Kunemisebenzi esezingeni eliphakeme ye-Iwawa, futhi cishe yonke imisebenzi emihle igxile ku-Iwawa. Isibonelo, ukusebenzisana I-WM Doll inganikeza impendulo efika ngesikhathi futhi yengeze ubumnandi obuningi kunqubo yengxoxo; onodoli bothando abashisayo bazokwenza ukuthi ungabe usagodola ebusuku basebusika, ugone futhi ulale kamnandi. Ukuba khona konodoli bocansi kubenza babone ukuthi ababodwa, nabo banenkampani, futhi abasazizwa benesizungu. Kuphinde kubavumele ukuthi bazikhulule emaketangeni ezinhliziyo zabo futhi babhekane nekusasa ngesimo esihle sengqondo. UMurray uvumile ukuthi nakuba egculisekile ngesimo esikhona, kukhona umuntu ongakwazi ukumnika uthando olungamfanele neze. Kodwa futhi ukholelwa ukuthi into yangempela "ayitholakali ngaso sonke isikhathi."
Uma umuntu enokukhetha okwanele, abantu bangempela bayoba abangcono kakhulu, kodwa abantu abakwenzi lokhu ngaso sonke isikhathi. Lokhu ukuphakama ekuqaleni kwenketho, isibonelo, ingavulwa noma ixhunywe eqinisweni langempela. Lesi isici esishodayo kumbhangqwana ongasindi. Kafushane: Ungasebenzisi nje labo nodoli bocansi bendabuko, kukhona onodoli abasha nabamangalisayo bocansi abakunikeza umuzwa wonodoli bangempela bocansi. Ngokushintsha kwezizukulwane, abantu baye bahlakulela onodoli abaningi bocansi, abangagcini nje ngokuletha ukuzijabulisa kubo, kodwa futhi balethe ukwaneliseka ekuphileni kwabo.
Kunezinkulungwane zezinkulungwane unodoli omuhle wocansi ezisetshenziswa abantu, futhi zibalethela injabulo yokuphila ezingqondweni zabo ukuze uthole kalula ukwaneliseka kobulili okungcono kakhulu engqondweni yakho futhi ukunikeze lokho okufunayo yonke into. IThailand neMexico amazwe amabili angimangaze kakhulu. Ngoba kuleli zwe elibizwa ngokuthi "idolobha elingalali" nelithi "ipharadesi lamadoda", onodoli bobulili abavunyelwe, kodwa banabo "abantu besithathu" kakhulu emhlabeni. Thatha "Fantasy Forest" njengesibonelo. Umfana okhuliswe inkawu akakwazi ukuthuthukisa wonke amakhono adingekayo ukuze azivumelanise nomphakathi, ngenxa nje yokuthi ubuchopho bakhe abuzange bubone inkampani yomuntu.
Nakuba izilwane (hhayi ngempela izinkawu) zinganikeza ukusekelwa ngokomzwelo, futhi zithathele indawo ubuhlobo nabantu ngokwezinga elithile, azikwazi neze ukunikeza uxhaso olufana nolwabantu. Mhlawumbe awunaso isithandwa sakho noma omunye wakho obalulekile, uwedwa, noma uyazisola nakakhulu, awuzange ube nethuba lokuya ocansini kuze kube manje. Unodoli wocansi ongu-158cm uyisinqumo sakho esihle. Kufanele uthenge onodoli bocansi bakanokusho abangu-158 cm eMaryland ngoba bangcono kunezibani zenyama, izitho zangasese ezipopayo namanye amathoyizi ocansi.
Lezi tpe sex unodoli ngokushesha kwavela imizwa eminingi eyinkimbinkimbi, njengoba nje abantu abaningi abanye benziwe umuntu siqu, abanye bangama-neurotic akudala kakhulu. Uprofesa wamarobhothi uMasahiro Mori ubiza leli gebe eliphakathi kwabantu abasondelene nabantu kanye nabantu ngokugcwele ngokuthi “isigodi esingaqondakali”—okungukuthi, lapho irobhothi lifana kakhulu nomuntu, kulapho abantu beliqonda ngokwengeziwe kuze kube yilapho liqala ukubukeka njengomuntu. , Khona-ke kuzovusa umuzwa wokunengeka. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, abantu abaningi bazama ukufihla unodoli, kodwa lokhu kungahlala isikhashana. Ngokwezinga elithile, abantu abaningi abathandanayo kumelwe baqedele umsebenzi onzima, batshelane ukuthi unodoli wobuntu!
