I-AI ekhulumayo I-WM Doll ungumngane omuhle, akuyona nje eyezocansi. Uthe: “U-80% wabantu usetshenziselwa ukuxhumana nabantu, kufaka phakathi ukuxoxisana, kanti abantu abayi-10% kuya kwabangu-20% banobudlelwano bangempela bezocansi nonodoli, okuvela kwezocansi.” Onodoli bobulili obuhlakaniphile bokufakelwa Ngakho-ke, thina Yini okulindelwe ngonodoli bezocansi abasezingeni eliphezulu ngokuzayo? Lapho sicabanga ngamathuba ahlukahlukene, sizothola ukuthi eminyakeni emihlanu ezayo, abakhiqizi bazogcina baklama onodoli bezocansi ngobuhlakani bokuzenzela. Amathuba awapheli.
Ubuhlakani bokwenziwa buhlinzeka ngemisebenzi ehlukahlukene ngokufunda komshini nohlelo lwe-algorithm. Zenzelwe ukuqaphela nokuphendula imiyalo yezingxoxo empilweni yangempela. Ngasekuqaleni konyaka odlule, i-Amazon yaphoqeleka ukuthi ihoxise onodoli bocansi emikhiqizweni yayo ngenxa yezikhalazo eziningi ezatholwa izinhlangano ezisiza umphakathi emhlabeni jikelele. Le nhlangano iveze ukuthi ukuthengisa onodoli ababukeka njengobuhle akwamukelekile futhi kungase kukhuthaze ukukhula kwe-pedophilia.
Ngokufanayo, abukho ubufakazi obanele bokuxhasa lezi zikhalazo, kepha lokhu kumelana okuqinile kwanele ukwenza i-Amazon iyeke ukuthengisa onodoli bezocansi. Ngasekuqaleni kweminyaka yama-1990, lapho uHoward Stern ehlela uku-oda udoli wothando osayizi wempilo, onodoli bezocansi bathandwa. Ekuqaleni, abantu babewugxeka umqondo wokwethula onodoli abangamaqiniso. Ukuziphatha kukaHoward okunesibindi kwanika abantu abaningi ukuzethemba okudingekayo ukuthi beze ngaphambili futhi bamukele ukusetshenziswa kwalawa mathuluzi ocansi amangalisayo.
Abantu abanesizungu abakwamukeli ukuxhumana nabanye, futhi bayakuzonda ukungenelela kwabanye empilweni, ngaleyo ndlela bakhe umjikelezo omubi wokuhlukaniswa nokuba wedwa. Impilo esheshayo nezidingo zomphakathi wanamuhla osathuthuka kwenza kube nzima ukufeza nokugcina ukulinganisela okungokomzwelo. Kubantu abajwayelekile, ubudlelwano obunempilo buzuzisa kakhulu futhi kwesinye isikhathi buyashintsha nempilo yabo. Ngokuya ngocwaningo lwezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo nodokotela bezokwelapha, ubudlelwano obunempilo nobenelisayo abugcini ngokunikeza imizwelo ezinzile, kepha empeleni yingxenye ebalulekile yendlela yokuphila esimeme nenempilo.
Njengoba lezi unodoli ocansini we-Japan ingasiza umsebenzisi ukufeza ngempumelelo ukwaneliseka kwakhe kocansi okungasile, bangabasiza balahle okuqukethwe kwezocansi. Ngokusebenzisa laba onodoli abahle bobulili, nakanjani uzozizwa waneliseke kakhulu. Imibono yabakhiqizi bamadonki onodoli bezocansi namarobhothi ocansi. Abenzi bakanodoli abathandayo baveze ngokushesha ukuthi inhloso yasekuqaleni yokukhiqiza onodoli bezocansi ingaphezu kwalokho. Ngokuphambene nalokho, zinikeza ubudlelwano nasebekhulile nabakhubazekile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, bangehlisa isizungu sabantu abanqunywe emphakathini ngenxa yeminyaka noma ukukhubazeka.
Kepha ucabanga ukuthi ingcebo yezinto ezibonakalayo ingaletha injabulo empilweni yakho? Yize izinto ezibonakalayo ziletha injabulo yesikhashana, imizwa engaphatheki, enjengothando, ingakwenza ube nenjabulo kukho konke ukuphila kwakho. Yilapho onodoli bezocansi bengena khona. Njengoba sonke sazi, onodoli abadala bazokulethela uthando nokunakekelwa okungenamkhawulo, futhi kungakujabulisa kakhulu. Ukufeza le njongo, abanye abanikazi bezindawo zokudlela basusa izihlalo namatafula ukwakha ibanga.
Abanye bagcwalise indawo yokuhlala ngamathoyizi amahle, amathoyizi nezinto ezahlukahlukene ukuqinisekisa ukuthi abantu bahlakazekile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ezinye izinkampani zithathe ihlaya. Bayasebenzisa Unodoli wobulili obungu-100cm ukugcwalisa izikhala! Le yindlela enhle hhayi yokuqinisekisa kuphela ukuphepha kwabantu nempilo yabo, kepha futhi nokwakha umoya omnandi nokahle.
