansi lapho omfuna khona uma uyisebenzisa. Ukuma kungenye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kunoma yimuphi unodoli wocansi, futhi isisindo sidlala indima enkulu kulokho. Ukuze uthole iqiniso eliphelele, kufanele ukhethe isisindo esingokoqobo sabesifazane.

Ubukhulu bedoli yakho yocansi buncike ezintweni ezihlukahlukene nezinto eziza kuqala. Yiqiniso, kufanele ucabange ngokugcina nokubeka; uma ungenayo indawo yokugcina eyakho Unodoli wezocansi weTpe, kusobala uzoba nezinkinga. Ngakho qiniseka ukuthi ukhetha usayizi olingana lapho ubeka khona unodoli wakho. Konodoli bobulili besifazane, ungathola ukuphakama okungamamitha angu-5, kodwa ungaya kuncane uma uthanda. Konodoli besilisa, ubude bebanga bukhulu nakakhulu, ngokuvamile bufika cishe kumafidi angu-6.