Uzohlala nonodoli wakhe wothando kuze kube sekupheleni

Eqinisweni, kuvame kakhulu ukuhlala nonodoli. Ikakhulukazi eJapane, abantu abaningi abanesizungu bahlala nabo Unodoli wezocansi, ngisho namadoda ashadile azimisele ngokuhlala nonodoli bothando. Bahamba naye, wageza, wamgqokisa. Intombazane eneminyaka engu-62 ubudala yageza ngobumnene intombi yayo yenjoloba uSaori, yadweba izithombe zayo odongeni lwayo, yaze yamyisa ukushushuluza nokuntweza emanzini.

Unodoli ulele embhedeni wefulethi elingcolile endaweni yaseTokyo, ephakathi konodoli ababili abake banukubezwa ngaphambili kanye nomzimba wenjoloba ongenakhanda. Wathi akakaze athandane nomuntu wesifazane wangempela, usezohlala nonodoli wakhe wothando kuze kube sekugcineni. Ngaphambi kokuba ummangaze, kufanele uqale uqonde ukunambitheka kwakhe. Ngokwesibonelo, ingabe uyabathanda onodoli abade bocansi? Ingabe uyabathanda onodoli abancane? Ingabe uthanda onodoli bocansi baseJapane?

Intengo yonodoli bocansi be-tpe noma ye-silicone ibiza kakhulu, ngokuvamile i-US$600 ~ 1000, ephakeme kimi. Uma nje kuwukuxazulula izidingo zocansi, ngicabanga ukuthi unodoli ophephetheka kakhulu noma inkomishi yendiza ebiza kakhulu. Ingabe uyabathanda onodoli besifazane abavuthiwe? Noma ezinye izinhlobo? Ukuze kucace, ngoba unodoli omuhle wocansi kuyabiza.

Hhayi-ke, kufanele wazi ukuthi i-tpe Unodoli wezocansi waseJapan inzima kakhulu, iyahlanya iyasinda! Ngicabanga ukuthi isisindo sakhe asihlukile kunesomuntu wangempela. Nakuba ebhekana namaqiniso kakhulu, ngidinga ukuchitha amandla amaningi ukuze ngimhambise embhedeni wami, ngihlanganise ikhanda lakhe futhi ngifake isimo socansi. Ngemva kwalolu chungechunge lwezenzo, nginomuzwa wokuthi angikulangazeleli ukuya ocansini ngoba ngikhathele kakhulu.

Onodoli bocansi abangokoqobo ekugcineni bayincazelo yangempela yomlingani ophelele. Omunye uzobuza "Kungenzeka kanjani lokhu?". Hhayi-ke, ngokombono owodwa, unodoli wangempela wocansi ungaphatheka ngo-100%, futhi akudingeki ukhathazeke ngentukuthelo yakhe noma ukuthi kungenzeka alahlekelwe uthando. Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, unodoli wocansi uzohlala engumlingani wezocansi, ekunikeza umzuzu omuhle ngaphandle kokushintsha isimo sakho sengqondo kanye nezidingo ezingenangqondo.

Kulabo abaye babhekana nokuhlangenwe nakho okungokomzwelo kokuhluleka, onodoli bangaba induduzo enhle. Ngezici zayo ezinamandla ezingenziwa ngezifiso, ungathola unodoli wakho wangempela oyingqayizivele ofanelekile. A namaqiniso Unodoli Wothando futhi ungumngane omuhle, uyazi ukuthi yini oyidingayo ngempela. Okumangaza kakhulu ukuthi ngaphansi kokunakekelwa kwakho okuhle, lo nodoli uzohlala esesimweni esihle. Ukuthuthukiswa kwakamuva kwalabo nodoli bocansi kuye kwanikeza ikhono lokulingisa amazwi abantu bangempela, ahlelwe ukuthi asabele ezimeni ezithile ngaphansi kwezimo ezifanele.