Emibuthanweni eminingi, noma iyiphi indawo lapho kwenzeka khona ubufebe ithathwa njengendawo yokudayisa ngomzimba. Izifebe bezilokhu zikhona kuleli fomu izinkulungwane zeminyaka. Eqinisweni, indawo yokuqala yezifebe yasungulwa futhi yakhokhiswa intela e-Athene ngekhulu lesi-5 AD. AmaFulentshi namaSpanishi nawo anomlando omude ezindlini zezifebe. Nokho, i onodoli bezocansi abashibhile i-brothel iyinto entsha. Ngokwesibonelo, indawo yezifebe iyindawo lapho kusetshenziswa khona onodoli bobulili esikhundleni sabantu bangempela.
Isebenza kanjani? Kulula-ikhasimende lingena endaweni yokuthengisa ngonodoli bocansi ukuze lizizwele. Izifebe zihlinzeka ngonodoli bocansi kanye nezithombe ezingcolile zobulili ukuze zihehe amakhasimende. Uma sebekulungele ukuthatha isinyathelo, bazoqondiswa ochungechungeni lonodoli bocansi. Isibonelo, unodoli wezocansi we-Barcelona uwubuhle baseSpain obunikeza injabulo enkulu kunoma yiliphi iklayenti. Ungakwazi futhi ukukhetha isiJapane, iMelika noma cishe noma yiluphi uhlanga oluthandayo. Indinganiso ingunodoli wocansi womuntu, ofanele wonke amaphupho ocansi ongase ube nawo. Uma indawo yakho yezifebe ingenabo onodoli abaningi bocansi ababukeka njengabantu, kungase kube yisikhathi sokuqhubekela phambili.
Sebenzisa Idoli locansi lowesilisa ukuvimbela ukukhulelwa. Uma uya ocansini nentombazane kodwa ungayisebenzisi ikhondomu, uyohlale ucabanga ukuthi ngabe uyimithisile yini intombazane. Ngisho noma usebenzisa ikhondomu, isebenza ngo-85% kuphela, futhi akekho ofuna ukuthwala umthwalo wokukhulelwa okungafunwa. Ukusebenzisa onodoli bocansi, ungavimbela ukukhulelwa okungafunwa ukuthi kwenzeke. Nawa amanye amathiphu okufanele ukwazi mayelana nokusebenzisa onodoli bocansi ukuvimbela ukukhulelwa.
Owesilisa omhlophe onohlanya ophethe unodoli oshisayo wocansi oyi-blonde, kungani enza a Unodoli wezocansi waseJapan ukuvimbela ukukhulelwa kwasekuqaleni? Uma ujola nentombazane ungalungiselelanga, ungagcina usulala naleyo ntombazane ungayifakanga ikhondomu. Ngisho noma ugqoke ijazi lomkhwenyana, kuzokwandisa amathuba akhe okukhulelwa. Unodoli ongokoqobo wocansi angavimbela ukukhulelwa ngoba akuyena owesifazane wangempela, kodwa unezici zomzimba ezifanayo nezomuntu. Ungakwazi ukwanelisa zonke izifiso zakho zocansi kunodoli onjengokuphila ngaphandle kwengozi yokukhulelwa, ngoba unodoli ngeke akhulelwe. Lokhu ukubaluleka kwenhlalakahle kanodoli okufanele ukwazi.
Kungenzeka ukuthi uke wababona onodoli bocansi ngaphambili, kodwa uke wezwa ngezindawo ezidayisa ngonodoli bocansi? Yebo, izifebe zonodoli bocansi sezibonakala emhlabeni wonke. Unentshisekelo kokuhlangenwe nakho? Hhayi-ke, ungaya endaweni yezifebe kanodoli wocansi wase-Barcelona (indawo yokuthengisa ngonodoli bocansi kuphela e-Spain) noma indawo yezifebe yonodoli bocansi wase-Japan ukuze uzibonele ngokwakho, noma ufunde imicabango yethu ngalawa mabhizinisi ahlukile.
Akudingeki ukuthi utshale imali eningi embonini yezocansi ukuze uthole izindawo zokudayisa ngonodoli bocansi. Kwesinye isikhathi izivakashi zivakashela lawa mazwe ukuze zibone ukuthi yini le engaka. Nokho, ngaphambi kokuthi uhambe, ungase ufune ukwazi ukuthi iyini i-brothel yonodoli bocansi, kuzokwenzekani, nokuthi yini okufanele uyazi ngaphambi kokuhlela ukuvakasha. Iyini idokodo likanodoli wocansi? Ezimpilweni zansuku zonke, izindawo zokudayisa ngocansi ziyizindawo lapho abantu bazo zonke izigaba zokuphila bengaba nazo Unodoli wezocansi weTpe nabathengisa ngocansi abangochwepheshe.
