“Onodoli bocansi bayabanda, kodwa bayanda abafuna into efudumele,” kusho yena. "Kuzokwenzekani-ke? Ngiyesaba ukutholwa." I unodoli wobulili we-anime akakwazanga ukukhuluma. Kukhona ukuxhumana phakathi kukanodoli nomnikazi, kodwa umnikazi ubuye abe nokuxhumana okuzimele nomuntu. Uma umuntu ofanayo engakwazi ukuthenga irobhothi elihlangabezana nazo zonke izidingo zakhe, khona-ke ukuxhumana nabanye abantu kuba okungadingekile. “Kubantu besilisa abahlale bebheke phambili ekuvuselelweni ucansi, onodoli bocansi bayisinqumo esihle.
Ukuze kuthuthukiswe impilo yocansi, amadoda anamuhla ngeke abe nokunye ukukhetha okungcono kakhulu esikhundleni sonodoli abadala abahlukahlukene abatholakala kalula emakethe. Ukuya ocansini nonodoli bocansi abanjengokuphila kungaletha noma ubani ezingeni lenjabulo eyedlulele lokho amadoda amaningi angayilindela ngokuvamile. Ukuvumelana nezimo-Isici esiyinhloko esigqugquzela abantu ukuthi bathenge labo nodoli ukuguquguquka kwabo okumangalisayo. Onodoli abathanda ukuphila okunempilo bavumela abantu ukuba baye ocansini nabo ezindaweni eziningi ezahlukene zocansi abahlale beziphupha.
Lokhu futhi okuqukethwe okuyinhloko ngemuva kwesimangalo sokuthi u-Aiwa unguzakwethu ongcono kakhulu embhedeni. Ungakwazi kalula ukuzijwayeza izimo ezihlukahlukene ngalaba onodoli. Ufuna ukuzama nomlingani wangempela ocansini, kodwa wesaba ukwaliwa nguye. Inkinga enkulu iningi labantu abadala ababhekana nayo isizungu. Ubuhle babantu abaningi asebekhulile buhlala kude nabo, noma babekwe ezindlini zokunakekela asebekhulile. Ngisho noma ngihlala nabazali bami, anginaso isikhathi esiningi sokubanakekela.
Ngakho-ke, bazizwa benesizungu. Nge onodoli bezocansi abashibhile, bayozizwa sengathi ukhona olalela amazwi abo, ozobaphelezela lapho becindezelekile, futhi owenza konke abakwenzayo ngumlingani wabo. Amadoda asothandweni azocabangela ukusebenzisa labo nodoli ngaphandle kokuzwa ukuthi umlingani wabo uqhathiwe. Imibhangqwana eminingi ithola ukuthi onodoli abanjalo bayindlela ephephile yokubethula kubalingani babo ngoba abanayo ngempela imizwa. Onodoli bocansi abalutho ngaphandle kokuhlola ucansi okumangalisayo.
Uma uthanda labo nodoli ukuze ujabulele ubumnandi bocansi, awudingi ukukopela nomlingani wakho. Sonke siyazi ukuthi ukulahlekelwa kuyingxenye evamile yokuphila, kodwa namanje kusenza sidabuke. Ubuhlungu bokubhekana nokulahlekelwa buyahlukahluka kumuntu nomuntu. Abanye abantu bangase bagxile emsebenzini, kuyilapho abanye bathola ukuthi ukuchitha isikhathi nomndeni kungabasiza ekubhekaneni nosizi. Gwema ukuthenga onodoli kubathengisi mbumbulu. Kuhle futhi ukukhetha isitolo esivame ukuhlinzeka ngokuhlolwa kwekhwalithi kanodoli ngaphambi kokulethwa kumakhasimende.
Namuhla, abathengisi abakhetha ukuhlinzeka ngesevisi yangemuva kokuthengisa nabo bayisinqumo esihle. Ukukhetha okungcono kakhulu kwabangashadile-amadoda angashadile akhathazekile ngokuthola ezinye izindlela zokufeza izifiso zawo zocansi angakhetha unodoli wothando ofanayo. Njengamanje, ngisho nabangashadile abadingi ukuthola umaqondana ukuze bazitike kunoma yimuphi umsebenzi wocansi, ngoba laba nodoli batholakala kalula. Gwema ukuthenga onodoli kubathengisi mbumbulu. Kuhle futhi ukukhetha isitolo esivame ukuhlinzeka ngokuhlolwa kwekhwalithi kanodoli ngaphambi kokulethwa kumakhasimende.
Namuhla, abathengisi abakhetha ukuhlinzeka ngesevisi yangemuva kokuthengisa nabo bayisinqumo esihle. Ukukhetha okungcono kakhulu kwabangashadile-amadoda angashadile akhathazekile ngokuthola ezinye izindlela zokufeza izifiso zawo zocansi angakhetha unodoli wothando ofanayo. Njengamanje, ngisho nabangashadile abadingi ukuthola umaqondana ukuze bazitike kunoma yimuphi umsebenzi wocansi, ngoba laba nodoli batholakala kalula.
Kulokhu, uyabona ukuthi ukhohlisiwe lapho umkhiqizo olethwe kuwe ungafani nencazelo oyibonile ngenkathi uthenga ku-inthanethi. Nakuba abathengisi bexokozela ngemisebenzi namakhono ayo ezincazelweni zomkhiqizo, thanda unodoli ngeke ihlangabezane nokulindelwe yikhasimende. Umehluko ungaba khona ngezindlela eziningi, ngokwesibonelo, izinto ezisetshenzisiwe zehlukile kulezo ezichazwe kuwebhusayithi, futhi azinakho ukuguquguquka nokuqina okuchazwe kumkhiqizo.
