Ungacabanga nini ukuthi ngeke ukhohlise abafazi bakho ngonodoli bocansi?

Ungacabanga nini ukuthi ngeke ukhohlise abafazi bakho ngonodoli bocansi? Okokuqala, cabangela icala lapho owesifazane wakho azi ukuthi unodoli wocansi, futhi uya ocansini ngezikhathi ezithile. Uzoqonda. Esinye isimo asivamile, kodwa izwe likhulu kangangokuthi uma wena nowesifazane wakho nilala nonodoli wocansi, abantu abathathu bahamba ndawonye. Lokhu Unodoli wezocansi izokwengeza ubumnandi nokunotha okwengeziwe ebuhlotsheni bakho. Kuyamangaza, kuyavumelana kakhulu.

Uma azi ukuthi ulala nonodoli ongenazwelo esikhundleni somunye umuntu wesifazane wangempela, uzozizwa engcono kakhulu. Uzokweseka ubuhlobo bakho nonodoli wocansi, ngoba uzovimbela ukukhohlisa kanye nokuxosha emshadweni wakho. Manje, ngaleso sikhathi, ebuhlotsheni bakho nonodoli wakho wocansi, awuzange ukhohlise. Ngamanye amazwi, uzosebenzisa unodoli wocansi ukuze wakhe ubuhlobo obuvumelanayo nowesifazane wakho futhi ubenze bubaluleke nakakhulu. Manje njengoba senivuma nonke, ukusetshenziswa kwalo nodoli akusasoleki ukuthi uyakopela.

Izinkinga zobulili zibuyela ebudlelwaneni phakathi kobulili. Kungase kube nzima ngathi ukuthola ukuthi kungani umuntu ethenga unodoli omuhle wocansi, kodwa lesi sigameko sifana nesibuko se-haha sisisiza ukuthi siveze uhlangothi olusontekile lobudlelwano phakathi kwabesilisa nabesifazane futhi sigcizelela iqiniso lokuthi asikwenzi. Awuyifuni. Ibheke. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi laba bantu babhekana kanjani nalezi zinto ezifana nabesifazane, ekugcineni bazomelela uchungechunge lwezimo zengqondo zomphakathi. Iningi labesilisa lithandana nabesifazane, kanti abanye bathanda onodoli bocansi.

Ngesikhathi ngikhuluma nami ngale micabango ngonyaka odlule, wathukuthela kakhulu: “Ngokwazi kwami, u-98% wabachwepheshe bezobuchwepheshe. Unodoli wezocansi waseJapan izigcawu zibheka onodoli njengonkulunkulukazi. Eqinisweni, amadoda amaningi ayabazonda onodoli.” Abesifazane nabangashadile, kodwa basebaningi Abesilisa abangashadile ngenxa yokuthi abahlangabezani nemibandela yokukhetha umlingani wesifazane. Onodoli bocansi abanazo izici ezingemnandi zabantu.

Akasoze aqamba amanga kuwe, ngeke akukhaphele, ngeke akugxeke, futhi ngeke enze noma yini ekwenza ungajabuli. Maphakathi nekhulu lama-20, iJapane yathumela izisebenzi e-Antarctica ngokokuqala ngqá. Ukuzila isikhathi eside kwamalungu ohambo kungase kuthinte impilo yawo, ngakho-ke ama-Japanese asebenzise izimali zomphakathi ukuze akhe unodoli ovuthela ucansi wekhwalithi ephezulu obizwa ngokuthi "i-Antarctic No. 1" ukuze axazulule izidingo zomzimba zohambo lwase-Antarctic.

Isizukulwane sokuqala sika Unodoli wezocansi weTpe ungunodoli ophephethekayo okukhulunywe ngaye kulesi sihloko, okucishe kube yithuluzi lokushaya indlwabu elimise okomuntu, elenziwe ikakhulukazi nge-vinyl nerabha. Onodoli abaphefumulayo bashibhile futhi bangagoqwa lapho bengasetshenziswa. Kufanele zishaywe umoya ngaphambi kokusetshenziswa. Amalunga asemaphethelweni omzimba avame ukuqhekeka ngemva kokusetshenziswa izikhathi eziningana, okubangela ukuvuza komoya.