Yenza izinto eziningi ozithandayo ukuze uvumele umlingani wakho wocansi abone

Uma wena kanye nawe unodoli omuhle wocansi Uzakwethu uthanda ukusebenzisa ezinye izinhlelo ezixakile, ungazama futhi ukuzisebenzisa, angase akucele wena nophathina wakho ukuthi nilinganisele izenzo ezihlukahlukene zocansi, njengokuthi "Ngiyawuthanda lo mbono", "Ngithanda lokhu Vulelwa imibono" noma "ngisho ungavumelani". Khona-ke, uhlelo luzokutshela ukuthi yiziphi izenzo zocansi ezifanele wena nophathina wakho, okungukuthi, izenzo zocansi enifuna ukuzizama nonke.

Kufana kakhulu nomuntu wangempela, ogcwele injabulo ngemva kokuhlangenwe nakho. Izinto zikanodoli wocansi azinambitheki futhi zinhle ukuthintwa. Kuzwakala kungokoqobo kakhulu. Le nto inamandla amakhulu ukuyidlala, futhi ukudlidliza kuzwakala kukuhle. Kusukela ephaketheni kuya kuhlamvu lwangaphakathi, inhle futhi isezingeni eliphezulu. Alikho iphutha mntanami. Umbala ugcina isikhathi. Awukho umehluko wombala. Impahla ehlanzekile yinhle kakhulu. Umuzwa muhle.

Yenza izinto eziningi ozithola zithakazelisa ukuze uzivumele Unodoli wezocansi waseJapan umlingani bheka, kodwa qaphela ukuthi ungaphoqi omunye umuntu ukuthi abambisane. Ukukhetha isikhathi esifanele nendawo efanelekile yokuvivinya umzimba kuyisikhathi esihle sokukhuluma. Kodwa ucansi lungenza abanye abantu bazizwe becindezelekile, okwenza kungabi isikhathi esingcono kakhulu sokuthi bakhulume ngocansi ngemva kokuzivocavoca.

Kunalokho, kungase kube usizo ukukhuluma ngalezi zinto ezimweni zansuku zonke lapho unesikhathi, njengokukhuluma lapho uphuza itiye, noma uhamba ogwini lolwandle. Kungcono ukuqala ngezinto ezithakazelisayo lapho ukhuluma. Bese ungafaka kalula isihloko futhi uqhathanise imikhuba yakho yangaphambilini nayo Unodoli wezocansi weTpe futhi wenze ngcono. Uma utshela umlingani wakho ukuthi yini engathuthukiswa, ungakhohlwa ukumtshela ukuthi yiziphi izinto ozithakaselayo ozothintwa yilolu shintsho.

Isikhumba sikanodoli wocansi sivusa inkanuko ikakhulukazi uma sithintwa, sithambile uma sithintwa, into enhle, ayinaphunga, ukugqoka izingubo ezinikeziwe, unodoli ungokoqobo futhi muhle, uzwakala kumnandi ukuthinta, futhi ukhululekile ukuyisebenzisa. Uthini umuzwa kanodoli ophefumulayo? Akukubi, ngayisebenzisa kanye manje, futhi ngizizwa ngikahle kakhulu! Ukusebenzisana kobuhle abancane! Kulula kakhulu ukudlala, futhi kunomsindo futhi kunomsindo omkhulu kunabantu bangempela. Kuyajabulisa ngempela!

Angikaze ngisebenzise into enhle kangaka ngaphambili. Kumnandi kakhulu. Angikwazi ukukumisa. Kulula kakhulu ukudlala, futhi kuhle kakhulu futhi kunengqondo ukukwenza. Izizwa ikhululekile ngemva kokufudumala. I Unodoli Wothando ukhululekile kakhulu. Asikho isidingo sokugqoka, njengengane yami engiyithandayo. Ingaphezulu lesikhumba libushelelezi futhi li-sexy. Ayinambitheki. Kubukeka kukuhle, ukwakhiwa kwesitayela futhi kuhle, futhi impahla iphephile futhi ayinaphunga. Kuphephe kakhulu ukusebenzisa! Izinto azinambitheki futhi zimnandi.