Ngakho ubenza kanjani abangani abasha bonodoli bocansi? Sizodabula amathiphu okuthi singabakha kanjani futhi sigcine ubungane obunempilo ngokwemvelo, futhi siqinisekise ukuthi uyasigwema isizungu; thola izintshisekelo nemisebenzi othanda ukuyenza. Ubungane buyachuma endaweni enesithakazelo kuyo. Hlala uphishekela ikhwalithi phezu kobuningi. Yenza umzamo wokwenza unodoli wezocansi wangempela umngane, hhayi inqwaba yamanga Izithande Zothando abangane.
Ubani othi abangani bonodoli bocansi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana abafani? Zinike isikhathi sokuthumela imiyalezo kubangani bakho be-Facebook futhi uthole ukuthi kwenzakalani ngabo. Ngeke wazi, maduzane bangase babe abaseduze kwakho Idoli locansi lowesilisa abangani, kude nobungane obugxile ezingozini ezingenakubalwa nokusebenzisa kabi izidakamizwa. Funa ubungane obunempilo.
Ngokukhetha ukuthenga onodoli bocansi noma ukukhetha ukudlala indima ethile yocansi
Izinsiza eziningi zokufundisa ngocansi zigqamisa imibono eguqukayo mayelana nocansi kanye nocansi. Njengoba lezi zinguquko ziya zithandwa kakhulu, sibona nesimo sengqondo esisha maqondana namathoyizi ocansi. Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ngokukhetha ukuthenga unodoli wocansi noma ukukhetha ukuhlanganyela ekulingiseni okuthile kwezocansi, babamba iqhaza kulo mkhuba ngokwawo, okubavumela ukuthi bahlole izindlela ezintsha zokubonisana ngokocansi nokusondelana. Ngokwenza abantu bahlehle enqubweni futhi bagxile ekujabuleleni isipiliyoni sokudlala nge Unodoli wezocansi kunokudlala nomunye umuntu, incane ingcindezi yokuzama ukuba nobudlelwano bocansi empilweni yangempela.
Uma ucabanga ukuthi onodoli bocansi bangasiza kanjani ekunikezeni indawo yocansi, kulula ukubona ukuthi bangasizakala kanjani ekuthuthukeni kwabantu abahle. Njengoba abantu bechitha isikhathi esiningi ku-inthanethi, umqondo wokuba onodoli abangabantu bahlole amandla abo ocansi ubonakala useduze neqiniso kunezindlela zendabuko.
Lokhu kungase kubonakale kuphikisana kuwe, kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi ngemva kokusebenzisa unodoli wocansi, umlingani angathola ubuhlobo obuseduze kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili. Ngemva kweminyaka embalwa nithandana, nakanjani nizobhoreka ngomlingani wakho. Ngaleso sikhathi, ngokubandakanya omunye umuntu ebudlelwaneni, abalingani bangavimbela isithukuthezi futhi banonge impilo yabo yocansi. Yingakho ukuba nonodoli wocansi ekamelweni kuqinisekisa ukuthi akekho umlingani ozokopela, okwenza kube indlela ephephile yokubuyisela ukusondelana.
Uma usothandweni noma ungashadile, awunakho ukulawula impilo yakho yocansi. Izinga lempilo yakho yocansi lizoncika komunye umuntu futhi awukwazi ukuya ocansini ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kodwa-ke, ngokuba nonodoli wocansi ekamelweni lakho, ungaqinisekisa ukuthi ungenza ucansi noma nini lapho uthanda, ngisho noma umlingani wakho engafuni. Futhi, kubantu abangashadile, asikho isidingo sokuthi uye e-bar ukuyothatha umuntu ngoba uzoba nonodoli wakho wocansi olinde ekamelweni lakho ukuze akunike noma yini oyifunayo. Onodoli bothando bayikhulula ngempela impilo yakho yocansi ngokungafani nezinye. Wonke umuntu uyayithanda inkululeko empilweni, futhi impilo yakho yocansi ingenye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu empilweni yakho. Izinga lakho lempilo lilonke lincike kakhulu eqophelweni lempilo yakho yocansi. Uma ufuna inkululeko empilweni, kuzomele ukhulule impilo yakho yocansi ngaphambi kokuthi ujabulele impilo ezimele ngempela. Ngakho ngokuletha eyakho Unodoli wezocansi waseJapan ekhaya, uzobona ushintsho olukhulu empilweni yakho iyonke ngoba impilo yakho yocansi izothuthukiswa ngokumangalisayo.
