Ngakho-ke, inkinga "onodoli bezocansi abashibhile"Akuxhomekile kuphela enanini lezenzo zocansi kanye nenani labalingani bobulili, kodwa futhi nokuthi ngabe ukuziphatha okuphoqelekile kuwe. emazweni avulekile, kuhlale kulula ukukhuluma "ngocansi" ngenxa yezizathu ezifana nesiko nenkolo.
Eqinisweni, “ucansi” lufana nokudla nokuphuza amanzi. Umlutha wocansi ufana nomuntu odla ukudla okuningi. Angase adle ilayisi elimhlophe kuphela, noma angase adle ukudla okuhlukahlukene. Kodwa-ke, asivamile ukudla futhi ngemva kokusutha, futhi imilutha yocansi ayikwazi ukuzibamba ngaphandle kokugcwalisa imilomo yabo. Imilutha yocansi ingase ibe nazo zonke izinhlobo zemicabango “yocansi” ephuphumayo ezingqondweni zazo ngezikhathi ezithile, kungaba semihlanganweni yomsebenzi, ebhasini, noma emaphathini nabangane. Mhlawumbe angisakwazi ukulinda ukuqala. Shaya indlwabu endlini yangasese noma endaweni yomphakathi lapho engekho omunye umuntu ongaya naye ocansini.
Ngokumangalisayo, nakuba abanye besifazane bengase baphikise Idoli locansi lowesilisa, abanye besifazane sebeqalile ukukwazisa ukuba khona kwabo. Okubuhlungu kakhulu kowesifazane ukubona umyeni wakhe engamnaka ngenxa yomunye wesifazane. Ukube bekungabesifazane bangempela ayegxile kubo, ubuhlungu bebungadlulela. Umhawu omsulwa lo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, labo abenza onodoli bocansi basebenze ngokuvamile banezizathu ezingcono. Isibonelo esijwayelekile siwukuthi uma behamba amabanga amade isikhathi eside futhi beshiya abayeni babo. Noma, uma bezizwa bengafaneleki ukuya ocansini olwengeziwe ngenxa yokugula okungapheli noma ubudala, umlingani wabo usafuna ukudlala ucansi. Okungenani ezintweni eziningi, bangathemba onodoli bocansi ngaphezu kwabesifazane bangempela.
Azinakushintshwa. Yebo, lokhu kuyiqiniso. Ngeke ulindele ukuthi onodoli bocansi bakhulelwe bese bezala. Abanakho konke okudingekayo kukho konke ukukhulelwa kanye nenqubo yokuzalwa okuhle. Khumbula ukuthi zingezokwenziwa, akukho okunye. Onodoli bocansi bangamathoyizi ocansi; abanawo amahomoni angokomzwelo alawula imizwelo yomuntu. Akekho Unodoli wezocansi waseJapan kuyo. Ngakho-ke, kunoma yikuphi, bayohlala begcina isimo sengqondo esivamile. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abantu kumelwe babe nokushintshashintsha kwemizwelo ngaso sonke isikhathi ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Uma unodoli ongokoqobo ohlala emamatheka, uzokwenza impilo yakhe yonke.
Onodoli bocansi bakuhlinzeka ngozakwenu ukuze wabelane ngezikhathi eziphansi kakhulu empilweni yakho lapho kungenamuntu oqaphelayo. Imvamisa, isizungu sizokugcina uqhelelane nesixuku, futhi ukuba nonodoli wocansi olingana nempilo okuzungezile kungakwenza uzizwe uthandwa futhi ubekezelelwa. Ngokungafani nabangane bakho, unodoli wocansi uzolalela, akasoze akwehlulela, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, uzohlala ekunikeza indawo ephephile yokuthululela isifuba kuwe.
Abanikazi be Unodoli wezocansi weTpe bavume ukuthi bathola onodoli babo bevinjelwe kalula ngoba iningi labo lisize abanikazi babo ukuba banqobe izikhathi ezimbi kakhulu ekuphileni kwabo. Ngakho-ke ungabe usazihlukanisa nawe—uma uzivumelanisa nezimo futhi ulwa nokudangala, zinikeze unodoli wocansi ofana nempilo.
