Uyawazi umlando wokuthuthukisa onodoli bocansi?

Uyawazi umlando wokuthuthukisa onodoli bocansi? I onodoli bezocansi abashibhile imboni inonodoli abaningi bothando abalingana nempilo, abakhulu kunangaphambili futhi abashintshashintsha njalo. Kodwa kwenzeka kanjani lokhu? Babevelaphi onodoli bocansi ekuqaleni? Ngokusho kwenganekwane, unodoli wothando ofana nempilo ungalandelelwa emuva eminyakeni engaphezu kuka-2,000 edlule. Imbongi yaseRoma u-Ovid, iqoqo lezinkondlo nezinganekwane ezanyatheliswa ngo-8 BC, eliqukethe nendaba kaPygmalion. Endabeni, iNkosi yaseKhupro nomqophi uPygmalion baqopha umfanekiso wentombazane enhle, iGalathiya. Wamthanda enethemba lokuthi uzophila. Lapho uGalatea eletha ukuphila ku-Aphrodite futhi ekwazi ukulala noPygmalion, isifiso sakhe sagcwaliseka.

Abanye baye babika ngabasolwandle baseDutch bekhulu le-17, ababhekwa njengamaphayona okuqala onodoli bobulili bangempela. Kuthiwa bebefuna abathandana nabo ohambweni olude futhi benza onodoli bokuqala bezocansi ngezingubo namanikiniki amadala. Ngakho-ke, umuntu angasho kahle ukuthi unodoli usuhambe ibanga elide kuze kube manje. Amanye amagama amabili ajwayelekile, kepha lokhu kusewumsuka wenkulumo ethi "unkosikazi waseDashi" futhi kwesinye isikhathi isetshenziswa esikhundleni sonodoli bocansi noma onodoli bothando.

Ungase uzibuze njalo ukuthi I-WM Doll zikhululekile ukusebenzisa. Uma ungazi, mhlawumbe kufanele uthole ukuthi unodoli owusebenzisa embhedeni ukhululekile ngokwanele ukwanelisa zonke izidingo nezifiso zakho ezihlanya kakhulu. Uma onodoli oyisebenzisayo bengakhululekile kakhulu ukubasebenzisa, mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi sokuthi ubashintshe, kungenjalo ungase ube nezinkinga zempilo isikhathi esithile.

Lezi zonke izizathu zokuthi kungani uthenga a Unodoli Wothando kungcono kunokukhohlisa umlingani wakho. Nokho, ukuba nonodoli bocansi nakho kunobubi obuthile. Nakuba ungase ucabange ukuthi banobungane, badinga isikhathi esincane sokulungisa. Uma unganakile, kungase futhi kube umlutha. Kunomehluko phakathi kokuba nento oyifunayo kanye nokuthatheka, yiwona umehluko lapho uthenga unodoli wocansi esikhundleni sokuphuma abanye baqhathe isithandwa sakho.

Onodoli bothando-njengonodoli bethu bocansi base-Asia nabase-Thai-abawona nje ithoyizi elithuthukisiwe, bangasetshenziselwa injabulo yocansi. Ngemva kwamashumi eminyaka okusetshenziswa nolwazi lwabasebenzisi nabakhiqizi babo, imikhiqizo yanamuhla iye yathuthukiswa futhi yathuthukiswa. Izitho zangasese zabo, imilomo kanye nendunu kungokoqobo kakhulu, futhi imiklamo yabo ibukeka futhi izwakala njengalokho okubona kwabesifazane bangempela.

Angakusiza ukuthi uhlole yonke imilingo noma amaphupho akho, onodoli bothando bamanga; ezintathu; ubulili beqembu; inganikeza amatshwele namatshwele kanye nama-oda angokwezifiso. Uma umkakho noma umyeni wakho engenantshisekelo noma engakwazi ukukusiza ukuthi uhlole izifiso, izithixo noma amaphupho okungenzeka ube nawo, khona-ke onodoli bocansi base-Asia bayisixazululo esiphelele kuwe. Uthando lwakho kanye Idoli locansi lowesilisa izolalela wena kanye nezifiso zakho 100%, futhi uzokhululeka ukuhlola amaphupho akho e-craziest ngaphandle kokuvuma noma ukucabangela ukulinganiselwa noma izahlulelo zomuntu siqu zanoma ubani omunye.