Onodoli be-transgender abazange babonise ukuqiniswa kwabesifazane, kodwa badlulise umyalezo wokuthi uchungechunge lwabesifazane abashintsha ubulili luyinkundla yokudlala yocansi. Inhlangano yaseMelika ekhiqizayo Unodoli wezocansi waseJapan ibike ngamalungiselelo ayo okwenza onodoli abashintsha ubulili ngoJanuwari 2018. Labo nodoli abashintsha ubulili ngonodoli besifazane abahlukahlukene benhlangano, abaxhumene nepipi elisebenza ngokugcwele. Ngokwemibiko, onodoli bazonikeza amakhasimende abo ukuxhumana okuthakazelisa kakhulu nezingxoxo ezinganikezwa yimishini. Ngaso leso sikhathi, omunye umkhiqizi nomthengisi wocansi waseShayina waqala ukuthengisa onodoli babo abakhethekile abashintsha ubulili.
Intshisekelo yabantu ebhizinisini labonodoli besifazane iyaqhubeka nokukhula. Izinhlobonhlobo ezibizwa “ngezindlu zonodoli” njengamanje zisebenza eCanada nasezingxenyeni ezihlukene zomhlaba, zinikeza isivikelo kubantu abadinga ukuziqasha. EToronto, naphezu kokuphikisa kwabanye abenzi bomthetho nosomabhizinisi abaseduze, kwavulwa isitolo sokubhucunga onodoli bobulili. Njengoba basho, indlu yonodoli bocansi edume kabi ishayisana nomthetho wezomphakathi ovimbela ukusebenza ezindaweni zokuzijabulisa zabantu abadala. Ngokwekhasi layo lewebhu eliyimfihlo, indawo yokuthengisa ngonodoli ocansini itholakala ngobuhlakani endaweni engadalulwanga emaphethelweni edolobha-noma ngabe isemithambekeni yaseRichmond noma eMississauga.
Uma usunempilo efana nonodoli omdala, yini okufanele uyenze ukuze unakekele Unodoli wezocansi weTpe, yakha ubuhlobo naye, futhi ujabulele ukuphila kwangempela ngangokunokwenzeka? Lesi isincomo sethu: Ngokusobala, ukuthenga izingubo nezingubo zangaphansi njengonodoli omdala kuzokunikeza ulwazi oluyiqiniso kakhulu lukanodoli. Ukugqoka nokukhumula unodoli kuzosiza ukwakha ukusondelana futhi wenze unodoli wakho ubukeke njengentombazane yangempela. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokuthenga izingubo ezihlukahlukene, ungadlala kumaphupho ethu amaningi onodoli. Isibonelo, amakhasimende ethu amaningi athanda ukugqoka onodoli bawo njengabahlengikazi, amantombazane amahle noma abasizi basendizeni.
Izinwele ziyisici esibalulekile futhi zidinga ukuhlelwa kahle nokunakekelwa. Udinga ukuyigcina ihlanzekile, i-silky, ingenawo ama-tangles, futhi ibukeke njengezinwele zangempela zentombazane. Ungakwazi futhi ukumnika izinwele zezinwele ezahlukene ngendlela othanda ngayo. Lokhu kudinga umsebenzi omningi kunokugqokisa unodoli wakho izingubo ezikhangayo, kodwa kungenza umehluko. Amantombazane angempela achitha isikhathi esiningi enza izimonyo, ngokuvamile akudingeki wenzele unodoli wakho lokhu, kodwa ukusebenzisa izimonyo ezilula ezincibilika emanzini kungathuthukisa ukubukeka kwakho. unodoli omuhle wocansi.
Sanibonani niyalulangazelela ucansi kodwa akekho ongasho ukuthi ngiyakuthanda pho kungani ungakhethi unodoli wocansi wamaphupho? Ukuze ufeze amaphupho akho, sinezinhlobo ezifanele zezinto. Unodoli wocansi ongokoqobo kakhulu ungumphuphi ofanelekayo, ongakwazi ukuvakashela abesifazane abahle empilweni yangempela, kodwa onomdlandla omkhulu wokwenza umbhede ujabule ngonodoli bocansi. Kunezingosi eziku-inthanethi ezithengisa onodoli bocansi bangempela kumakhasimende angaba khona.
Thola onodoli bangempela ngamanani athengekayo, sebenzisa amagama angukhiye afanelekile ukucinga amabhizinisi akunikeza izinto ezikhangayo nezingokoqobo. onodoli bezocansi abashibhile ngamanani akhokhelekayo. Ungahlola izici zomkhiqizo nezintengo kamuva ngaphambi kokuhweba. Ezinye izinkampani zikunikeza izimpahla ozifunayo, futhi kulezi zinkampani, ungahweba kuphela ngendlela enenani lemali.
