Cishe eminyakeni embalwa edlule, lapho ngineminyaka engu-24 noma engu-25, abangane nabesifazane abaseduze kwami baqala ukushada futhi babe nobuhle, futhi izwi elithi "ukushada ngaphambi kwe-30" lalivame ukuvela. Ikakhulukazi nakuba ngike ngacabanga ukuthi ngibe nobuhle noma ngingabaze ngoba ngifuna ukugxila ezifundweni zami. Ngicabanga ukuthi "ukukhulelwa" kuyisenzakalo esikhulu esithinta ukuphila, ngakho-ke umqondo wokudala le timu wazalwa. Uma indoda yenza ucansi ne I-WM Doll embhedeni, kuzwakala sengathi unentombazane yangempela. Yingakho ucansi nalaba nodoli kungenye yezinto eziyintandokazi yamadoda amaningi emhlabeni jikelele.
"Amadodana aphila impilo yawo, nami nginempilo yawo, kodwa uma ephuma ngemva komngcwabo, ngizizwa nginesizungu. Yebo, nginabo abangani bami futhi ngisebenza ukuze ngihlale ngimatasa, kodwa uma ngibuyela ekhaya njalo ebusuku, ngiba nomuzwa wokuthi ngiyahamba ebusuku." Akekho endlini." U-Steven Shubin, umsunguli we-"Flurdollshlight", wayehileleke emkhakheni wonodoli bokwenziwa kusukela ngo-1995. Njengomuntu onobuchule nobuchwepheshe kakhulu, wake wafaka isicelo selungelo lobunikazi le-mannequin egcwele i-elastomer enamafutha.
Kamuva, wafaka isicelo selungelo lobunikazi kwenye yezinto azisungula ngo-1996, eyagcina ibizwa ngokuthi "Flurdollshlight". Onodoli bobulili bokwenziwa kobuhlakani Ngakho-ke, yini esiyilindele ngonodoli bocansi abasezingeni eliphezulu esikhathini esizayo? Uma sicabanga ngamathuba ahlukahlukene, sizothola ukuthi eminyakeni emi-5 ezayo, abakhiqizi bazogcina beklame onodoli bocansi ngobuhlakani bokwenziwa. Amathuba awapheli. Ubuhlakani bokwenziwa buhlinzeka ngemisebenzi ehlukahlukene ngokufunda komshini nohlelo lwe-algorithm.
Zenzelwe ukubona nokuphendula imiyalo yezingxoxo empilweni yangempela. Izinkampani ezinkulu ezifuywayo zinabasebenzi abaqashwe ngokugcwele abangaphezu kwe-100, futhi zisebenza kanzima ukuze zande ukuze zikwazi ukunxenxa abasebenzi abaningi futhi zinikeze abasebenzi ngenxa yesidingo esikhulayo sabasebenzi. onodoli bezocansi abashibhile. Ukusondelana kungenye yezinto ezibalulekile empilweni yomuntu. Ukungabikho kwabo kungenza abantu bazizwe becindezelekile, becindezelekile futhi benesizungu.
Ngakho-ke, umqondo wodoli ongokoqobo wethulwa futhi waletha injabulo kubantu abaningi. Lokhu kuyiqiniso! Iningi lamakhasimende e-Aiwawa ngamadoda. Lokhu akusho ukuthi isisekelo samakhasimende asihlukile. Abasebenzisa labo nodoli basemhlabeni wonke, futhi bayahluka kakhulu ekukhetheni ubulili, imali engenayo, umsebenzi, nezinye izici. Ziningi izizathu zokuthi kungani amadoda angama-gay athenge onodoli besifazane, kodwa esivame kakhulu ubumnandi.
Indoda eyisitabane ithenga into engokoqobo tpe sex unodoli ukuthola injabulo ephakeme kunokumane uzishaye indlwabu. Ngakho-ke, ama-urdoll abuze, ngubani owasungula unodoli ophefumulayo kanye nonodoli wocansi? Amarekhodi ahlobene ngaphambilini avele eFrance. Ngokwesibonelo, umagazini wesiFulentshi othi “Sex Life in Our Time” ngo-1908 wakhuluma ngonodoli bobulili abenziwe ngenjoloba nepulasitiki, ngisho nokukhipha isidoda kungalingiswa ngomklamo ohlakaniphile.
