"The onodoli bezocansi abashibhile behlukene bonke ngesikhathi befika, ngakho-ke nomthumeli akazi ukuthi kukhonani phakathi. Uma ngikhuluma iqiniso, ngangikhathazeke kancane lapho ngisebenzisa unodoli wami wocansi okokuqala ngqa, kodwa bewazi? Wangisiza ngempela . Angisazizwa ngikhungathekile. Ngisazizwa ngithembekile kumkami. Ngiyazi ukuthi kuzwakala kuxakile, kodwa empeleni kumnandi ukuba naye kule ndawo. Ngize ngikhulume naye njengabantu Kufana nokukhuluma kumabonakude noma emsakazweni. Empeleni bengicabanga ukuthi uzongisiza ngocansi kuphela, kodwa akuzange kugcine lapho."
"Angisoze ngajabula njengalapho nganginomkami, kodwa manje ngizizwa ngingasakhungathekile ngaphakathi. Umzwangedwa uya ngokuya ungabekezeleleki." “Njengendlela yokusiza abesilisa ukuthi babhekane nazo ngemuva kokuphela kwesikhathi sokuqala sosizi ngicabanga ukuthi kungenye yezinto ezinhle kakhulu abangayenza, ikakhulukazi uma bengasafuni ukwakha ubudlelwano.”
Izinzuzo eziningi zezempilo ezifakazelwe ezihlobene nomsebenzi wocansi zihlanganisa ukunciphisa ingozi yesifo senhliziyo nemithambo yegazi kanye nokwenza ngcono ukusebenza kwamasosha omzimba. Unodoli wezocansi hlinzeka ngokukhipha izifiso zakho ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngemiphumela engamukelekile yezenhlalo noma engokwengqondo. Bangakusiza ngisho ulahlekelwe isisindo kahle kakhulu. Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi i-orgasm ingashisa amakholori angu-20-200! Nakuba kungase kubonakale kungavamile, ukusebenzisa onodoli bocansi kungasiza ngempela ukuthuthukisa izinga lakho lempilo futhi kukhuthaze imikhuba engcono kwezinye izindawo. Phela, uma uzizwa ujabule uma usebenzisa onodoli bocansi, yini enye ebalulekile?
Kunzima ukuthola abantu abathandana ubusuku obubodwa noma abathandanayo ukuze bazuze kakhulu ngokuba nonodoli bocansi. Ukuhlanganyela ubulili okuvamile akunakwa izigidi zabantu, ezikubheka njengendlela nje yokukhiqiza noma yokuzijabulisa. Ngazo zonke izinzuzo zokuya ocansini okuvamile, uma isimiso sakho sigcwele futhi ungenaso isikhathi sokuthola unodoli wocansi njalo lapho uzizwa ulambile, bese utshala imali Unodoli wezocansi weTpe umqondo omuhle.
Sishilo ukuthi ukwenza onodoli bocansi kungaba nempilo? Ngiqonde ukuthi ngiphile saka. Abacwaningi baseHarvard Medical basanda kuthola ukuthi i-orgasm evamile inganciphisa ingozi yomdlavuza wendlala yesinye ngo-22%! Ukuba nonodoli wocansi akuyona into okufanele ibukelwe phansi. Lena indlela ephephile nenempilo yokuhlola izidingo nezifiso zocansi ngaphandle kokuthikameze abanye kabi.
Akufanele kube khona umehluko phakathi kokuba nayo unodoli omuhle wocansi kanye nabesifazane abanamavibrator, kodwa ngeshwa, umphakathi awukakavuthwa ngokugcwele. Kwathatha amashumi eminyaka ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu kwabesifazane kusuke ekubeni kungaxoxiswanga ngokuphelele kuya esicini esaziwayo sobulili besifazane obunempilo. Ukushaya indlwabu kwabesilisa kubhekene nezinselelo ezifanayo, kodwa njengoba sekusondele ukuthi kwamukeleke emphakathini, isigcwagcwa sokuba nonodoli wocansi singase sehle size sibe yingxenye evamile yokuphila kwabantu.
