Ayisaphathwa-ke imali yokuqasha umakoti ibiza kakhulu kune onodoli bezocansi abashibhile, nobusuku obubodwa kuphela. Uma ungenaso isabelomali esiningi sokuthenga onodoli abakhulu bocansi, khona-ke onodoli abahle bocansi bangaba yisinqumo esihle sokuthi uqalise. Kulula ukugcina nokuhambisa. Onodoli bocansi banikeza enye indlela engasetshenziswa noma ubani kalula. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungumuntu wesilisa omuhle noma ongashadile ofuna ukuthi othile akuphelezele, noma umbhangqwana othanda ukwengeza ubumnandi empilweni yakho yocansi, onodoli bocansi bazothuthukisa injabulo yakho yocansi nganoma iyiphi indlela.
Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi wazi ukuthi ayikho impendulo efanele noma engalungile kulo mbuzo, udinga kuphela ukucabangela lokho okulungile kuwe. Uma ufuna ukuhlala umuhle, kulungile. Akekho onelungelo lokuyigxeka. Uma uzimisele ukunikeza isipiliyoni sakho sokuqala socansi kunodoli wocansi, kukuwe. Okungenani ungakuqeda. kulula. Ingabe umuntu kufanele aye ocansini nonodoli wocansi obhekwa njengolahlekelwe ubuhle bakhe? Kunezinkolelo eziningi ezahlukene mayelana nokuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba muhle. Abantu abaningi bayavuma ukuthi abesifazane noma amadoda alahlekelwa ubuhle babo ngesikhathi socansi lwe-penile-vaginal. Abanye abantu bacabanga ukuthi abantu abenza ucansi lomlomo noma lwendunu nabo bathathwa njengabalahlekelwe ubuhle babo.
Onodoli abaphefumulayo kanye nonodoli abaphathekayo esibhekisela kubo ngokuvamile amathoyizi ocansi athatha indawo yabantu bangempela ukuze bahlangabezane nezidingo zomzimba zochungechunge lonodoli abaphefumulayo. Kunjalo, kukhona futhi unodoli we-semi-physical ophinde afakwe ochungechungeni lukanodoli ophefumulayo. Ukuze siqonde umehluko phakathi konodoli abaphefumulayo kanye nonodoli abangokwenyama, kufanele siqale siqonde imisebenzi yabo bobabili. Zombili zingama-inflatable Unodoli Wothando uchungechunge. Eqinisweni, imisebenzi icishe ifane, konke okuwukufeza izidingo zomzimba ngaphandle kozakwethu.
Okokuqala, ake sibheke onodoli abaphefumulayo abashibhile kakhulu futhi okuvame ukukhulunywa ngabo. Lezi zine-inflatable Idoli locansi lowesilisa zidinga ukuvuvukala ukuze kwakheke ukubukeka komuntu wangempela. Indlela ebukeka ngayo ilukhuni, futhi ibukeka ikude nomuntu wangempela. Iwubuwula futhi ayinakho ukuthungwa. Kuhle lokho. Okwesibili, ake sibheke onodoli abancane ngokomzimba abahlukaniswa njengonodoli abaphefumulayo. Lo doli obizwa nge-semi-solid empeleni kusho ukuthi ikhanda nesifuba kugxilile futhi akudingeki ukuthi kufakwe umoya. Onodoli abancane abanomzimba banokubukeka okungcono kanye nokuthungwa kunodoli abamsulwa abaphefumulayo. Onodoli abaningi abaqinile bangagcwalisa isifuba ngamanzi ukuze bakhulise ukunwebeka kwesifuba futhi basenze sifane nomuntu wangempela. Onodoli abaqinile kancane banezinga eliphezulu lokulingisa kunodoli abamsulwa abaphefumulayo, futhi intengo ayibizi kakhulu kunodoli abamsulwa abaphefumulayo, ngokuvamile abacishe babe ngamayuan angamakhulu ambalwa.
Onodoli bocansi bayithuluzi elihle lokudambisa lesi simo. Uma indoda ingasebenzisa onodoli bocansi ukuze ihlangabezane nezidingo zayo lapho umkayo esesimweni esibi, khona-ke abesifazane ngeke kudingeke baye ocansini ukuze banelise umyeni wakhe. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, indoda ingahlangabezana nezidingo zayo ngaphandle kokucindezela umkayo noma izizwe ilahliwe.
Sithole ukuthi abanye abantu bakhathazeka ngokuthi ukusebenzisa onodoli bocansi kuthathwa njengokukopela. Njengeqiniso njengokubukeka nokuzwakala kwalabo nodoli bocansi, bamane bayithoyizi locansi, ehlukile kusidlidlizi noma isandla sakho.
Ngemva kweminyaka eminingi yomshado, izinto ekamelweni zingase zimane. Ukubeka a Unodoli wezocansi ekamelweni kungase kube ikhambi elihle ukwenza isimiso sakho yisicefe ubulili fun futhi. Lokhu futhi kuyindlela enhle yokwenza izinto zijabulise futhi, ngaphandle kokuba uzakwethu asengozini yokuphuma ebudlelwaneni noma umeme umuntu wesithathu ukuthi ajoyine.
