Kodwa ekugcineni, laba ababili babengazwani, futhi intombi ayizange iqonde ukuthi kungani indoda ithenga onodoli bezocansi abashibhile. Ngemva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa, uJack wayevame ukucabanga ngoMarilyn, okwakungenzeki lapho bendawonye. Ngokushesha ngemva kwalokho, ngenxa yokuthi intombi yakhe yalahlekelana ngaphandle kwesizathu, uJack wahlongoza ukuhlukana. Ukuhlukana kwaqeda ukulangazelela kwakhe iqiniso, kulokhu uthando aluzange lubonakale ludabukisayo. Ngomhla ziyisi-7 kuNdasa, 2019, uJack waphusha u-Marilyn ukuthi ahambe ezungeza isikwele. Kwaphela imizuzu engaphezu kweshumi abantu abadlula ngendlela belokhu bethatha izithombe ngomakhalekhukhwini babo. Ngemva kokuhwalala, ukukhanya okukhanyayo kwenza amehlo akhe angakhululeki. Okwesikhashana, akazange aphinde amkhiphe uMarilyn.
Njengokuphela komuntu omuhle, uJack wayefuna othile ukuba abe naye futhi angabe eyedwa, ngakho wasebenzisa imali ukuze athenge unodoli wesibili wokulingisa. Lezi zenzo zesiko empeleni zibonisa izifiso zikaJack. Angakwazi ukwahlulela umumo kanodoli futhi alolonge ubuntu bukadoli. Lolu hlobo lwesidingo sikanodoli, akasoze ashiya noma athengise umuzwa wakhe wokulawula, okwenza uJack agcwale ukuzethemba.
Amadoda ayangana Idoli locansi lowesilisa, isipho abangani bakho abazosijabulela. Uma unomngane ongashadile okunzima ukuthola uthando lwempilo yakhe, kufanele ucabange ukumthengela unodoli wocansi ukuze angazizwa enesizungu ngesikhathi samaholide. Onodoli bocansi bayisipho esihle kakhulu seholide. Amadoda adla isidlo sakusihlwa nonodoli ababili bocansi. Onodoli bocansi bayathengiswa. Okokugcina, ubusika namaholide yisikhathi esingcono kakhulu sokuthenga onodoli bocansi, ngoba iningi labo lizokwehliswa.
Asikho isidingo sokuphuma futhi uthole umuntu ozoba naye Unodoli wezocansi. Abaningi abangashadile ngesikhathi samaholide bafuna ukuba nomlingani noma ukulala nothile. Kodwa-ke, lokhu kunzima ngoba wonke umuntu uzobe ematasatasa ngaleso sikhathi futhi ngeke abe naso isikhathi sokuphelezela abangashadile. Yingakho abantu abaningi befuna ukuthenga onodoli bocansi abangokoqobo ngesikhathi samaholidi ukuze bangaphumi bayofuna umaqondana. Ukuba nonodoli wocansi kukuvumela ukuthi uhlale nomlingani wakho ngaso sonke isikhathi. Onodoli bocansi ofuna ukubathenga izinyanga ezimbalwa kodwa ongakwazi ukubathenga kungenzeka behliselwe isaphulelo ngenxa yezaphulelo zamaholide. Iwebhusayithi yethu inikeza izaphulelo eziningi ezinhle nezaphulelo phakathi nenkathi yamaholide.
Ukuthola ubulili obungavimbeki bomlomo, kunoma iyiphi indoda, injabulo enkulu ubulili bomlomo. Abesilisa ngokuvamile abaneliseki ngocansi lomlomo abaluthola kozakwabo besifazane. Nokho, le nkinga ixazululwe abakhiqizi bonodoli bocansi. Lapho amadoda enza ubulili nonodoli bobulili, angajabulela ubulili bomlomo obungenamkhawulo kuze kube yilapho esenelisekile ngokuphelele. Kuyaye kubonakale ukuthi amadoda adinga ukuzithiba uma eya ocansini nabalingani babo besifazane bangempela. Indoda kufanele izibambe lapho yenza ucansi lomlomo kowesifazane. Lokhu kufanele kwenziwe ngoba abalingani besifazane badinga ukuqonda ububanzi obuthile.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, a Unodoli wezocansi waseJapan inganikeza ubulili bomlomo obungapheli ngoba akudingi ukuphumula ukuze uphefumule. Lobu bulili obungavimbeki bomlomo bunganelisa noma iyiphi indoda. Onodoli bocansi bangcono kakhulu kunabesifazane bangempela ngoba ngeke benqabe ukujabulisa amadoda. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi mangaki amadoda afuna ubulili bomlomo, noma lapho efuna ukuya ocansini, ahlale ekulungele. Kunini lapho kungenzeka khona ukuthi owesifazane angeke anelise isifiso sakho socansi?
