Banethemba lokuthi bazoduduzeka ngaphambi kokulala. Lapho ebuzwa ngokungakhathali, ngithemba ukuthi lo "mlingani" angalukhumbula usuku lwakhe lokuzalwa, izinto zokuzilibazisa ngisho nosayizi wezingubo zangaphansi, aze azisize nokuhlelela ama-takeaways futhi akhiphe udoti. Kepha amadoda ahlukile. Bakhathalela kuphela ukuthi irobhothi lingabanika yini ucansi lomlomo oluphelele njengomuntu wangempela. Ochwepheshe abaphikisana nokuhlanganiswa kwamarobhothi ezocansi emphakathini ngokushesha baveza izinkinga ezingalethwa yilobu buchwepheshe obusha. Okokuqala, kunenkinga yokuziphatha ngokubambisana, okungukuthi, ukuthi ubuhlobo obuseduze nobuhlakani bokufakelwa buyisenzo sokungathembeki.
Ucwaningo olufanele ku thanda unodoli abathengisi empeleni kubaluleke kakhulu. Akunandaba ukuthi ufunani onodoli bothando, abahlinzeki bangempela bazokwabelana nawe ngalo lonke ulwazi olufanele mayelana nodoli. Kunconywa ukubona ubuqiniso bemininingwane yothando lonodoli nencazelo enikezwe ngumthengisi. Kepha kusho ukuthini lapho abantu abaningi bechaza lo mbungu ngokombono wesilisa?
Ngakho-ke, ubungazizwa kanjani uma uzungezwe amantombazane ashisayo amnandi (unodoli ocansini we-Japan)? Wena nobhanana wakho oshukiwe uzodluliselwa ezizukulwaneni ngezizukulwane. Akunjalo? Nikeza ubungane obuhleIzithandani zangempela zothando zinganikeza ubungani obumangalisayo phakathi kocansi ongakaze ububone ngaphambili. Ikuvumela ukuthi uhlole inzuzo enkulu yokusebenzisa i-Love Doll ukuthi ikuvumela ukuthi uhlole imicabango yakho yezocansi ngendlela oyifunayo. I-Aiwawa nayo kulula ukuyisebenzisa.
Lokhu kulula ukuhambisa, futhi ungakusebenzisa ngokuya ngezidingo zakho nokufaneleka kwakho. UWhitney ungene kwisithangami samarobhothi ezocansi kanti ubeseqaphe izingxoxo zabo izinyanga. Uthe: "Bengicabanga ukuthi bazoba yizipoki ezimbi, bahlanye." "Angazi ukuthi ngikutshele kanjani, bangabantu abahle kakhulu, bayabathanda onodoli babo." Ingabe unodoli wezocansi uhlukile ekushaya indlwabu ngokobulili owesilisa? Ngaphambi kokuthenga unodoli wezocansi, ungahle ucabangele ukuthi ngabe wehlukile yini kwithoyi yokushaya indlwabu owesilisa, noma uzokunika umuzwa ofanayo nethoyizi elijwayelekile locansi.
Lokhu kuhluke ngokuphelele kumathoyizi ocansi owasebenzise ngaphambili, ukuze ukwazi ukuletha imiphumela emihle ngasikhathi sinye. Umbuzo wokuqala ngokuvula i- onodoli bezocansi abashibhile ihholo lesipiliyoni. Kunamahholo ambalwa kakhulu wokuqasha onodoli bezocansi abesenesikhathi eside evulekile. Eqinisweni, kulula ukuyivula, kepha kunzima ukusebenza. Ngaphandle kwamaqembu angawamukeli onodoli bezocansi ngokwengqondo, kunezimpikiswano eziningi ngomthelela wazo.
