Awukho umuzwa wenkambiso nengcindezi-uma ukhetha I-WM Doll, awukho umuzwa wesiko nokucindezela. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abantu kudingeka baqaphe kakhulu ngakho konke abakushoyo nabakwenzayo, ngoba ukusungula ubuhlobo nowesifazane wangempela kuwumsebenzi onzima ngempela. Asikho isidingo sokuhlanganyela kunoma yiziphi izingxoxo eziyisicefe nomlingani wakho.
Muva nje, kuye kwaphakanyiswa imibuzo engathi sína, ehlanganisa ikusasa lemizwelo, onodoli bobulili bangaphandle, inguquko yamarobhothi ahambisanayo, nentuthuko elandelayo. Baphinde babuza omunye umbuzo obalulekile mayelana nonodoli bobulili bokuphila: "Singakwazi yini ukushiya abantu bengenandaba?" Lo mbuzo uhlobene nombuzo oshiwo ngenhla. Uma ubheka izinketho zokwenza ngokwezifiso, ungakhohlwa ukuhlola noma ukubuza umphakeli ukuthi bakhona yini onodoli bemimo nosayizi abahlukene. Amadoda ahlukene anezinketho ezahlukene. Abanye bathanda i-hourglass figure, kanti abanye bathanda i-pear figure.
Ngokufanayo, amadoda anezinketho ezihlukene zamabele amakhulu/amahle, izinqe ezinkulu, njll. Njengoba nje ishawa ibalulekile kuwe, kunjalo nakuwe. unodoli ocansini we-Japan. Ungamgeza noma ugeze naye. Okufanele ukukhumbule wukuthi ungasebenzisi amanzi ashisayo ngoba angalimaza isikhumba sikanodoli. Zama ukusebenzisa amanzi okushisa aphakathi koonodoli be-TPE. Ukufafaza amanzi noma ukucwilisa ikhanda likanodoli emanzini kuwu-no-cha omkhulu, njengoba lokhu kungase kubangele ukugqwala noma ukuguqulwa kwekhanda.
Uma kungenzeka, susa ikhanda likadoli ngaphambi kokumgeza. Ngaphezu kwalokho, gwema ukubeka unodoli ngqo phansi kubhavu. E-China, izigidi zamadoda zishiya amakhaya nemikhaya yazo ziyosebenza edolobheni. Bangakwazi ukuya ekhaya njalo ngezimpelasonto noma iholidi, noma isikhathi esincane. Izithandani azilwenzi ucansi, okuyinto engabekezeleleki emadodeni. Inketho engcono kakhulu yokuvikela ubudlelwano bakho nonodoli bocansi.
Kubathengi, kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhetha onodoli abahle ngochungechunge lwemisebenzi eyengeziwe. Ukuze wenze ukukhetha okuhle kakhulu, kubalulekile ukuqonda ngokucophelela imininingwane enikezwe lezi zitolo zonodoli. Ukuxhumana nemikhiqizo eyaziwayo kungaqinisekisa ukuthi uthola imikhiqizo emihle ngesikhathi esifushane kakhulu. Dambisa ingcindezi, ukudangala kanye nobubanzi bokukhathazeka onodoli bocansi. Ucwaningo luveza ukuthi uma uya ocansini kakhulu, uba nempilo enhle.
Lapho uya ocansini no onodoli bezocansi abashibhile, umzimba wakho ukhipha amahomoni azizwa ekahle, ngaleyo ndlela ehlise ukukhathazeka, ukucindezeleka, nokucindezeleka. Ngenxa yemboni yokukhiqiza onodoli, onodoli bocansi bavame ukukhomba izimakethe ze-niche. Kodwa-ke, ngenxa yomthelela wobhubhane olusha lwe-COVID-19 ngo-2020, isiqala ukubhekana nemakethe enkulu. Ngasekuqaleni konyaka, njengoba abantu abangashadile abaningi bephendukela ekuqomeni okuku-inthanethi, amarobhothi ahambisana nabo ocansini nonodoli bocansi babikezelwa njengezitayela zesikhathi esizayo zomphakathi nezomuntu siqu.
Indawo yesibili kuvele kwaba Englishindoda (ngokungalindelekile, ngokungalindelekile...). Bafune izikhundla ezisondelene kakhulu, bekleliswe kwabathathu abaphezulu: isitayela se-cowgirl esihlehlayo, isitayela somdlwane, isithunywa sevangeli (uma ungazi ukuthi uzilahla kanjani izicathulo zobuhle, sicela ucinge wedwa). Izilinganiso zezingubo zangaphansi ezivusa inkanuko ethandwa kakhulu yilezi: amasokisi ama-sexy, ama-corsets, namathong. Amathoyizi ocansi aseshwa kakhulu yilawa: amathoyizi angokoqobo onodoli bocansi.
