"I-WM Doll kuyabanda, kodwa bayanda abantu abafuna okuthile okufudumele," kusho yena. "Kuzokwenzakalani-ke? Ngiyesaba ukutholwa." Unodoli akakwazanga ukukhuluma. Kukhona ukuxhumana phakathi kukanodoli nomnikazi, kodwa umnikazi futhi unokuxhumana okuzimele nomuntu. Uma lowo muntu engakwazi ukuthenga irobhothi elihlangabezana nazo zonke izidingo zakhe, Khona-ke ukuxhumana nabanye abantu kuba okungadingekile. "Yiqiniso, kukhona izingxenye zomzimba, kodwa lokhu akuyona into edingekayo. Leli yithuba lokuzikhethela futhi sethemba ukuthi sizokhetha ngale ndlela. Sikholelwa ukuthi odoli bangempela abaklanywe ngokucophelela nabasezingeni eliphezulu abavela kuma-urdoll maduzane bazoba ukwelashwa kokucindezeleka , Ukwelashwa okusha kweziguli ezinenkinga yokukhathazeka phakathi kwabantu, i-selfconsciousness disorder kanye nokuphazamiseka.
Umagazini i-"Forbes" ubikezela ukuthi amathuluzi ahlakaniphile ahlobene nokunethezeka kwezocansi azokhula abe imboni ebiza cishe amaRandi ayizigidi eziyizinkulungwane ezintathu phakathi neminyaka engu-3. Ngo-5, ifilimu ethi "The Love of Inflatable Doll" edlalwa uRyan Gosling yabonakala imemezela lokhu kusondelana okusha: U-Lars, ophethwe yi-autism kanye ne-social phobia, ekugcineni wadlula unodoli ophefumulayo u-Leonor amyala. Ubuye wathi: "Yebo, angikwazi ukwenza sengathi lokhu kuyinto evamile, ngoba empeleni kuyahlanya. Kodwa mhlawumbe futhi kuwuhlobo lwenjabulo engenangqondo." UDean wayengudokotela wengqondo ngaphambi kokuthatha umhlalaphansi.
Eminyakeni emihlanu edlule, “wayethanda lapho ebona kuqala” uSara, imbongolo enkulu unodoli wobulili we-anime, futhi ngemva kwamahora ambalwa, akabange esabiza uSara ngokuthi “it” kodwa “yena”. Umgomo wakhe wesikhathi esizayo uwukuqoqa okungenani onodoli bezithandani abangu-20 bemikhiqizo nezinhlanga ezahlukene, futhi umemezele ukuthi usebenza kanzima ukulwa nokucwaswa konodoli bocansi emphakathini. "Abantu bangaba nomuntu oyedwa kuphela. Mayelana nonodoli, ngifuna njengoba ngithanda. Ufuna malini."
Onodoli bocansi banikeza abantu umuzwa wangempela weqiniso kakhudlwana, omuhle kangangokuthi banomuzwa wokuthi bayinto eseduze kakhulu nabantu bangempela abahamba nabo. Uma ufuna ukuthenga unodoli womlingiswa wokuqala, umthetho omuhle okufanele siwulandele ukugwema ukusebenzisa onodoli mbumbulu nezifaniso. Masingazulazuli sizungeze lolu daba. Uma ufuna unodoli wothando ongokoqobo, ungase ufune ukugwema onodoli bewebhusayithi abashibhile. Lapho benomlingani, ukucindezeleka, ukukhathazeka nokucindezeleka kuzokwehla kancane kancane.
Umngane uyisidingo esiyisisekelo somuntu. Uma kunganeliseki, kungase kubangele izinkinga ezinkulu ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Ngakho-ke, labo nodoli bothando bokuphila bazoba nawe, bakunike ithuba lokubaphatha njengamalungu omndeni futhi bakuvumele uzwe amahomoni ajabulisayo akhishwa umzimba wakho. U-Howard Stern wake wabonisa unodoli wakhe wezocansi olingana nempilo yakhe emsakazweni bukhoma.
Ngenxa yokuthandwa kwakhe okuphezulu, lokhu kuyisizinda samanzi unodoli ocansini we-Japan. Kusukela lapho, izinkulungwane zamakhasimende zibonile futhi zaqala ukuthenga onodoli bocansi. Ngokwazi umhleli we-urdolls, akekho oye wabhekana nanoma yimiphi imibiko yemiphumela emibi yezempilo, futhi cishe wonke umuntu engikhuluma naye uzizwa emuhle. Bambalwa abantu abangacabanga ukuthi umnikazi we-Aiwawa ungumuntu ophambene noma umlutha wothando, kodwa abantu abaziqondi izizathu ezihlukahlukene zokuthi kungani begcina i-Aiwawa, abayiqondi kahle. Amadoda amaningi abhekene nokukhathazeka komphakathi noma ukungavikeleki komuntu siqu. Bangakwazi ukuzihlanganisa kalula nonodoli bangempela futhi bazizwe bengcono, labo nodoli babukeka njengendlela enhle yokuthola ukwaneliseka nokukhululwa kothando.
