Lapho udlula ekuphumeni, kubalulekile futhi ukukhetha inketho yokuthenga elula ezinkethweni eziningi ezitholakalayo. Kungaba kuhle uma ukhetha indlela yokukhokha elula ukuze ukwazi ukwenza izinkokhelo ezilula nezisheshayo. Njengesidingo se I-WM Doll ukwanda, kubonakala sengathi imboni yonodoli bobulili ngeke ibuyele emuva esikhathini esifushane. Okubaluleke nakakhulu, okuwukuphela kwento ezoshintsha ubuciko obuyinkimbinkimbi nezinto ezisetshenziselwa ukwenza onodoli ukwenza isithombe sabo sibe ngokoqobo.
Khona manjalo, njengoba udaba lokulinganiswa kwabesilisa nabesifazane eShayina nasemhlabeni wonke lugqama kakhulu, nalo mkhakha uyadlondlobala. Ingabe ufuna umuntu onganelisa isifiso sakho sokuya ocansini futhi akunikeze injabulo enkulu yokuphila? I-Aiwawa inezinzuzo eziningi zokwelapha, isibonelo, isiza ukukhulula ukucindezeleka nokukhathazeka. Eqinisweni, kuyasiza ukwenza uthando, kwandisa izinga le-oxytocin ebuchosheni, futhi kukwenza uzizwe ujabule. Uma uya ocansini nonodoli, ubuchopho bakho bukhipha "i-hug hormone", okuyisizathu esiyinhloko esenza uzizwe ujabule ocansini.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, lo tpe sex unodoli ingumngane ophelele wabantu abaphethwe ukucindezeleka kanye ne-autism. Ihlala ihamba nabo, iba umlingani wabo wokulala, futhi ekugcineni isiza umuntu ukuba athuthukise impilo yakhe. Zingaba yisixazululo esiphelele, ikakhulukazi uma ubuhlobo bakho bangaphambili bukulethela ukudabuka nosizi olukhulu. Unodoli wocansi oyinganekwane ongu-140 cm omkhethayo e-United States uzohlala enjengoba enjalo futhi emuhle uze umhambise ekhaya.
Ngale ndlela, ungakwazi futhi ukukuvikela kude nezifo eziningi ezithathelwana ngocansi, ezaziwa ngokuthi ama-STI. Ingabe niphatha onodoli bocansi njengamalungu omndeni? Onodoli bocansi abanjengokuphila bathatha indawo nokwaneliseka kwempilo yangempela, kodwa bafana kakhulu nothando lwesayensi yezokusebenza kwengqondo, kodwa bathambekele kakhulu ekubeni nobuntu nokulawula. Abanye abantu bangase bakhungatheke ekuphileni kwangempela, kunzima ukusungula ubuhlobo bangempela obungcono, noma ezinye zezidingo ezingokwengqondo empeleni azihlangabezwana, ngakho le ngxenye yephupho inganeliseka emhlabeni obonakalayo.
Khumbula, ukwenza ngokwezifiso unodoli wocansi kwenziwa nguwe ukuze ubonise ukubukeka okufunayo, kodwa udinga ukusebenzisa izinto eziyisisekelo kunodoli. Ngaphambi kokuthenga, kufanele uzibuze imibuzo embalwa. Abathwebuli bezithombe baseJalimane uSandra no-Dirk bahlangana ku-inthanethi. Ngemva kokufunda ngesimo sakhe, uSandra wanquma ukuthatha isithombe sakhe ukuze aqophe ukuphila kuka-Dirk nomkakhe we-silicone. Ekuqaleni, u-Dirk wayeqaphe kakhulu, esaba ukuthi imfihlo yakhe izotholwa ngabanye, futhi bazombiza ngokuthi uphendukezela.
Kodwa ngemuva kokuxhumana, u-Dirk wavuma ukudubula, kodwa wacela ukungavezi ubuso bakhe futhi angasebenzisi igama lakhe langempela. Uthenge i-top-notch futhi enhle ngendlela emangalisayo futhi engokoqobo onodoli bezocansi abashibhile ngokwakho; siyakuhalalisela. Kodwa njengazo zonke ezinye izinto ezibonakalayo ekuphileni, udinga ukunakekela unodoli wakho wocansi ukuze umgcine esesimweni esihle kakhulu futhi wandise impilo yakhe yeshalofu.
Okubalulwe ngezansi ezinye zezindlela onganakekela ngazo futhi unakekele unodoli wakho ongokoqobo. Umuntu ohlakaniphile uhlale ecabanga kakhulu ngezinto eziningi ezinhle angakwazi ukuzenza. Kulezo zinto eziyingqayizivele nemisebenzi okufanele uyizame, isibhakabhaka asinamkhawulo. Kufanele futhi ucabangele ukwakha kakhudlwana empilweni yakho. Ungathatha izifundo zobuciko noma zomculo, lapho ungafunda khona ukudlala insimbi noma wazise imisebenzi yobuciko.
