Ukugcwaliseka Kwenganekwane Yabantu Abadala: Umhlaba Oyengayo Wonodoli Abangokoqobo Bocansi

Eminyakeni yamuva nje, ukuthambekela okukhulayo kudonse ukunaka kwabantu abadala abafuna ubungane obuyingqayizivele nobuseduze: onodoli bocansi abanjengokuphila. Labo nodoli abaklanywe ngokucophelela, abafana nempilo bavusa isithakazelo esikhulu futhi babekela inselele imikhuba yomphakathi unodoli ocansini ohamba phambili mayelana nobudlelwano kanye nempumelelo yomuntu. Kulesi sihloko, sihlola umhlaba wonodoli abadala oyimpikiswano nokho othakazelisayo, sihlola izindaba nemibono ephathelene nokusetshenziswa kwabo.

isifiso esenqatshelwe

Igumbi lalinokukhanya okulufifi futhi linomoya wemfihlakalo nokulangazelela. UJohn, usomabhizinisi ophumelelayo oneminyaka engamashumi amane ubudala, wayehlale enesifiso esingashiwongo sobungane, kodwa ukuphila okumatasa kwakuvame ukubaphazamisa ekwakheni ukuxhumana okujulile. Ilukuluku limshukumisela ukuba ahlole onodoli abavusa inkanuko ngolunye usuku, ukuzitika okwanelisa izifiso zakhe ezijulile. Lapho u-John embula unodoli wakhe omusha u-Emma, ​​ophilayo futhi omuhle ngendlela emangalisayo, enamajika ahehayo namehlo akhangayo, u-John akakwazi ukuzibamba kodwa waba nokuxhumana okungaqondakali kwalo muzwa wendalo engaphili kodwa okhangayo. Kuye, u-Emma uhlanganisa ukugcwaliseka kokugcina kwenganekwane yabantu abadala—umngane oseduze onganikeza ubungane kodwa ngaphandle kwenkimbinkimbi yobudlelwano bangempela bempilo.

indaba yothando eyingqayizivele

Ngakolunye uhlangothi lwedolobha, uSara osanda kweva eminyakeni engamashumi amathathu naye udonsa kanzima ukuze athole uthando oluhlala njalo. Akaqinisekanga ngokubukeka kwakhe, futhi unesifiso esinamandla sokuba othile amamukele ngaphandle kokwahlulela. Ukusesha kuka-Sarah kumyisa emhlabeni omusha lapho ethola khona umlingani wakhe okahle, u-Steven, unodoli ongokoqobo oklanyelwe ukufeza izidingo nezifiso zakhe ezihlukile. Yabo I-DL Doll indaba yothando engajwayelekile iveza ngokuzinikela okukhulu nokwesekwa okungantengantengi. Ku-Steven, u-Sarah uthola induduzo engaphezu kwalokho obekulindelwe umphakathi, ujabulela izinga lokunethezeka nokuxhumana okungokomzwelo ahlulekile ukukuzuza empilweni yakhe yonke. Ubuhlobo babo bugcwele uthando futhi abuvinjelwe yizinkambiso zomphakathi.

Ukukhetha Okunempikiswano Kodwa Okukhululayo

Nakuba ukusetshenziswa konodoli bobulili bangempela kungase kubhekwe njengempikiswano, umphakathi akufanele usheshe ukubushaya indiva lobu budlelwano obungajwayelekile. Abasekeli baphikisa ngokuthi onodoli abadala banikeza indawo yokuhlola, ukuzihlola nokwaneliseka, ikakhulukazi kulabo abangakwazi ukuthola ubungane bendabuko. Kodwa-ke, abagxeki baphakamise ukukhathazeka mayelana nokubhekwa kwabesifazane kanye nomthelela wakho ongase ube khona ekuguquguqukeni komphakathi. Umbuzo osalayo uthi: Siyihlukanisa kanjani inganekwane neqiniso ekuphishekeleni injabulo? Njengoba labo nodoli bethuthuka kakhulu, bakwazi ukuphindaphinda imizwa eyinkimbinkimbi ngisho nobuhlakani bokwenziwa, umphakathi uzodinga ukubhekana nemithelela yesimilo nemizwa yalokhu.

Ukunyuka kwamadoli ocansi angokoqobo kubonisa isifiso esijulile, esingashiwongo sokuxhumana kwabantu nokugcwaliseka. Njengoba bekhululiwe emigoqweni yezenhlalo nezahlulelo, labo nodoli baba umfanekiso wenganekwane, banikeza Unodoli we-SY isikhwama esiyingqayizivele sobungani nokugcwaliseka ngokomzwelo. Njengoba sizulazula endaweni eyinkimbinkimbi yamaphupho nezifiso zabantu abadala, kuba semqoka ukuthi sibe nezingxoxo ezivulekile nezinenhlonipho emzamweni wethu wokuqonda ukugqugquzela okunezinhlangothi eziningi ngemuva kwalobu budlelwano obungajwayelekile. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kubhekwa njengento engafanele noma inkululeko, izwe elingokoqobo lonodoli bobulili lisiphoqa ukuba sibuze imingcele yobudlelwane besimanje kanye nokufuna ukuzijabulisa komuntu siqu.