Akuzona zonke izindaba zothando ezinesiphetho esihle

Umshado wabo wahlehliswa kabili. Okokuqala, yahlehliswa ubhubhane. Kwathi ngo-Okthoba 31, u-Yuri walimala emhlanganweni we-transgender eKazakhstan. Kwabe sekuthi ngoNovemba, umshado wabo osekunesikhathi eside bewulindile wagcina wenzekile. Ngaphezu kwe Unodoli wezocansi izihambeli bezihambele lo mshado ongewona owesintu. U-Yuri usebenza kakhulu ku-akhawunti yakhe. Lapho, wafaka isithombe sakhe e-tuxedo futhi wamanga ngomusa umlingani wakhe wokwenziwa. UMargot naye wagqoka ingubo elungele umcimbi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, u-Yuri uphinde wakhulula isiqeshana somdanso wabo wokuqala wothando. Kusukela lapho, bobabili baye baba nomshado ojabulisayo. U-Yuri ulayisha izithombe eziningi zazo, ezinye zazo ziseholidini noma ziyageza.

“Indaba yethu ingithakazelisa ngaphezu kocansi uqobo,” kusho le ndoda enemisipha. Uma uzibuza, umthetho waseKazakhstan udinga ukuthi abesilisa nabesifazane okungenani babe neminyaka eyi-18 ngaphambi kokuba bashade. Lokhu akusho ukuthi onodoli bocansi abafakiwe. Ngakho-ke, bashade ngokusemthethweni. Akuzona zonke izindaba zothando ezinesiphetho esijabulisayo, futhi abekho abashadikazi abahlangabezane nezinkinga ebudlelwaneni babo. Ubudlelwano phakathi kwabantu nonodoli bocansi abuhlukile.

Unodoli wakho kufanele uqale umile. Akahlale esitulweni noma okunye, aqhubeke aguqe amadolo akhe phansi, kodwa umzimba wakhe umile. Uma usunayo i Unodoli wezocansi waseJapan kuleli fomu, ungayenza ngendlela oyifisayo ukuthi ihambisane nezintandokazi zakho ezithile. Ungamvumela ancike ngodonga, eceleni kombhede, noma umvumele agobe phambili ngesandla esisodwa. Manje yisikhathi sokuba ube sendaweni. Ngalokhu, kungcono uqale ngokuma kwenja bese uzibeka esiswini sakho. Ukusuka lapho ungakwazi ukugoqa unodoli wakho wesilisa ngemilenze yakho futhi umvumele angene.

Vumela unodoli wakho alale embhedeni noma phansi imilenze yakho iqonde, ihlukene kancane, futhi amadolo agobile. Abuyisele izingalo zakhe ukuze andise ukwesekwa. Hlala phansi ubhekane nonodoli ulingise ukuma kukanodoli, ubeke imilenze yakho ezinqeni zikanodoli. Lena indawo enhle, enganikeza ama-engeli okungena ahlukene, futhi izwa kahle. Lena indawo enhle kakhulu ye-anal Unodoli wezocansi weTpe kanye nokungena okungajulile, futhi abanye besifazane bathi kuthinta indawo yabo ye-G. Ngemva kokubeka unodoli phansi noma embhedeni, vula imilenze yakho bese ugoba amadolo akho kancane. konke lokhu! Lungisa ukuma kwakho ukuze imilenze yakho igobe futhi isifuba sakho sihlale emilenzeni yakho. Uma udinga ukwesekwa okwengeziwe, sicela usebenzise izandla zakho.

Abanye baqeqeshiwe, abanye ngosomathuba abalandela isixuku bengaqeqeshwanga. Lokhu kungabangela ukungathembani kwabantu, futhi abazi njalo ukuthi bangaphendukela kubani ukuze bathole usizo. Idala isimo lapho ukuziphatha okuhlukile kocansi kufana ne-Wild West, lapho kunendawo ngokuphelele yokulawula, izindinganiso, ukuqeqeshwa okuhlelekile, kanye nezimiso zokuziphatha. "Lesi simo siholele ekudaleni abanye abantu. Lena inhlangano ekhuthaza ukusondelana kanye nokuziphatha okuqwashile kwa-Israel. Izama ukwenza okufanayo komunye umphakathi." Sekuyiminyaka engu-15 ngizama ukumisa isimiso sokuziphatha, kodwa lutho .

Othisha bafuna inkululeko yabo, kunokuba batshelwe lokho abakwazi ukukwenza nabangakwazi ukukwenza. Ngakho-ke nganquma ukusebenza ngendlela ephambene: ukufundisa nokuqeqesha abafundisi, phakathi kwezinye izinto, ukufundisa izimiso zokuziphatha, ukwelapha ukuhlukumezeka, nokuthuthukisa iziqondiso zokuziphatha zokwelashwa kokuxhumana. "Sisungule izindinganiso zokuqeqesha futhi saxazulula izinto ezingakaze zigadwe, njengokugcinwa kuyimfihlo noma isivumelwano sokucacisa okuqukethwe komhlangano. Senze indlela engakwazi ukuhlela imvume kusengaphambili ngaphandle kokuthembela emvumweni eguquguqukayo yesiguli." Amaqembu amathathu enze ukubonisana okuyisibopho ukuze athole isiqondiso nokugadwa. Lokhu kuyimpumelelo enkulu, ngoba kuze kube manje, noma ubani angasho ukuthi wenza massage unodoli omuhle wocansi ngaphandle kokuchazela noma ubani. "