"Umgunyathi"thanda unodoli akhiqizwa amafekthri angaziwa ngokuvamile enziwa ngesikhunta esintshontshiwe. Uma ungabhekisisi, bangase bafane ncamashi nabantu bangempela, kodwa uzothola ukuthi bahlukile futhi ngeke babe unodoli ofanayo. lo mqondo. Ukuqeda, amasu okubumba, izinto ezisetshenziswayo, izithambisa, kanye nemininingwane kanye nokwakheka kukanodoli wokugcina konke kuhluke kakhulu. Lona futhi umsuka wegama elidala elithi "umfazi waseDutch", okuvame ukubizwa ngokuthi unodoli wocansi.
Abanye abantu baze bacabange ngabo njengonodoli bothando nonodoli bangempela. Noma ngabe ubheke ngabomvu ukuthenga onodoli bocansi be-silicone abadumile e-York nanoma yiluphi olunye uhlobo lonodoli, kubalulekile ukuqonda amaqiniso omlando. Kodwa kubonakala sengathi amadoda ayiqembu elikhulu labathengi bonodoli bobulili besifazane abanomzwelo. Lokhu kusitshelani ngobulili, amandla, namasiko? Kungabhekwa ukuthi lolu bandlululo olukhulu luvela emandleni abesilisa, noma ukuthi abesilisa bakhathele ukwaliwa kwabesifazane futhi baphendukela onodoli bocansi.
Ezinye iziphetho zingafinyelelwa ngokubuka izingxoxo ezithile nabanikazi bonodoli bocansi kudokhumentari ye-BBC. Indlela ngokwezifiso. Njengomthengi wesilisa, ukhetha ukubukeka okuthile? Ukujabulele ukuzama izinhlanga ezahlukene? Uma kunjalo, unodoli wokuthola uyinketho ebalulekile yokuthola ukubukeka okufunayo. Ungamane wenze usesho olusheshayo ku-Google, futhi uzothola ukuthi ziningi izinhlobo ze unodoli ocansini we-Japan.
Ngenhlanhla, kukhona amamodeli athile angalungiswa ukuze ahlangabezane nokuthandwa okuhlukile nokuthandwayo. Khumbula ukuthi umlutha we-porn ungaba nemiphumela elimazayo kubantu ngabanye nemindeni yabo. Iningi labo lizochitha isikhathi esiningi licabanga ngezithombe ezingcolile, libuka izithombe ezingcolile futhi lizama ukusebenzisa izinsiza ezihlukahlukene ukuze lithole noma yini ehlobene nechweba. Okubi kakhulu, uzoqala ukunganaki umsebenzi, ozakwabo, umndeni nabangane. Lapho umuntu esothandweni, ukuba umlutha wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kwenza kube nzima ngaye ukuvuswa umlingani.
Abanye abantu bayincisha intshisekelo ephansi yabalingani babo ezenzweni zocansi. Uma lokhu kuyindaba yakho, ukukhetha i-Aiwawa nakanjani kuyisinqumo sakho esihle kakhulu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, u-Aiwawa angasiza ngisho neminye imibhangqwana, ngoba bamatasa emsebenzini futhi ngokuvamile abakwazi noma kunzima ukuhlela isikhathi sokulala nabalingani babo. Ubuwazi ukuthi ngabantu namahlengethwa kuphela ajabulela ukukhwelana? Kokubili abantu namahlengethwa benza uthando nabalingani babo ukuze bazijabulise ngokocansi, kuyilapho wonke amanye amahlengethwa ahlangana ukuze azalane. Ngakho-ke, kuyiqiniso ukuthi abantu bazalelwa uthando.
Kodwa-ke, kulempilo yanamuhla ematasatasa nemishado eyanda ngokwedlulele, "ucansi" luvame ukuba yindikimba yesibili, futhi uzizwe ungakwazi ukugculisa isifiso sakho sobulili. Ngakho-ke, i- unodoli wobulili we-anime iqala ukwenza ukuze ikuthande futhi ibe umngane wakho omkhulu ekuphileni kwakho konke. Ekuqaleni, lapho abantu bekhuluma ngabo, into yokuqala ababecabanga ngayo kwakungelona ubungane, ngoba labo nodoli bobulili abanjengokuphila ekuqaleni babehlangene nezifiso zabantu.
Kodwa-ke, uhlobo lonodoli abaphathekayo alukona nje ukuhlinzeka onodoli emphakathini. Ngokuphambene nalokho, benza onodoli, njengesidingo sokuhlinzeka ngokuboshwa ngokomzwelo, onodoli bobulili bomuntu nabo bayindlela enhle yokuxazulula isizungu. Nokho, lesi akusona isimangalo kuphela. Uma isekelwe kwezinye izimfundiso, impendulo ingase ihluke ngokuphelele. Isibonelo, abantu abazimele kakhulu kanye nabakhululekile ngokuvamile bahlukanisa phakathi "komgomo wenkululeko" kanye nomgomo othi "ungalimazi abanye". Ngokwalezi zimiso ezimbili, kufanele kwamukeleke ukuthandana nonodoli wocansi. Ngoba lena inkululeko yomuntu siqu futhi ngeke ilimaze abanye. Njengoba kungabathinti abanye, lokhu kuziphatha kufanele kwamukeleke. Kuthiwani ngawe? Ucabanga ukuthi kwamukelekile? yisiphi isizathu?
