Ama-prototypes alawa I-WM Doll babizwa "Nkosikazi" ukuzulazula. "Babukeka njengomuntu, owenziwe ngendwangu eboshelwe ezigxotsheni zoqalo. Laba nodoli baze bagqoke iziketi, okwenza kube lula kulabo abafuna okuthile ukuze baveze izifiso zabo zokubafinyelela. Onodoli bezothando ekugcineni bazoneliseka ngoba bazothola ukususa ubuhlobo bangempela ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zocansi.
Kodwa-ke, ngenxa yomthelela wesifo esisha se-COVID-19 ngo-2020, sesiqala ukubhekana nemakethe enkulu. Ngasekuqaleni konyaka, njengoba abantu abangashadile abengeziwe bephendukela ekuthandaneni nge-Intanethi, amarobhothi ocansi abalingani kanye nodoli bezocansi babikezelwa njengezindlela ezizayo zokuxhumana nabantu. Abanye abantu bathi laba bantu bazokwanelisa ilukuluku, abanye bathi onodoli bobulili bayizintombi zesibili zamadoda. Ngeke bacele amadoda ukuthi enze noma yini ukwanelisa izifiso zawo.
Bangenza noma yini lapho beyidinga. Ngingayibeka nini. Isifinyezo: Ungasebenzisi nje labo onodoli bobulili bendabuko, kukhona onodoli abasha nabamangalisayo abakunika umuzwa wonodoli bezocansi bangempela. Ngokushintsha kwezizukulwane, abantu sebesungule onodoli abaningi bezocansi, abangagcini ngokuletha ukuzijabulisa kubo, kepha futhi baletha ukwaneliseka ezimpilweni zabo.
Kunezinkulungwane zonodoli bobulili obunjengokuphila obusetshenziswa ngabantu, futhi babalethela injabulo yokuphila emiqondweni yabo ukuze uthole kalula ukwaneliseka okuhle kwezocansi engqondweni yakho futhi ukukunikeze okufunayo konke.
Imibono ye Unodoli wezocansi weTpe abakhiqizi onodoli bezocansi namarobhothi ocansi. Abenzi bakanodoli abathandayo baveze ngokushesha ukuthi inhloso yasekuqaleni yokukhiqiza onodoli bezocansi ingaphezu kwalokho. Ngokuphambene nalokho, zinikeza ubudlelwano nasebekhulile nabakhubazekile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, bangehlisa isizungu sabantu abanqunywe emphakathini ngenxa yeminyaka noma ukukhubazeka. Ngenkathi uSteve, 36, nodoli wakhe wobulili, uBeibei, bebopha ifindo likasofasilahlane, konke lokhu kwamangala.
Ku-2019, uSteve wabona unodoli wezocansi kaBabe online futhi wanquma ukumletha empilweni yakhe. Ngenxa yalokhu, kwamthatha iminyaka emibili kuphela ukuthi aqale ngokusemthethweni ukuphola ngonodoli wakhe wobulili. Nakanjani uzoyithokozela impilo yakho eshadile, unodoli wothando onokuguquguquka okukhulu. Ukuguquguquka kwalezi zidoli kukuvumela ukuthi uzame zonke izinhlobo zezimo ongazicabanga.
Bangadlala indima ebalulekile ekwenzeni impilo yakho yasemshadweni ibe mnandi kakhulu kunakuqala. Ukuletha onodoli bothando ebuhlotsheni bakho akukwazi ukuthuthukisa ubulili kuphela, kepha futhi kukhulisa ulwazi. Ungajabulela futhi ongenacala abathathu ngokusebenzisa laba onodoli.
