Kodwa ngaphambi kokuxoxa ngalokhu, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi, njengezinye izici zokuphila, isilwane esinakekelwa kahle. I-WM Doll kungenzeka ukuthi ihlale isikhathi eside kunodoli ovamile wocansi. Ngakho-ke, nakuba ingekho indlela yokwahlulela isikhathi sokuphila konodoli bocansi, kunezici eziningi ezithinta isikhathi sokuphila sonodoli bocansi. Okulandelayo ngezinye zalezi zici. Kunezinketho eziningi nezinhlobonhlobo zonodoli bocansi namuhla. Mahle kakhulu futhi eza ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene nobukhulu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yisiphi isikhundla oyifunayo, labo nodoli bazokwenzela yona. Mhlawumbe unentombi ebuthakathaka.
Uhlobo lwendawo lapho udinga ukuhambisa khona futhi ubeke endaweni yakhe ukuze uthole ucansi olufunayo. Bonke abantu banekhungo elifanayo futhi bonke balawulwa ngokuphelele. Akungabazeki ukuthi amadoda angasebenzisa noma yiliphi ithoyizi locansi ngenkathi ethanda unodoli wocansi embhedeni, kodwa kuwukuhlakanipha ukusebenzisana nodoli wocansi ukuze anelise izifiso zabo zobulili ngendlela ephumelelayo. Ngaphandle konodoli bocansi, kunamanye amathoyizi amaningi ocansi emakethe okulula ukuwathenga, inhloso ukunikeza amadoda injabulo engcono kakhulu.
Kodwa-ke, amadoda adinga ngempela ukusondelana nomhlinzeki othembekile ukuze enze isivumelwano esingcono kakhulu. Ngemva kokugeza tpe sex unodoli, kuyadingeka ukugeza ikamelo ngamanzi afudumele kanye nensipho elwa namagciwane. Ungakwazi futhi ukususa ubuso bomntwana emzimbeni ukuze uhlanzwe. Kumelwe uhlanze ubuso bakhe ngamanzi ashisayo, kodwa qiniseka ukuthi ungamanzisi ama-eyelashes abo ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo. Isizungu sithinta abantu bazo zonke izinhlobo neminyaka, phakathi kwabo ubuhle nabadala abathinteka kakhulu kunabanye.
Ukusebenzelana okukhulu kwe-inthanethi kwabantu abahle akukwazi ukuqeda isizungu esingokomzwelo, futhi abantu abadala bathambekele ekubeni nesizungu futhi bebodwa. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi abantu abangaphezu kuka-20% abangaphezu kweminyaka engama-60 bavame ukuzizwa benesizungu ngokwedlulele, nokuthi ubudlelwano obuseduze obumbalwa kodwa obubaluleke kakhulu. Futhi zingavela noma yikuphi lapho ufuna ukuya khona, futhi ungakwazi ukwabelana ngazo nabangani bakho ngaphandle kwezinkinga, ukuze ukwazi ukuchitha isikhathi esiseqophelweni eliphezulu nabo.
Isiphetho sokugcina siwukuthi, kungakhathaliseki ubudala, amakhono amahle okukhulumisana ngokomzwelo ahlobene eduze nekhono lokuphila. Isizathu sokuthi kungani umuntu abalulekile akukhona nje ukuphila, kodwa ukuba “nokuphila” kwangempela nokwenza izinto ezibalulekile. Ubudlelwano phakathi kwabantu kanye nobuqotho bomzimba akuhlukaniseki nesithunzi somuntu. Okuwusizo kwabanye abantu akulona usizo kwabanye. Thatha uthando njengesibonelo. Iningi lethu likhetha ukuhlangana namadoda noma abesifazane abasha ukuze bathole uthando lweqiniso lapho behlangana nabangane, ezindaweni zokucima ukoma noma ngisho bethenga.
Nokho, kuneqembu labantu elincamela ukulifuna ezweni lamaphupho. Laba bantu babizwa ngokuthi ama-geek. Uma usebenzisa onodoli bezocansi abashibhile ocansini, ukuphepha kuyindaba ebaluleke kakhulu. Amahora ambalwa enjabulo, awukwazi ukuthwala ingozi yokutheleleka noma izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi. Ngakho-ke, uma ungumthengi wonodoli bocansi, qiniseka ukuthi ugcina amathiphu okuphepha engqondweni. Skrolela phansi ukuze uhlole amathiphu abalulekile. Imizwa efana nesifiso sothando nemizwa inomthelela obalulekile futhi omuhle esimweni somqondo nomzimba. Lokhu akumangazi, ngoba lapho sithola le mizwa, uchungechunge lokusabela kwamakhemikhali kanye nezinqubo zamakhemikhali zenzeka. Isizungu ngokuvamile sichazwa ngokuthi isimo sokuba nesizungu, kodwa isizungu empeleni isimo sengqondo esenza abantu bazizwe bengelutho futhi benesizungu.
