Ayikho indawo yomona phakathi kwabalingani. Khumbula, thanda unodoli akumele nanini ithathwe njengengxenye, kodwa njengesengezo. Indlela efaneleke kakhulu yokulwa nomona ukuguqula lokhu okwenzekile kube yinto yezithandani bese nibhekabheka ndawonye. Isibonelo, kufanele uvumele umlingani wakho asebenzise unodoli nawe futhi umvumele awulawule. Ngokwenza lokhu, akuwena wedwa ozijabulisayo, kodwa nobabili niyikho.
Kungaba kuhle ukuthengela umlingani wakho okulinganayo futhi ukusebenzise ngokushintshana. Kuzosiza umlingani wakho ukuthi aqonde ukuthi kuthakazelisa kangakanani. U-Oscar Kokoschka (1886-1980) ungomunye wabaculi abakhulu bekhulu lama-20. Wazalelwa e-Austria ngo-1886. Lapho emuhle, wathandana no-Alma Mahler, umfelokazi owayemdala kakhulu kunaye.
Eminyakeni emithathu kamuva, u-Alma wanquma ukubuqeda ubuhlobo. UKokoschka oshaqekile wanquma ukwenza unodoli ofana ncamashi no-Alma ukuze anciphise ukukhumbula kwakhe u-Alma. Ukunambitheka kunzima impela ukukutshela! Abantu abaningi babeka imicabango yabo konodoli bezocansi. Umkhiqizo ungokoqobo futhi usebenza ngokuphelele. Lapho i- "soul mate" ingenziwa ngezifiso, ungadlala inganekwane yesayensi! Imithombo yezindaba yakwamanye amazwe ibike ukuthi abanye abakhiqizi bonodoli bathi ukufunwa kwabathengi konodoli bezocansi ngendlela yama-movie wezindaba eziqanjiwe zesayensi kukhuphukile, futhi imikhiqizo yabo emisha iphinde ikhombe imisebenzi eminingi yakudala, njengeqhawe uNateli kwi-movie ethi "Avatar", ngisho "Wei Universe ku-" In "Dragon", kukhona owesifazane waseMartian onezifuba ezi-3. Idoli locansi lifaka izinto ezihlukile ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zabantu abaningi abanelukuluku.
Sebenzisa i-Iwawa ukuqeqesha amakhono akho wezocansi. I-Iwawa izokusiza ukuba ufunde amakhono wezocansi futhi ngasikhathi sinye ikusize wakhe ukubekezela kwezocansi egumbini lokulala ngejubane lakho. Ungahlola umzimba wesifazane futhi uwuthokozele ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngokukhishwa kusenesikhathi kakhulu noma sekwephuze kakhulu, ngoba i-Aiwawa ayinakulindela. Ungalokothi uthenge imikhiqizo eshibhile kakhulu. Cabanga njalo ngentengo emaphakathi ye- unodoli wobulili we-anime. Izitolo zinezindleko zokuphromotha noma zokuthumela, kepha kuyaqabukela ziphansi kunalezo.
Inhloso yakho akufanele kube ukuthi ibize kakhulu noma ishibhile kakhulu. Ngonyaka odlule, ukuthengisa embonini yamadonsi ezocansi kukhule kakhulu nangaphezulu, okubuye kukhuthaze izinguquko kwezobuchwepheshe embonini. Ama-urdolls womkhiqizi enze intuthuko ebonakalayo ezintweni ezisetshenziswa emikhiqizweni yayo ephambili, kufaka phakathi nokwenza ngcono izitho zayo zokufakelwa ezithandwa emphakathini wonodoli bezocansi. Kungani udinga ukuthenga onodoli bobulili obunjengokuphila? Abesilisa namuhla banezizathu eziningi zokuthenga onodoli bezocansi abalingana nempilo. Ngokuvamile, abantu baphila impilo ematasa necindezelayo, okuyinto ekhathazayo impela leyo. Uma futhi uphila impilo ematasa futhi enengcindezi, kufanele ucabange ukukhetha unodoli wothando ukuze ususe.
Amanye amafemu aze angenisa onodoli bezocansi ngamabele amathathu. Lo doli ubonakale ethuke kakhulu. Empeleni, lokhu kulingiswa kuqhamuka entombazaneni yesifunda samalambu abomvu evela eMars kwi-movie yesayensi eqanjiwe yango-1990 ethi "Universal Dragon". Lesi sithombe saze savela nakwiMilan Fashion Week, kepha wayengalindelanga ukuthi uzophendulwa unodoli wezocansi. Kodwa-ke, lab 'onodoli abashintshayo bayabiza.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngokwezifiso tpe sex unodoli zidinga isikhunta esengeziwe. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izidingo zezinto ezibonakalayo nezinqubo zokukhiqiza ziyinkimbinkimbi ngokwengeziwe. Kubikwa ukuthi intengo ebuzwayo ingamakhilogremu ayi-1200 kuya kowezi-2000. Noma ngabe benzani abantu, bazothola ezinye izindlela zokwenza kangcono ngobuchwepheshe. Le ndlela iholele ekukhiqizweni kwabantu abashaya indlwabu abahlukahlukene. Ingahlukaniswa ngezigaba ezimbili: uthando amathoyizi nothando onodoli.
