Asazi ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngokuthengiselana kwezindlela ezintathu, sazi kuphela ukuthi lokhu kuyithuluzi lokwakha uzungu-izaba ezenzelwe yena kahle zokuthi afake idivaysi yokulandela umkhondo ejacket kaK. Lokhu okuxoxwe ngenhla ezinye zezizathu ezinamandla zokuthi kungani amadoda enabo laba abalingani bangempela. Abaningi benu bangazibuza ukuthi basebenzise kanjani Unodoli wezocansi waseJapan ayiseyona into edabukisayo, kepha yamukelwa kabanzi yiwo wonke umuntu. Kunemisebenzi esezingeni eliphakeme ye-Iwawa, futhi cishe yonke imisebenzi emihle igxile ku-Iwawa.
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Uma ubheka izinketho zokwenza ngokwezifiso, ungakhohlwa ukuhlola noma ukubuza umphakeli ukuthi bakhona yini onodoli bemimo nosayizi abahlukene. Amadoda ahlukene anezintandokazi ezahlukene. Abanye bathanda i-hourglass figure, kanti abanye bathanda i-pear figure. Ngokufanayo, amadoda anezinketho ezihlukene zamabele amakhulu/amahle, izinqe ezinkulu, njll. Ingabe ukwakha ubuhlobo kuhle noma kubi? Uma onodoli bocansi sebenziwe abantu, ubudlelwano bethu nabo buzosondelana njengabanye abantu, bese kulandela izingozi ezingaba khona.
Cabanga ukuthi uma irobhothi elilahla ibhomu linobudlelwano obuhle nesosha, akunakwenzeka ngokuphelele ukuthi lo wesilisa anikele ngempilo yakhe ukuze asindise lo ohamba naye. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izikhali "zamarobhothi okubulala" ezakhiwa amazwe e-EU nazo zizosongela ukuphepha kwesintu nezwe. Umuntu onobuciko uhlala ecabanga kabanzi ngezinto eziningi ezinhle angazenza. Kulezo zinto eziyingqayizivele nemisebenzi efanelekile ukuzama, isibhakabhaka asinamkhawulo.
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Abantu kumele bakuqonde ukuthi labo nodoli benziwa ukuthi babukeke njengabesifazane abakhulelwe kuphela. Unodoli onjalo ngeke azale ubuhle bakho njengomkakho wangempela. Ngakho-ke, vele uwasebenzise ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi awuzizwa unesizungu nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Uma futhi uzimisele ukuthenga onodoli bothando be-silicone abahamba phambili emhlabeni e-Denver, uzoba nokukhetha okungapheli.
