Uzizwa uthandwa futhi uhlanganisiwe uma ukuba nonodoli wocansi olingana nempilo eceleni kwakho kungasiza

Isizungu nokucindezeleka kuwusongo engxenyeni enkulu yabantu, kusishiya sisengozini yezinkinga zempilo zesikhathi eside ezifana nesifo sikashukela nesifo senhliziyo. Ngokocwaningo olwenziwa ngoMeyi 2018, cishe amaphesenti angama-54 abantu, iningi labo elingabantu abahle, bakholelwa ukuthi akekho onendaba nobukhona babo. Isizungu nokucindezeleka kunganqandwa yizinto eziningi ezenzeka ekuphileni kwethu kwansuku zonke, futhi ngenxa yemiphumela eyingozi yokuphila ukuphila okunesizungu, akukho okudlula ukuhlinzeka ngezixazululo zesikhathi eside. akunjalo?

Onodoli bocansi bakunikeza umaqondana ozokwabelana naye ngezikhathi eziphansi kakhulu zempilo yakho lapho kungekho obonakala enaka. Imvamisa, isizungu sikwenza uqhelelane nezixuku, futhi ukuba nonodoli wocansi olingana nempilo eceleni kwakho kungakusiza uzizwe uthandwa futhi uhlanganisiwe. Ngokungafani nabangane bakho, onodoli bocansi bazolalela, abasoze bakwahlulela, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, Onodoli Abathandana Nabesifazane izohlale ikunikeza indawo ephephile yokukhuluma okucabangayo.

Uma ufuna ukuya ocansini oluphephile nonodoli wakho wocansi, sebenzisa ikhondomu futhi uyigcine kahle

Ukuthenga unodoli wocansi kuwukutshalwa kwezimali okukhulu, futhi ufuna ukuwuvikela ukuze ukwazi ukusebenzisa unodoli isikhathi eside. Ukuhlanza nokugcinwa ngendlela efanele kubaluleke kakhulu, kodwa uma ungayigcini kahle, ngeke kuhlale isikhathi eside. Futhi, uma ungumnikazi wezilwane ezifuywayo njengezinja namakati, nakanjani ufuna zihlale kude nonodoli; ngaphandle kwalokho bangase bakulimaze noma bakudle ngesikhathi sasemini.

Uzobe ulala no- Izithande Zothando, ngakho-ke ufuna ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi umthondo wakho uhlanzekile futhi usesimweni esihle ngaphambi kokuwufaka. Abanikazi bonodoli besilisa nabo kumele baqinisekise ukuthi izitho zangasese nomzimba kanodoli wocansi kuhlanzekile. Uma unodoli ugcinwe endaweni enzima, ungangcoliswa amagciwane, uthuli noma isikhunta, okungaholela ezinkingeni zempilo. Uma ufuna ukuya ocansini oluphephile nonodoli wakho wocansi, sebenzisa ikhondomu futhi uyigcine kahle.

Abanikazi bazizwa benamandla kakhulu lapho baya ocansini nalezi zinhlobo zonodoli

Ingabe bonke onodoli bocansi banomphumela ofanayo kubanikazi babo? Lutho neze. Iqiniso liwukuthi, ngokufanayo-Idoli locansi lowesilisa ungabi nomthelela ofanayo kubantu abahlukene. Imuphi umthelela nokuceba abantu abazokuthola kuncike kubo ngokuphelele, futhi singasho ngokuphepha ukuthi onodoli be-hyperreal banomthelela omkhulu kubanikazi babo. Ziyinto eseduze kakhulu kumuntu wangempela, futhi umnikazi uzizwa eqine kakhulu lapho eya ocansini nalezi zinhlobo zonodoli.

Njengoba kunikezwe ukuhlukahluka kwe Unodoli wezocansi, kunzima ukusho ukuthi iyiphi inketho engcono kakhulu yokuthuthukisa ikhwalithi yempilo yakho yocansi. Uma unentshisekelo yokuzama onodoli bocansi ukuze uthole imiphumela yesikhathi eside, kufanele uqaphele ukuthi uzodinga ukwenza ucwaningo oluningi kumkhiqizi ngamunye, izinto ezisetshenziswayo, futhi vele, uzodinga ukuthola izibuyekezo zangempela ezivela abantu asebenazo.